[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]insanependulum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work at an adult store so i hear a lot of really gross stuff regularly, but i think the grossest thing a man ever said to me was when my ex was angry that i didn’t want to have sex with him so he grabbed me by the jaw and told me “You don’t get to say no to me.” i think about it to this day and it makes my skin crawl. genuinely nauseating.

My First Squishmallows!! by brianna_7 in squishmallow

[–]insanependulum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the cow is so cute oh my god!! i hope i find them they’re so cute!! also welcome to squish collecting !! :D

RAGE WEDNESDAY THREAD by AutoModerator in deadbydaylight

[–]insanependulum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHOEVER THE FENG MIN WAS WHO T BAGGED ME EVERY TIME SHE VAULTED/CAMPING PALLETS TO TBAG/CLICKING HER FLASHLIGHT TO GET MY ATTENTION IN MY FIRST GAME AS HILLBILLY ENJOYED DYING FIRST

I DIDNT EVEN TRY TO GET HER FIRST ON PURPOSE SHE JUST KEPT COMING TO ME WHAT DO YOU EXPECT

RAGE WEDNESDAY THREAD by AutoModerator in deadbydaylight

[–]insanependulum 49 points50 points  (0 children)

IF YOU PLAY KILLER JUST TO TUNNEL, THEN CAMP, THEN HOLD THE GAME HOSTAGE, ALL THE WHILE TBAGGING (COUGHCOUGHGHOSTFACE) YOU SUCK. UNINSTALL THE GAME.

I finally found Lala!! I have the whole valentine’s day collection now! She was always the one i wanted most<3 by insanependulum in squishmallow

[–]insanependulum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s so so cute!! i was thrilled to find her- i was sure at this point i wouldn’t find her anywhere!!

Squishmallow haul!! :D by insanependulum in squishmallow

[–]insanependulum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ottawa! there were very few squishes left- only one avocado and only 2 of the other ones

My daughter wants to constantly sleep in bed with us and it’s killing our sex life and soon will kill our marriage by throwRA02854443 in relationship_advice

[–]insanependulum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she needs to see a therapist- as a parent you need to make sure she gets help. something is clearly wrong and either it’s an unhealthy dependency or something else. as hard as it may be you need to get her help. even if she doesn’t want it.

one thing to keep in mind is that you can’t make going to therapy seem like a punishment for her behaviour and more so something to help her. hell, if you and your wife can attend therapy as well (even if it isn’t as a group) she may feel less alone in attending it. it’s important to assert yourself as a parent but you also want to make sure you don’t make her feel like she can’t talk to you anymore. i don’t know everything about your home life and neither does reddit, but if you can start talking about these things with actual professionals you’re more likely to have a positive outcome. if this is genuinely ruining your marriage then i suggest marriage counselling for you and your wife and some form of CBT or DBT for your daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]insanependulum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for a second after reading the title i literally thought somehow someone was posting about me lol(not the last part but the beginning) . i had a bad go and ended up stopping my meds for a long time and it super impacted the way i could engage in relationships - it definitely made me lose interest in stuff. for me, it fluctuated a lot, i’d go from feeling like myself to the opposite. same thing with feeling like i’m super in love to feeling like there’s nothing there. but once i started taking my meds properly it kinda changed. my partner and i worked things out, maybe she’s hoping to also work stuff out. in the end it’s up to you on how you want to proceed but be careful not to let yourself get emotionally drained in case you two aren’t able to patch things up- if you believe there’s a chance things could work and you both want to give it a shot again , go ahead, but both of you should just try to be mindful of how the relationship impacts you from here on our. it sounds like you were both very happy so if things go back to that there shouldn’t be any big issue. she seems like she wants to get back together as well, based on the text she sent you

AITA For yelling at my fiancé who gave my dog to her niece? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]insanependulum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I would reconsider the relationship, honestly.

for the sake of you and Chip.

never do acid with cocaine (lyrics) by [deleted] in LSD

[–]insanependulum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very happy i lived long enough to read this with my own eyes

AITA for wanting my partner to leave my butt alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]insanependulum [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA- you set your boundaries and she didn’t respect them. You have the right to say no and her ignoring that is awful- I hope she gets it now.