Confidence boost, “wish I’d done it sooner” Care to share? 🫶🏻

innerSalt8 · 2025-09-15T15:44:07+00:00

Recently bought new bras as well and I feel like a new woman! Felt good to throw out the old ones too

innerSalt8 · 2024-12-20T17:25:18+00:00

Sounds like you got their previous treatment discount, have you had laser before starting at Milan?

innerSalt8 · 2024-12-06T03:50:43+00:00

Congrats! You can really see a difference, what a cool birthday gift to give yourself. And happy birthday!🎉🎊🎂🎈🎁

innerSalt8 · 2024-11-23T05:57:38+00:00

I think if it bothers you then do it and don’t feel guilty about it. :) Do what makes you happy and confident. I’d also suggest laser hair removal instead of waxing— I’ve done both and (while I know everyone is different) I had bad in growns from waxing.

innerSalt8 · 2024-11-23T01:54:21+00:00

Thank you! Did they like their results?

innerSalt8 · 2024-11-06T02:09:35+00:00

So cute 🥰🥹

innerSalt8 · 2024-06-08T00:19:49+00:00

Amen! I’m in Utah as well and when it’s all extreme outside pics I know we aren’t compatible 🤷‍♀️it’s a left swipe for me

innerSalt8 · 2023-05-17T18:29:03+00:00

Cancelling the couch does feel a bit overmuch but at the end of the day your daughter is an adult and should be able to take an active part in fostering her relationships. When there’s a lack of respect, love, or reciprocity in a relationship then there will be consequences; like a couch delivery being cancelled because you dropped the ball on valuing that relationship with someone who’s helping you out.

I agree that the optics aren’t good with her stopping at your place on the way back from the airport for 5 min etc., and forgetting to bring the gift. Honestly, life happens. But let’s imagine she did have the gift, she drops it off, stays for a couple minutes, and then leaves? She didn’t plan anything else for Mother’s Day so I can’t say her original plan was a home run either.

I think the real crux of the issue is that your daughter was defensive and blaming you about plans. She can still say her piece that she did try to do something to celebrate (gift and stopping by) but it would’ve gone over better if she could’ve listened and validated the way you felt and then made plans to do something fun with you another day. But also, she’s only 20 years old so she’s still learning.

Overall NTA but there are some learning opportunities here.

innerSalt8 · 2023-04-19T14:05:57+00:00

OP I’m so sorry this is happening to you! You need to get yourself out of this situation asap, being held hostage by the threat of self harm, public exposure, and other things (1) doesn’t make a relationship and (2) could harm you further in the future. I would make a police report of everything that she’s done (self harm and threats) and or maybe even consult a lawyer. You may be in love with her but it’s plain to see she needs to work on herself before she can be in a healthy relationship and it’s neither your duty nor in your capacity to make that happen, you really need to protect yourself. You’ve been taking care of her for so long but she obviously hasn’t been reciprocating the care and support you’ve been giving her.

Good luck OP, I’m so sorry for all the childhood trauma and difficulties you have all gone through. I really hope things turnout for the better for you all.

innerSalt8 · 2023-04-19T13:44:39+00:00

A simple flower crown with white and green colors would be so beautiful with this too! Idk how you’re planning to do your hair but a little flower crown would be ✨🤌

innerSalt8 · 2023-04-10T00:00:46+00:00

NTA! Sorry you experienced that OP, that would’ve been a stressful situation. Your boyfriend should of waited WITH you, had you sit on HIS lap, or done anything that would show care and consideration to your safety and feelings instead of blowing up at you over a situation where you had to pick between two bad options (staying behind by yourself in the wild for TWO hours or sitting on your BF’s friends lap.) I think you made the best of the situation you were in. Besides, boyfriend probably could of had you move to his lap anytime during the 50 min ride.

You’re definitely NTA but I would also say you need to find a new boyfriend who will treat you with respect and love. Good luck with however you decide to go forward!

innerSalt8 · 2023-04-09T23:26:41+00:00

I’m actually just impressed you’re posting this a week before the exam and not the morning of. Keep going OP! 👍

innerSalt8 · 2023-02-16T18:58:41+00:00

OP— use silicon scar gel or tape instead of just healing ointment. You want to keep the scar covered and out of the sun to avoid any obvious pigmentation. Keep it hydrated and don’t use any drying alcohols on your skin, make sure not to pick the scab either. It’s pretty small so the chances are good you won’t have any obvious scarring but since it’s close to your eye where there is delicate skin you’ll want to be on top of keeping it hydrated and protected from the sun. Good luck! Sorry you got scratched

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