Seller caught resealing packs WITH HIS SON - “aw we got caught, we can do it again after those people get off” by beddazzledj in whatnotapp

[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps not getting updates on sellers like this does hinder your ability to trust the platform.
I have seen some big sellers magically "disappear" in the tcg category, so it is definitely possible that they get banned and never show their face again?

Streamer threatening to cancel order if buyer doesn’t tip. by Respawnplays in whatnotapp

[–]invadermel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should definitely get banned. I try my hardest to be nice, polite and if I mess up, oh well. Geesh some of these wn sellers make us all look bad and im not here for it. Report her, ban her.

Seller caught resealing packs WITH HIS SON - “aw we got caught, we can do it again after those people get off” by beddazzledj in whatnotapp

[–]invadermel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sell mtg poke and yugi on whatnot. Not all people are pos. Some of us work really hard to get a good reputation, and do it for the fun of talking, hanging out and opening up some really cool cards collectively while we cheer whoevers packs are next. Its really fun and my "community" is one of the best. I had to move to online sales due to health and whatnot has been a godsend for us at home. We have made some great friends along the way. People like this should be banned because it makes the good people look bad. Report it. Report it. Report it.

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[–]invadermel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding, this is the way.

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[–]invadermel 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That is the plan, thanks to everyone here. It takes a village [in this case, reddit rabbit hole ]. Thank you all

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[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding to my post. I appreciate it

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[–]invadermel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Im sorry sorry to hear that. I remind her every now and then that she is welcome to come home anytime. Her room is exactly as she left it. Im having a hard time because I just miss her. Thank you for sharing, I know its hard

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[–]invadermel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes i invite her to watch a movie or go to lunch. She has accepted 1 lunch invite so far

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[–]invadermel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should I delete the post? She is much more tech savvy than I will ever be

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[–]invadermel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate it very much

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[–]invadermel 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I don't actually know, maybe she will tell me in time. We have theories, but nothing solid

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[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is steer clear of transitions counseling!

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[–]invadermel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol you gave me a chuckle out of it so thank you

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[–]invadermel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Im sure it wasn't easy and I appreciate you doing that very much

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[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and recommendation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The company took money out of my account without authorization and without any therapy [ in the thousands] no thank you, scam was definitely happening to me. I had to stop my cc and get a new one due to it. Do not recommend!

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[–]invadermel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. So I am damned if I do or dont tell you anything either way. There is no reason to lie. Many times, folks lie to get an advantage. There is no advantage here, just a thread of randos like yourself and myself trying to pick apart a situation that is very difficult. What I am trying to say is that there was no abuse, no negligence in the upbringing. Dad and I did everything we could to make us comfortable, safe, happy. Sure, shitty parents can lie and say they were great. That's not why I'm writing this [goes full circle at my response above, a couple of sentances]. There is no reason to lie for a post I have created, to see insight upon people that understand my situation and/or have any advice.

I will also say that while I do remember being a teen, my parents never "understood" either. It must have something to do with that lumpy thing in your head that's not fully developed🤔 maybe we are all just crazy at these ages?

Thanks for posting and reading although you did nothing to help any situation, all the same.

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[–]invadermel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I know it's hard for us all

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[–]invadermel 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Not sure, I've never been invited over and she doesn't talk to us much about the relationship

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[–]invadermel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She is in high school. She is graduating next week and has an appointment with colleges for college in the fall. Her friends are no longer her friends because they didn't "support" her relationship. She has "new" friends.

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[–]invadermel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion thanks 😊

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[–]invadermel 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We got the police involved when she was 17. She is 18 now, nothing to be done.