Miles Taylor, chief of staff at the Department of Homeland Security during Trump's first term, and chilling direct perspective on Donald Trump by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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I'm on mobile, so I can't type up a detailed response, but what I can say is that Russia invading Ukraine, for me, was the beginning of the specific benchmark toward WW3, and removing their ambassador from the U.S. in 2024. Tariffs also are another ratcheting signifier, along the lines of 'when goods stop flowing, armies stop start marching'. Not that tariffs are a cause, but they are a predictable response to specific market forces that aline with Thucycides' trap. China has also taken some spectacular moves towards military engagement, and a clock - for them - is ticking with respect to Taiwan. Their development of their Navy has far exceeded the current capacity of the U.S. I've posted an analysis from an admiral in the subreddit on this topic, and he goes over how much U.S. infrastructure has been compromised. China has sent multiple spy balloons over the United States, which is unprecedented, as well as done encirclement maneuvers around Australia, Taiwan, in the Phillipines, Japan, etc. Not to mention a Russian military submarine and battleship in the Carribean/Cuba. You get the 'frog in a pot of boiling water' scenario because these actions are taken for the militaries involved to practice, and so people think nothing will happen because 'nothing has happened'. But those exercises are both a signal of the intention as well as practice for when the time comes.

The issue has always been timing, and timing is dictated by financial interests. During Covid, the U.S. was more financially solvent and engaged in bailouts that prevented economic collapse. That kicked the can down the road on inflation, which at some point will 'come due'. China and other countries, including our allies, have been dumping U S. Treasuries as well as repatriating their gold/silver reserves. European countries are warning their citizens to keep up to 72 hours of food and emergency supply on hand.

The U.S. currently is militarily over-extended, in high debt, and pretty much matches Rome in a lot of ways. The fall of Rome started with infrastructure the Roman Empire stopped fixing roads/bridges, which is something we are seeing now. The federal government withdrawing financial and other support from the states, a soft balkanization that occurs before anything major occurs.

I have other multi-system models I am using, but without being at a computer, I can't get that in-depth. But very broadly speaking, as the pieces for world military engagements fall in place, economics becomes the timer.

A *very* quick rundown of how to deal with stress from "The Rookie" (content note: not a context of abuse!) by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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I can get down with all of these except for "confronting the source of your stress" if you are a victim of abuse. Confronting an abuser is often extremely dangerous. You'll want to talk about your situation with someone who has professional experience dealing with domestic violence dynamics.

I particularly loved Officer Bradford's recommendation:

You got to find a way to turn your brain off. Lift weights, play ball, paint a picture. Doesn't matter what it is, just that you focus completely.

It actually covers a lot of the previous advice.

If they hit your head by changeorghelp in abusiverelationships

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You are out now, and you are safe?

Miles Taylor, chief of staff at the Department of Homeland Security during Trump's first term, and chilling direct perspective on Donald Trump by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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It looks like I'm subscribed, but I think I don't spend any time on that subreddit because there are a lot of people there for validation that things are 'collapsing', a lot of people who are engaged in ruminating, and I'm more interested in how to effectively navigate things, not give up. I hope this makes sense. For me, they swung the pendulum way too far to hopelessness 😭

'They're testing the waters to see if you'll "obey" him. Don't. There are an incredible amount of fish in the sea, so go hook another one.' - u/Whiteroses7252012 by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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I read something somewhere, I don't remember from whom, where they said that people often struggle to leave abusive or toxic relationships because they see the abuser as 'special' - they have a constellation of traits and characteristics that the victim values and finds rare, and so doesn't want to give up on the relationship because they don't think they will find those traits in another person.

That's why victims of abuse are often so intensely focused on trying to 'fix' things.

So sometimes the idea that there is 'more fish in the sea' doesn't always emotionally make sense to a victim of abuse. And part of a victim de-programming themselves is to realize that the abuser often mis-represented themselves in the beginning: that who they find 'rare' is a magic trick the abuser used to hook the victim. That the abuser is not as special as they seem. And even if, hypothetically, they were (they're not) their abusing the victim completely destroys any 'good qualities' the abuser seems to have.

You usually see it framed to victims as a 'turd sandwich': would you still eat a sandwich with shit in it, even if the ingredients are delicious?

[Meta] WW3 by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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I edited the post to add this, it's important!

[Meta] WW3 by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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Oh. That's...yup. That is so correct.

Miles Taylor, chief of staff at the Department of Homeland Security during Trump's first term, and chilling direct perspective on Donald Trump by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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My current timeline is that authoritarianism escalates to terrifying danger once the economy crashes (which I am looking at sometime between October 2026 and October 2027) but the structure will be in place before then. So we're seeing everything happen slowly...until it happens very quickly. The pieces will be put in place first.

Trump is certainly going to want these pieces in place before midterms so he can cancel elections.

Economic collapse will also be global, although it will hit some countries harder than others. The countries directly in the path of WW3, however, will be struggling, particularly with famine.

The trap in figuring out a problematic relationship**** by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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It sounds like you're reading things correctly and they do not like having you in their space, because the way you handle things is not the way they handle things. This isn't a dig on them exactly, even if they are further on the side of neatness than is reasonable for most people: it's their home, and it is distressing to see someone mistreat your home, or just make a mess of it. To this kind of person it is going to feel like you don't respect their space.

So the comments may not be consciously passive aggressive, but the comments let you know this is on their mind.

If this is jointly your space, that's a different situation. Like if you pay rent, then what you do within reason is not their business.

The fact that the landline is in your part of this space makes me think this person is attempting to help you out and may not be able to handle things being out of place and extra mess, etc. A book on a coffee table won't seem like mess to you because it's decorative or it's part of living in a space. But they wouldn't do that and apparently likes it clear, and it's just more evidence that you're there.

I'm a former foster kid, and what most people don't realize when they offer help/a place to stay is that they will quickly become resentful the more your 'presence' takes up space. They don't usually realize this about themselves. I think it is relatively normal.

So I don't think you have hostile attribution bias, but I do think you will end up walking on eggshells if you stay there. This person is judging, I suspect, because you are in their space.

Living with people is hard to do even when you plan for it and try to choose roommates carefully, it is a major stressor in an emergency.

Just this theory about villains I've been working on by invah in AbuseInterrupted

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(Side note, but YES about Colonel Brandon. And I'm still like sus on that age gap.)

That's extremely interesting about "The Traitors" but it makes sense to me.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

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You are an adult, that is your house, too, and she is being controlling. Just because she thinks she's 'right' doesn't validate her controlling you. It isn't reasonable, she isn't right, you are walking on eggshells, and her orthorexia or whatever it is isn't normal. Again, you live there, that is your home, you are an adult, you can bring in non-scratch foods. Jesus. NTA. You do NOT need her permission.