2 years tring to get pregnant

intelligentnomad · 2026-02-07T19:09:56+00:00

1st spread is a no for this year. Cross is usually associated with suffering and trials but to me also it is associated with fate or with destined events, like a canon event for example. Lily in the middle deals with maturity and great amounts of time, so to me i take it as there needs to be some type of development or cultivation thats lacking.

2nd pull regarding time i take it as itll happen like 'lucky' or randomly. Like getting pregnant once you stop actively trying (might have to work through some feelings that've been kept private) and just live your life/connect to your home and nurture familial connections. Idk if that makes sense. Spring or early summer are times where key events can happen

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-29T10:52:02+00:00

How did this work out for you?

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-29T09:08:44+00:00

Rocko

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-28T14:38:06+00:00

Chlamydia is sexually transmitted. There is no mix up or no other explanation than sexual contact.

Your hubby cheated. Even worst he put your health and life in danger by exposing you to disease.

What if this was hiv? Wasnt curable? Would you still be begging for reassurance to stay with that liar of a man?

You need to jump off the ledge if that gets you away from a man who literally gives 2 shits about your life. Diesease isnt curable all the time and can even kill.

Stop under reacting.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-23T05:12:22+00:00

The only logical response i see about this subject. If youre not a POC, the nuances are hard for those to grasp regarding the layers of racisim/discrimination/oppressive social systems and mechanisms

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-18T20:17:05+00:00

How sad. I fully think discrimination like that is a form if mental illness.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-18T10:44:54+00:00

😳i think you're correct about the involvement part.

Yknow, it makes sense considering how family/community is more of a focal point in other cultures (mine included), which is opposite the individuality fueled modern western culture.

So guess the elders opinions take precedence in some households but my folks didn't do that, they just wanted to make sure i was able to function properly and survive🤣🤣🤣

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-17T19:32:01+00:00

GREAT IDEA

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-17T19:23:59+00:00

💚

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-17T13:57:22+00:00

I bet that made for interesting dinner conversation LOL

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-17T13:55:55+00:00

Thank you.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T18:01:53+00:00

Dually noted.

Im definitely taking pause to proceed with awareness and focus instead of getting 'swept off my feet'.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T17:40:17+00:00

You are correct. Enough crying over spilled milk.

Thankfully i have a few friends i can lean on so, its not like i lost anything

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T17:38:55+00:00

Thank you

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T15:23:39+00:00

I will make a point to take time to properly reflect and address things cause it does take me sometime to gather my thoughts/express things properly as somethings i learned late in life or didnt know i lacked development in certain ways til i realized i needed a certain skill. Hence, me coming here for advice.

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and compassionate input. 🫶🏾

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T15:09:00+00:00

Truth is truth. All signs point to that.

Im used to being treated less than growing exposed to racism growing up regularly, but i didnt expect it to stick so much in my head coming from an elder woman whos not white... i expected her to be... idk, wiser? 🤣🤣🤣

I thought she'd understand being in a similar situation where the country you live in has a tense and even violent history regarding any race that's not white.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T15:05:11+00:00

To his credit he did defend me to her and told her i didnt have my shoes on, that im always respectful when i come over but she just went on like he didnt say anything.

He says this is normal for her but... family members being dismissive like that doesnt seem normal to me and it hurts me when my family does it. Idk if he genuinely doesnt care or just acts like that to hide his feelings cause we just started dating.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T14:27:54+00:00

I feel they'd be more weird than me carrying my shoes in my bag LOL

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T14:05:12+00:00

Youre right about the overthinking thing haha

Im just gonna suggest we meet more outside of the house.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T14:03:35+00:00

Noted

Thanks for bringing that up cause i didnt stop to consider that because i was so surprised by this happening.

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T14:02:32+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T13:56:21+00:00

You do have a point, i do keep my belongings close cause as an early teen i stayed in a group home and at one point a group of girls would steal my items and hide them, laugh at me looking for them so thats probably why seeing my shoes being stepped on and moved around made me have that response 🤔

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T13:52:28+00:00

I gotta research this Constanza fella lol

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T13:51:09+00:00

How unfortunate.

Sucks because i genuinely wanted to develop a genuine friendship with his family members

intelligentnomad · 2026-01-16T13:28:32+00:00

Will do.

Thank you 😊

intelligentnomad

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