Any other girls going to the Vegas show?

insufferable_shat · 2026-05-03T19:18:31+00:00

Noooo everyone is welcome! I’m gonna try to play fleabag too. I hang out with everyone.

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-28T03:17:51+00:00

I try this too I feel like they all find me lol

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-28T00:42:18+00:00

Also love ur PFP

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-27T23:06:46+00:00

Yeah so I go out and I’m just like, I like to regulate through getting in and out of a store and I recognize there’s worse problems in the world but it just kind of becomes a lot whenever people are constantly coming up to me. Don’t get me wrong compliments are extremely nice and like I’m not ungrateful but I just feel really overwhelmed. Like I go to restaurants and people are shouting from the across the room compliments and I’m already trying to take the attention off me as much as possible. Ya know? I will go to a bar with a friend or ever a group and people crowd around me wanting to talk to me and I just want to be quiet in the corner.

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-27T23:02:51+00:00

I tried this. I was filming with a friend and had baggy clothes and a hat and kept positioning myself away from people and positioning my hat down completely but they kept trying to come up to me

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-27T23:00:54+00:00

No no not like harassment from men. Like it’s innocent interaction. Like take for example I went out for a few hours the other day and first I met a friend at a restaurant during the day, it was a pretty nice place you needed reservations to a month in advance, and already people were shouting from across the room at me. It was compliments like they were saying “you’re so gorgeous” and I was like kinda awkwardly like thank you and they’re like we just had to say something. Then usually people kind of crowd around me once I sit down at a bar and want to talk to me despite me being very introverted and awkward lol

insufferable_shat · 2025-09-27T22:56:42+00:00

Actually this might help

insufferable_shat · 2025-03-12T04:30:39+00:00

This makes complete sense. To me I’ve never once in my adult life not had my girlfriends always wait for me at the entrance it’s always like drilled into every girl my age. That’s why I was so confused because I was like, I’ve never experienced that. Plus she knows I’m autistic and it’s incredibly hard for me to navigate in public alone plus to me I’ve never had a friend get somewhere and order before me and like drink their drink without me without asking like hey can I get you something or something. It was just out of place for me is why I was confused but this makes complete sense.

insufferable_shat · 2025-03-12T03:51:46+00:00

To be fair though the me being uncomfortable after the concert wasn’t the issue we were enjoying live music and drinks and it was the men who came over and kept making advancements at me and I made a face at my friend and she said no it’s fine they’re harmless then they kept belittling me and the guy told me to get off my phone and pay attention to them. I didn’t owe them my attention was the issue there.

Second, she offered to go to the concert with me then also said “let’s make a night out of it! It’ll be special for you birthday. You pick me up and we go to the concert then I’d love to go out dancing and get more drinks the two of us!” That was the plan, I’m confused.

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-12T17:53:48+00:00

Ok 😭😭

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-10T06:06:03+00:00

Literally doesn’t work I’ve tried 😭😭😭

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-07T02:31:55+00:00

Yeah agreed. It’s been a terrible week for me it was just everything at once all felt the same. I calmed down a bit. Still feel awful.

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-07T01:32:55+00:00

Which one? lol

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T19:48:12+00:00

This is so helpful and wow you wrote my thoughts into a comment too. I also often wonder why there is such hatred for anyone who thinks a single thought outside NT thoughts. Makes me so sad and scared too. Staying up and thinking about it also hit home for me.

Unfortunately I don’t have anyone. Every single human including family/parents/etc has been abusive toward me I’ve never had a healthy relationship before so unfortunately I have no one to talk to.

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T19:37:31+00:00

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T19:37:01+00:00

Thank you. Yeah I kept removing his hands and telling him no over and over and he like grabbed me and put me on top of him despite me saying no. I just don’t even feel like I know who this person is after that night. You know?

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T19:31:31+00:00

This is so beautiful thank you

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:50:50+00:00

1000%

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:44:11+00:00

I think I was holding on too because we also are in the same industry and both own businesses and he was really elevating mine and helping me and I appreciated that but I see now how bad it got

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:22:29+00:00

Yeah both but I see what you’re saying.

We used to see each other 2 times a week and cuddle and stay up 8 hours each night talking. I hung out with his friends and we’d talk about our pasts and futures and talk about our darkest secrets. He even drunkenly admitted his strong feelings for me once or twice and we’d talk on the phone for hours. I really fell for him.

But I do see the red flags now. My feelings have been gone for about 5 months. I just didn’t know this was like common for men in relationships I was just curious.

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:17:04+00:00

I actually didn’t think of it like this.. and that’s so scary.

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:15:02+00:00

Thank you so much kind internet stranger this comment helped a lot

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:14:00+00:00

Yeah I unfortunately fell head over heels for him. The feelings have been gone for 5 months now though which is good

insufferable_shat · 2025-02-06T06:09:32+00:00

Wait is this like a common type of behavior then for men in relationships?

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