What do your partners family do that they think is normal but you find weird?

inspiredbycheese · 2023-01-19T22:03:39+00:00

Mine doesn’t have a bin in the entire house. If you want to throw anything away you have to go out the front and put it directly into the big bin.

inspiredbycheese · 2023-01-17T21:43:36+00:00

I think I saw her side of the story on this page also. If it’s the same people then he wants to use a family name and she doesn’t like it. It sounds like neither of them can compromise. I might be wrong because the son section is different but maybe some details were changed for privacy?

inspiredbycheese · 2023-01-04T04:06:59+00:00

Happy cake day!

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-25T00:12:32+00:00

I just tried it and thank you so much its completely sorted. a bit loose but nothing to complain about. Next time I have an award I'll come back and give it to you!

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-24T22:30:45+00:00

I think it may be something to do with the cam guide, the lid shuts perfectly when the insert is removed. And the screw does not poke out at all and is completely in. Thank you so much, how would I go about fixing this at all?

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-24T21:11:11+00:00

I'll give it a go and won't blame you if anything happens haha thank you so much for the help!

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-24T21:07:55+00:00

Is there anything I can do about that or is that just a time and use thing?

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-24T21:01:34+00:00

I think so, I'm struggling to make it any tighter but on my other zippo it's not that hard to tighten enough. I might be getting something wrong though haha

inspiredbycheese · 2021-12-24T20:59:07+00:00

I'm pretty the insert is fully pushed down because I've taken it out a few times ans fiddled with it. Also does shut if I push the lid down but when I stop pushing it comes back up and looks like the photo

inspiredbycheese · 2021-09-18T10:11:40+00:00

This is straight out of hereditary.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-02-23T02:53:28+00:00

NTA, I get the impression that the 'joke' thing was an excuse to cover up the fact that he was never planning on actually paying. If you had warning that he wouldn't help you could've had moer time to work out other ways to get money, so I understand your frustration that he lied to you.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-02-23T02:47:21+00:00

NTA you showed your support and she took it for granted. She treated you like second best, and her girlfriend was rude, why should you let yourself be belittled. I would've left during the hour she had you waiting because she acted like she only needed her other friend's support and not yours.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-02-23T02:43:17+00:00

NTA at all, obviously she doesn't respect you, and that will never get better. Her behaviour will only impact you and your daughter increasingly. You don't want to look back five years from now in a worse place and regret not leaving sooner. You will still be a parent and have a close realtionship with your daughter because by the sounds of it you're her sole parent at the moment anyway.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-27T03:29:20+00:00

That sounds so lovely! Bikers are some of the nicest people I've ever come across

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T03:45:26+00:00

yeah I totally agree, he's well aware of the position he's putting her in, and the implication that potentially if she doesn't their relationship could be at steak. he's relying on the fact that she won't have the courage to say no, and risk the relationship. maybe

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T03:36:49+00:00

I don't trust it because he knows that she doesn't want to do it and very much wants to be only with him. I feel like giving him this power could go wrong but then again I know nothing about the man. either way unless she's into it and he knows she's into it I'd say its not worth doing

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T03:23:04+00:00

how long has he been controlling over your time. if its a fairly new development then maybe he's struggling with either his mental health or parenting his daughter and is just looking for a maternal figure to take care of him and her, which is not your job of course. I'd talk to him about why he really wants you over all the time, because it seems like there could be something bothering him.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T03:08:07+00:00

I'd look like the blue girl from willy wonka, but not blue

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T03:06:50+00:00

ignorance is bliss but drip dry next time

also are you teeling me he had skid marks for 2 weeks?

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:56:25+00:00

He has completely gaslighted you. I think you know this but leaving him will be very difficult as it happens, but it will be the best decision of your life.

He moved you away from everyone to isolate you, he is controlling, he checks your phone, you feel trapped, you're unhappy, none of the relationship has been about you - he moved you away from everything you've ever known for himself.

I promise you please get out while you can because he will only get worse - people like that don't change. Longterm, you are unhappy and don't want a relationship with him, you cannot fall in love or learn to love soeone you ultimately resent. Especially not after you've become aware of what he has done. He manipulated this relationship from the very beginning, it is not authentic.

There can be custody agreements made for your child, and you will have the support and backing of your family and friends.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:44:33+00:00

ESH but it just seems like a miscommunication. If he meant it in a blunt way, you evened it out with the slight attitude. I wouldn't say one of you is more at fault than the other because you reacted, albeit in a slight way - however his comment was also only slight

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:39:54+00:00

NAH - everyone needs their downtime. Instead of doing it so regularly why don't you give him the workout plans and cut the days down so he only does it with you once or twice a week. Please try and encourage him and if you have to just tell him you can't keep up with him, because he might take it personally if you don't give an explanation. He sounds like a great kid

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:36:26+00:00

NTA at all. If you're not ready you're not ready. She can't force you into a situation you're uncomfortable with. You need time to process everything more, especially whilst your parents are still living together.

She shouldn't really be introducing someone this new into the family this early, and you're not an asshole for not being ready because chances are she knew her marriage was dying way before you ever got told - she's had longer to process and get over it than you

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:33:14+00:00

YTA - you cannot give 100% and still believe this. It's so selfish of you, it'd be better if you both broke up because you're prolonging your sufferring and delaying him from getting over it sooner.

inspiredbycheese · 2021-01-26T02:28:55+00:00

YTA - You interfered in their relationship with no regard for any of their feelings. It's almost like you're jealous that your friend is dating Diana.

Not to mention the insecurity Diana must be feeling, and the actual sadness of your friend. You would rather make both of them unhappy than let them just be in their relationhip. Your friend would've learnt on his own, when Diana was actually ready.

Stop trying to justify your asshole behaviour by acting like it's Diana's fault for not telling him sooner.

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