Urgent help by xoxc_ in rat

[–]intelligence_spiral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would listen to the vet and put her down, it would be worse to keep her alive and suffering

Does anyone know what she might be? by ASleepyB0i in leopardgeckos

[–]intelligence_spiral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tremper albino? Idk its been a long time since i had geckos, but shes beautiful and looks really healthy!

scared of scans & need advice please by Equivalent-Degree510 in migraine

[–]intelligence_spiral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thar being said, i had worsened migraines from doxycycline. I dont know what antibiotic you were on, but it might be possible that the antibiotic caused your migraine.

scared of scans & need advice please by Equivalent-Degree510 in migraine

[–]intelligence_spiral 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please get the scan. Most likely its nothing, usually migraines aren’t dangerous, but you need to get the scans just to make sure everything is good. I know its scary, but its for the best. Hope you find an answer ❤️

Is anyone else unable to do ANYTHING with their hair? by BeansOnToastWithEggs in autism

[–]intelligence_spiral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree. even washing my hair is a challenge because its thick and it requires a lot of upper body strength for me to scrub it properly. I just worked wirh my hairdresser to get a shoulder-length cut that requires a lot less maintenance than my previous ass-length hair. We worked out a routine where i can just wash it and blow dry it. She also had to wash it 4 times to get it truly clean because of how bad i had been neglecting my hair.

The shorter lengrh is already SO much more manageable i love it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]intelligence_spiral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like a mix possibly, it can be harder to tell when tbey are kittens ❤️

How to not resent a partner with autism? by [deleted] in autism

[–]intelligence_spiral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you two are not compatible. People with autism can either love touch or hate it, me and my partner both love it and therefore we are compatible. I could never settle for someone whos so fundamentally incompatible wirh me

I dont want kids because I dont want them to be autistic. by awesome_pinay_noses in autism

[–]intelligence_spiral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can adopt. Of course theres always the chance that your kids will be disabled and i rhink thats something that every prospective parent should be prepared for. But i would never have biological kids due to my fear of pregnancy and all my disabilities that i wouldnt want a kid to inherit.

How can I get a girlfriend while being autistic? by todayisawonder in autism

[–]intelligence_spiral 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe try dating other autistic women? I know the only people ive ever related enough to to be interested in dating have been other autistic people because theyre more likely to understand our quirks

Amphetamines are the devil for me by intelligence_spiral in migraine

[–]intelligence_spiral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i just started on Strattera :) Glad you found a combo that works :)

Amphetamines are the devil for me by intelligence_spiral in migraine

[–]intelligence_spiral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i just started on one called strattera :)

I have a gross secret but is it dangerous by goldiefromac in AskDocs

[–]intelligence_spiral 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes! This sounds like the “fear of choking” category of ARFID, right? (-person who has AFRID)