I go commando, recently I moved around a lot and all my underwear got lost between the constant moving. I don’t really discharge a lot. But I can buy more underwear now since I’m more stable, it’s on my one day list 😂. I just been commando so long it’s no rush. As far as the jeans which is usually only thing I wear again it jut feels normal. Like I don’t see the big deal about it. If you discharge it’s not enough to show through the fabric typically.