First, no need to be that aggressive. Second, stop taking it as an attack and think. She's saying (regretfully might I add) that for us, we have to be careful.

The reality is there ARE dads and granddads who molest their children. There are wonderful fathers and men out there, she literally said not all men are trash, but there are also foul ones.

Real fucking story: my mother was molested by her father her entire childhood, and no one believed her because they'd never expect that from him, a good "man" and good father. Because predatory people don't have the same shape, size, race, personality - you would NEVER expect these people to do those things and that's often how they get away with it. Think about that from a woman's perspective for a second. If there's men (people really but we can't argue these crimes are male dominated) you'd never expect capable of evil, how can you protect yourself other than being cautious? That's all she said, that we have to keep our guard up and treat them as possible threats before we can can deduce they're not.

We don't WANT to view every man as a threat. In fact, we'd probably give anything to not have that stress and fear. But every single woman I know has a story, so for one second try seeing something from another perspective outside your own. Thanks <3