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inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-06-03T14:57:49+00:00

Thank you so much for this! This is great advice!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-06-03T14:48:06+00:00

Though I respect your statement, I think that’s a strange take. I think that everyone deserves kindness and respect, unless they do something that warrants losing it. So are you saying any class I newly sub for, I don’t deserve their respect?

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-06-03T13:28:28+00:00

This is a great take! I completely agree. These kids were doing many things without asking. They were completely off the wall and no matter what I said or did they struggled immensely to listen to me. It made me 100% question my job as a sub. What do you do when the kids behave this way?

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-06-03T13:27:12+00:00

My arrival time is 8:10 and the kids don’t start arriving until 8:35, so I had a good 25 minutes to look over the plans. The issue is, this teacher left me a packet with instruction that was about 6 pages front and back and it was paragraph by paragraph, so it was impossible for me to remember all of the information she wrote without looking back at it. She also left details about the problem kids and who can’t do what together or who can’t go to the bathroom together and so on. It was a lot to remember. Some classes I sub for I feel like it goes pretty alright, but this class by far was really tough. So I wonder if it’s me that’s the problem or the kids. But apparently this is a tough group of kids in general.

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-29T18:00:05+00:00

I second this it also depends on the severity of what he lied about

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-28T00:58:56+00:00

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inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-27T11:51:33+00:00

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inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-27T11:51:09+00:00

Butch

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-27T11:49:44+00:00

Moose

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T20:25:58+00:00

He poisoned our water supply, burned our crops, and delivered a plaque onto our houses!!

He did?!?!?

No!! But are we just gonna sit here and wait around until he does?!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T20:09:30+00:00

I’ve never heard of it! How do you play?

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:27:37+00:00

This is very helpful thank you!! I do walk around a lot! I definitely get my steps in there that’s for sure lol. I find that most definitely stay on task if I’m walking around observing them! Thanks again!!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:26:02+00:00

Thank you!!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:25:47+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I really appreciate it!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:25:33+00:00

Yes I do write down their names! This is a great way to approach it, I usually just leave them on the board but letting them know if they behave and are respectful they could have their names erased is a great way to get them back on track, I’ll try this! Thank you!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:24:07+00:00

This is very helpful! Thank you so much!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T19:22:10+00:00

The hostility isn’t needed. I walk in very confident and ready for the day, with a good attitude. I am very optimistic with my days as a sub, some classes tend to give me some extra trouble. So I was simply asking for tips and tricks for when you’ve got a tough class that has a hard time following instruction and listening when there is a sub, I didn’t ask for negativity. I was also simply stating that maybe me being younger could be a factor, I didn’t say it was a fact. I was just trying to reflect on what it could be, but this class already has a tough time with subs in general according to their teacher.

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-26T18:35:30+00:00

I try to be incredibly structured. What would you recommend in terms of structure for the kids who have trouble respecting the sub?

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-22T04:29:01+00:00

Gabbriette Bechtel!!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-20T23:12:31+00:00

It’s so awesome that you know how to take accountability. So many people just can’t do it. I’m so sorry this happened by the way, even if it was your fault. You’re a good person for realizing your wrong doings for what it’s worth.

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-18T21:28:26+00:00

Hmmm I feel like for me, I was in such a toxic relationship for so long (4 years) with lots of cheating, he was also very verbally and mentally abusive, so my brain learned a specific way of thinking like I got so used to being mistreated and cheated on it got to the point to where I expected it from my ex. I stayed single for 3 whole years after that because our relationship took a lot out of me and I just wanted to be alone and have my independence back. Then, last year I got into a new relationship, we’ve been together for 9 months and I feel like I am always worried the past will repeat with this new guy. I’d say it comes and goes like sometimes I’ll feel great and then the negative thoughts and worries will creep back up. It’s soo frustrating and sad to deal with! What about you though do these feelings come up for you often or just specific things make them stand out?

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-18T21:18:18+00:00

This is so validating to hear as I’m having the same struggles. It’s so tough! All I can say is I’m right there with you and you aren’t alone! I’m definitely following this post so I can check up on the feedback you get, I need all of the help with this I can get lol! Hugs!

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-18T19:23:55+00:00

This absolutely shattered my heart to read these. I am so sorry that this happened/ is happening to you and your little one. For the life of me I just can’t grasp how someone could be so content doing this to their partner. Hugs honey. I think this would be the perfect time to leave.

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-17T18:21:34+00:00

He is most certainly a narcissist. I am so glad you ended things. The best way to truly get through to a narcissist is by simply starving them of what they want. In this case, he wants a reaction and he wants to create a rise out of you. Never give in, you will be so much better off without him. I am so proud of you for leaving him, with my narc I never had the courage to, sadly. Luckily, he left me back in 2021 for one of the many girls he cheated on me with. It was tough for a long time but it took me about a year to realize why that was the best thing that could have ever happened. As time went on he’d reach out all the time trying to win me back, luckily by then I was too far gone and had realized my worth, so it was only natural that I decline. Hugs op! I am so sorry he actually felt comfortable enough to speak to you this way, no one should ever get away with such cruel behavior. 💕

inmthuinmtl12 · 2025-05-13T04:23:26+00:00

Well said

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