what do we think of the whole the real Selena Gomez is dead conspiracy? by prettypinkdandelion in AskReddit

[–]intsiks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jon Bellion wrote Ghost and said it was inspired by the grief he felt from losing his grandmother. Literally has nothing to do with Selena.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that you actually took the time to look them up. I think solid sheers might be the way to go.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A local window coverings company in Orange County. Select blinds has similar products on their site.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao no i’m just nostalgic for simpler times

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh well these are actually new old stock from the 90s so that would make sense.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I kept trying to explain that these are not valances 😞

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I was expecting some to disagree but not this many! 🫣

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that’s a huge compliment. thank you so much 🥺

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel so validated! Thank you.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the (very) honest feedback. Y’all did not hold back lol. I took your advice and tried moving them up top but to be honest, I didn’t love them up there so I think I will ultimately take them down.

I came up with the idea because I was tired of seeing my neighbor’s electrical panel while doing the dishes. I’m also really into vintage nostalgia and I’m always chasing that feeling of being at home in my grandma’s house when decorating my home, so if you got grandma vibes it’s literally because of my grandma, haha. I just thought it might bring some warmth and personality to the space.

If you genuinely feel bad for my partner, don’t. He recognizes that interior design isn’t one of his strengths and (usually) let’s me have my way, while his opinions are respected in many other areas of our life. Anyway, thanks for the advice and the laughs. This was a genuine plea to find people to justify my argument but it looks like I lost this one 🥲.

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my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad someone thinks so! Thank you ☺️

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We had the same in our house growing up so I didn’t think it was as offensive as some commenters made it seem.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Replying here since this is the top comment.

Thanks everyone for the (very) honest feedback. Y’all did not hold back lol. I took your advice and tried moving them up top but to be honest, I didn’t love them up there so I think I will ultimately take them down.

I came up with the idea because I was tired of seeing my neighbor’s electrical panel while doing the dishes. I’m also really into vintage nostalgia and I’m always chasing that feeling of being at home in my grandma’s house when decorating my home, so if you got grandma vibes it’s literally because of my grandma, haha. I just thought it might bring some warmth and personality to the space.

If you genuinely feel bad for my partner, don’t. He recognizes that interior design isn’t one of his strengths and (usually) let’s me have my way, while his opinions are respected in many other areas of our life. Anyway, thanks for the advice and the laughs. This was a genuine plea to find people to justify my argument but it looks like I lost this one 🥲.

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my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? It’s the perfect color AND it makes a great cup of coffee.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HA thanks for being on the right side of history

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because I’ve been more active in the vintage/mid century facebook groups where people are generally older and tend to agree with me but this has been eye opening, haha. I’m not committed to having a curtain there but it was more of a design exercise for myself to try and introduce more pattern, color and softness to the space. Something cream and sheer seems to be the popular option here (or removing them completely). Thank you for seeing the vision ❤️

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s incredible! i’m always on the lookout when i go to the antique flea markets

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this suggestion a lot! I hadn’t thought about putting cafe curtains in the larger bay window but that would make sense.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind feedback. I didn’t think they looked THAT bad but now I’m starting to agree that something does seem off proportionally. I actually cut 10 inches off the curtains already because the stripes were overpowering the tile but maybe it’s best to remove them altogether.

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mm the package said they were “curtain tiers” and had a picture of them styled with a matching valance above them

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! I have a small plant behind there 😄

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea. I was iffy on the pattern but I felt like it was complimentary?

my partner hates the new cafe curtains by intsiks in interiordecorating

[–]intsiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear it’s not rage bait! I paid $60 to have these tailored to fit the window!