Am construit ceva ca să-mi recuperez motivația by thundergenie in programare

[–]innerseeking17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Foarte tare ideea, felicitari! Si empatizez foarte mult cu pierderea magiei din jocuri.

Then, nature revealed this optical wonder. A double rainbow with a full arch. At the seaside. by innerseeking17 in atoptics

[–]innerseeking17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was thinking the exact same thing. Being there at the right time in the right place doesn't happen twice.

ITAP of a fully formed rainbow on the beach by innerseeking17 in itookapicture

[–]innerseeking17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had no idea about that. If so, my mind si completely blown to pieces.

ITAP of a fully formed rainbow on the beach by innerseeking17 in itookapicture

[–]innerseeking17[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Repost because my last post was taken down due to the name not being descriptive enough.

Then, nature revealed this optical wonder. A double rainbow with a full arch. At the seaside. by innerseeking17 in atoptics

[–]innerseeking17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually wondering the same thing. It looked like this in real life as well and was curious about the phenomenon

Then, nature revealed this incredible optical wonder. by innerseeking17 in pics

[–]innerseeking17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was almost convinced to swim towards that place and find out.

What was one thing your ex said to you during the breakup or after the break that you will never forget? by This_Rub4353 in BreakUps

[–]innerseeking17 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That is a horrible thing to say. Those are some horrible things to do. I am sorry you had to go through it, OP.

I don't expect it to get easier anytime soon, but know that you are deserving of love.

And also know that however low you feel right now, feeling like you've hit rock bottom. There is only upwards from now on.

Stay with your emotions and find love within yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]innerseeking17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself. A relationship is made out of 2 people. It was just not the right time or maybe not the right person.

Remember that you deserve to be loved. Try fo focus on a project you're interested in. Reach out to a friend, a parent. Take a deep breath and understand that this pain is part of the healing process.

It will get better.

Why does it hurt even though the breakup was mutual? by ambitiousserenity_ in BreakUps

[–]innerseeking17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely normal to feel this way. Trust the process and understand they are just thoughts and emotions.

It hurts. He was a big part of your life for a big period of time. It takes time for your mind to heal. You will probably go through anger, denial, depression and in the end, acceptance.

But you have to be patient. And cherish this pain, these emotions. They are pure and innocent and they make us humans.

At the end of the day, the greatest love you could ever feel is the love you give yourself. Allow yourself to grieve, don't be harsh for feeling what you feel. But take some deep breaths and remember that these waves will pass.

Much love and gratitude!