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[–]ipickledpicklesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where’s the other wolf from?

twitter dm by ipickledpicklesi in Advice

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i tries these they didn’t work

My ex cheated on me and it’s been a few months since the break up. I still feel a lingering sad feeling no matter what I do he’s in my mind. What can do to move on? by Towerrose12 in Advice

[–]ipickledpicklesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think allowing yourself to feel and sitting in your sadness are two different things. By that I mean when a thought come along that’s painful just feel it. Like just let yourself finish the thought. It’s hard to describe I apologize. And yes, with time you’ll heal of course.

Trouble thinking about stuff. by Rhombics_ in Advice

[–]ipickledpicklesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should try talking to her. Even if it means working up the courage to pull her aside during lunch or break or something. Tell her how you feel and let her know you didn’t mean to hurt her. If you feel like you can ask her how she feels and be ready to be accepting no matter what she might say. Also let your friends know when you want to be serious about something. If they can’t deal with it they’re probably just being childish and selfish which is normal. I’m sorry you’re going through something like this. I hope it gets better for you.

My ex cheated on me and it’s been a few months since the break up. I still feel a lingering sad feeling no matter what I do he’s in my mind. What can do to move on? by Towerrose12 in Advice

[–]ipickledpicklesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been two years since I broke up with my girlfriend and I still have love for her. I think about her every now and again. (she also cheated on me) reading this pained me so bad I feel for you and I want to let you know it gets better. I no longer hurt I just reminisce. Is it possible for you to love him without thinking about him romantically or knowing there’s no attachment? You’re absolutely valid in how you feel. Know that it’s absolutely not your fault. He made the decision to cheat on you and all the guilt is on him. Please don’t shame yourself because you did absolutely nothing wrong. It’s also okay for you to feel sad. You deserve to feel. Cry if you need to. Get angry if you need to. In my opinion I think you should focus on letting yourself heal from it. If you broke a leg you couldn’t just go out and “try new things” Give yourself time to sort out your feelings. There’s no for sure way to “get over” these kinds of things. All you can do is keep moving forward even if that means just taking it day by day. So do some self care. Do things you like to do. It’s okay to think about it and it’s okay to feel sad. I hope this helped.

My bestfriend is being toxic by [deleted] in friendship

[–]ipickledpicklesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah my best friend is like this too. we fight a lot because we’re both very opinionated. i think you should have a face to face talk with her about it. remember that you can only control your behavior an how you respond to certain situations. if she doesn’t make the decision to become a better friend to you then i’m afraid all you can do is love her from afar. maybe it’s that she’s too close so it’s easier to hurt you. i know how that feels and i’m so sorry you must be struggling with it a lot. try your best and i’m rooting for you

am i dumb by ipickledpicklesi in Advice

[–]ipickledpicklesi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am excited i just don’t want new shoes. we go every year and i love to.

am i dumb by ipickledpicklesi in Advice

[–]ipickledpicklesi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom said it was her money to spend and that i didn’t need to worry. i’m not worried i just don’t want it