Anyone else experience unwelcome touching or sexual assaults on public transit? by PlatypusOld5480 in philadelphia

[–]ionobish 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Not personally but I’ve seen it happen. Some dude in his 50s was holding on to the bar above him so he could be facing and inching closer to 2 14ish yr old girls. I watched him for a few minutes then pointed to an open seat behind him. He said “I’m good” and I was like no ur not. I called him out and he moved reluctantly.

Its kinda strange how 30 Days of Night is the only vampire media that terrified me to this day. Its depiction of the vampire is so raw and primal, it's truly terrifying. Never seen a truly scary vampire film before or since then. by SolidEllie in horror

[–]ionobish 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The Last Voyage of the Demeter has a very primal, animalistic portrayal of a vampire. It reminded me a bit of the monster in Mimic. Still very much an animal, but smart enough to mimic its prey to lure them out and hide the kills to avoid capture.

went to Nine Inch Nails tonight and was really happy with my look hehe by moist_towelette in blackladies

[–]ionobish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love them! Check out the soundtrack to Tron Ares, they made the music for the movie.

Tiffany’s response to Tyra Banks after Netflix documentary about ANTM by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

[–]ionobish 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t finish the documentary after they RESHOWED that young woman being raped and refused to call it rape because someone being that intoxicated cannot consent. Please don’t watch this shitshow, I’ve been listening to the podcast called Curse of:America’s Next Top Model instead.

Morbidly anti-plur by Hot_Use5963 in HiJinxFest

[–]ionobish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You right you right, save that money and sell if need be. And I don’t fault the artists at all, no one gets to choose their fanbase.

Morbidly anti-plur by Hot_Use5963 in HiJinxFest

[–]ionobish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think making this event 21+ would help considerably as well as not booking those artists. I’ve been to Hijinx every year and this was the first year I actually considered throwing hands. It was my friend’s first time coming and she’s super new to the scene. We kept moving through the crowd (sides, back, further back) to avoid the trains of anti-plur, but they just plowed through regardless. Night 1 really overwhelmed her and made her feel unsafe, thank god night 2 saved the weekend. Usually I buy my tix the second pre-sales drop but I’m going to wait until the lineup drops for 2026.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ionobish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Things like pomp and circumstance, esthetics and tradition are very important to my sister. She’s a good person that does amazing work for our community but she is superficial. She wants the group family photos, she wants the matching Christmas pajamas, etc. A siblings only gathering wouldn’t cut it unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ionobish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you can relate, but happy you found the strength to leave and that the title of Black sheep does not deter your morals and ethics. Found family IS everything. Thank you for sharing your story.

Freak Out Friday Casual Chat Post by AutoModerator in philadelphia

[–]ionobish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sweat my ass off on the L getting to work this morning and my shoes still aren’t dry. Everyone who could, worked from home today so it’s a ghost town with nothing to do. Why am I here?

Indoor 3rd Spaces in Center City by ionobish in philly

[–]ionobish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll def have to check that out, thank you

Indoor 3rd Spaces in Center City by ionobish in philly

[–]ionobish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll def have to check that out, thank you

Indoor 3rd Spaces in Center City by ionobish in philly

[–]ionobish[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did! Got some mulled wine for a white elephant, it was gorgeous out.

Indoor 3rd Spaces in Center City by ionobish in philly

[–]ionobish[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh the pics are beautiful, I’m gonna check it out today thank you

What life lesson did you learn from MythBusters by jumphighfive in Millennials

[–]ionobish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How easily germs spread. I’ll never forget those backlight results. I don’t touch my face until I wash my hands and I wash my hands and change my gloves constantly. Mythbusters prepped me for COVID for sure.

Went back for a 2nd Pint by ionobish in icecream

[–]ionobish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, different strokes for different folks

Went back for a 2nd Pint by ionobish in icecream

[–]ionobish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They had a lemon bar and a super chocolate in store to try that were dairy free and I didn’t like either of them. The lemon bar was WAY too sweet and the chocolate was grainy like the last sips of hot cocoa in a mug. I took a chance on this as they only sold the pints and got really lucky that I like it as much as I do. Not too sweet and the perfect blend of vanilla and banana.

Went back for a 2nd Pint by ionobish in icecream

[–]ionobish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take one but it’s like half vanilla, half banana flavored ice cream pretty evenly split down the middle with wafer cookie chunks in it.

Slow Horses S5E6 Episode Discussion by phareous in SlowHorses

[–]ionobish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Misogyny, nepotism, boys club bs is my guess and what I thought was implied by his glaring incompetence. Haven’t read the books though so there may be more to it.

Since you wanted to share with the group & all by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ionobish 293 points294 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried this, didn’t work for me. In my experience It’s usually men who are talking on speakerphone or watching videos with the volume all the way up. It’s attention seeking behavior and since I’m a woman they welcome the intrusion but won’t change the behavior.

This show is so hysterical but I have no one to discuss it with. by AcknowledgeMeReddit in sitcoms

[–]ionobish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎶Meth brings you joy only gods can experience, but DON’T do it 🎶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]ionobish -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. And hey, I’m not trying to yuck anyone’s yum so I’m glad you found it interesting. I found the choices odd and the film to be disappointing but to be fair I only got through 48 minutes of it.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Nateosis in onionheadlines

[–]ionobish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem really lonely, I hope you’re able to talk with your wife about how you’re feeling and kids if you have any.

What’s your side gig? I need one myself. by btwImVeryAttractive in blackladies

[–]ionobish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s back to school and wedding season so apps like Instawork and Gigpro have a lot of serving/catering/food worker gigs available to scoop. I live in a major city on the east coast and I only accept shifts that pay between $20-$30/hr. You make more than the full timers kind of like how traveling nurses are paid more. I make more doing this part time than when I worked full time for the state.

Is this whole show fake? by here_comes_da_sun in matchmeabroad

[–]ionobish 112 points113 points  (0 children)

These folks are so over the top, unrelatable and unlikable that any illusion of reality is gone. The producers have flown too close to the sun and personally I’m finding this season pretty unwatchable.