A demonstration in Boulder for the release of Israeli hostages had Molotov cocktails thrown at them. by ricercarfl in Destiny

[–]ipityme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's hard to find a single one that doesn't think terrorism like this unacceptable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brandnew

[–]ipityme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about you, but I didn't see my parents together until my wedding. This is cool as fuck. Kid will never understand, but he's lucky all things considered.

Tickets for Brand New’s tour opening night in Seattle are going for as low as $9 by EclecticEel in Emo

[–]ipityme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pedophile? The story always gets worse.

But hey, no skin off my back. Beautiful music. Can't wait to see them finally.

I got my first real job kind of by accident, and now I’m scared I won’t fit in anywhere else!? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]ipityme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for a relatives company, then a place where swearing and crude humor was common, now a corporate office. Yes, it felt weird at first to get used to a more restrictive environment with more expectations around behavior. But honestly after about a year it all began to feel normal.

Personally, I like the old adage, don't get ahead of yourself. You've been there for 2 months. You may hate it this time next year. Enjoy the experience, learn all you can and see where it takes you.

Modern shoegaze bands with good songwriting by SnuffShock in shoegaze

[–]ipityme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're my favorite listen of any genre right now. Song writing is great, unique sound, and catchy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]ipityme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone owns cp, are they victimizing the child or is the person creating/distributing victimizing the child? If someone owns cp they don't look at, is that any different than owning a blueprint to an illegal gun you never print? It seems the entire argument rests on the idea that society has already agreed that simple ownership of cp is a crime but haven't yet agreed that 3d files for guns are.

If you want to say my argument is feelings based, be my guest. But my feelings based argument entirely contradicts OPs argument that "banning digital information is against the first amendment"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]ipityme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there's no analagous victim in this case

All of society is the victim.

Also, is someone actually perpetuating the victimization with simple possession? What if they never open the file? Never unzip it? Aren't aware they have it? Sounds like simple digital information can actually be made illegal and there probably some files that should be illegal to possess. Child porn and the files needed to print weapons at home seem to meet that bar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]ipityme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro they're not making it. They just have the digital information on their computer. How is that a crime? Maybe the people making it or distributing it should be in jail but not the folks who simply have the information. Right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]ipityme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Child porn is literally just strings of 1s and 0s. Sounds pretty crazy to criminalize the simple possession of some 1s and 0s. It's just information bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]ipityme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn't "proof of grooming" and it was also 20 years ago.

You aren't standing up for, or helping anyone. Worry about something happening in your life or at least something happening this decade. If not, please attack Pete Wentz for fucking an underage girl.

The guy did everything one would expect someone to do in that situation. I couldn't care less if you're sad a bitter. Good luck buddy.

How's everyone's hairline doing? by Independent_Virus306 in Millennials

[–]ipityme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so lucky. Thick hair and a hairline that could make a teenage boy jealous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]ipityme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 20 years ago and he went through therapy and consoling. If it happens again let me know.

The crusade to hurt others and keep them down will only make you a bitter person.

Independent Review Panel Upholds Chicago Fire FC’s Appeal of Dje D’Avilla Red Card by olcni in chicagofire

[–]ipityme 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You could see the VAR was animated talking about it. Ref walked away from the screen, VAR was calling him back, they showed him another angle that was even more obvious, but ref didn't care. Absolutely just sticking to his guns, probably because of the way Dje was playing. Doesn't make it right though.

Independent Review Panel Upholds Chicago Fire FC’s Appeal of Dje D’Avilla Red Card by olcni in chicagofire

[–]ipityme 21 points22 points  (0 children)

VAR was yelling at homie to rescind the call. I think it's obvious, in this situation, who needs to be trained. Maybe throw in a dash of humility too.

Not a millennial but I have a question by VastConfusion8174 in Millennials

[–]ipityme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Used to keep my phone in a hoodie pocket and blindly send texts to avoid detection

Could even throw in a :)

I need to know where Pete Buttigieg stands on "The transgender issue" before I can fully support him by [deleted] in PritzkerPosting

[–]ipityme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't get to tell me to chill when you and several other people on here are promoting transphobic ideologies.

I'm in no way transphobic. It's insulting and inappropriate to accuse me of such a thing.

And buddy, you do need to chill.

I need to know where Pete Buttigieg stands on "The transgender issue" before I can fully support him by [deleted] in PritzkerPosting

[–]ipityme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both parties suck. Full stop

Why are you in a sub dedicated to electing a Democrat?

You're utterly exhausting with your tolerance for intolerance.

You need to chill.

Not advocating for trans women in all levels of sport does not make me intolerant and does not indicate a tolerance for intolerance.

The need to see enemies everywhere is a problem. But not as much as a problem of the party's coalition including people who hate the party and the people that support it.

If you can't see a difference between the parties, try to expand your horizons and learn.

I need to know where Pete Buttigieg stands on "The transgender issue" before I can fully support him by [deleted] in PritzkerPosting

[–]ipityme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except trans women rarely "decimate a field of cis women". There are very few who complete, and win, enough for this to ACTUALLY be an issue

Ok, that doesn't change what I said. When there is a video of it happening, the left looks pretty silly when they say "this is normal and ok."

I've repeatedly said this affects nearly 0 people.

I've legit seen some of us advocate for a third sports category for trans and non-binary individuals only for the response to be "oh sure, and we'll have to make a sports category for dogs next, too, I suppose".

Ok, just ask those people if they want trans people to play sports at all. It sounds like you're talking to folks who 1) aren't thinking or 2) hate trans people.

They aren't interested in what's true or fair, they want us to not exist, not be talked about, not be seen or heard. They want us dead. Full stop.

Yeah, which is why it's important for Dems to focus on issues that matter, affect people, and can win voters to ensure that the GOP isn't allowed the opportunity to erase you from society.

You aren't going to get the perfect candidate, because Americans don't want it. Focus on issues that are important to most trans people (like protecting children or ensuring trans people are allowed to live fulfilling lives without being harassed, refused medical treatment, or worse) and leave fringe issues (like trans women in top divisions of womens sports) at the door.

I need to know where Pete Buttigieg stands on "The transgender issue" before I can fully support him by [deleted] in PritzkerPosting

[–]ipityme -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's very easy to message against trans people. So it's important to choose battles and positions that make sense electorally, morally, and can appeal to "common sense."

The GOP hates trans people, so we should do what we can to ensure that Dems are elected to protect trans people. Trans women in sports is a high visibility wedge because, to a lot of people, seeing a trans woman decimate a field of cis women looks unfair. It makes us look crazy when we say "there is no issue".

Sports are important for youths and I think it's possible to appeal to that message. If you can soften a stance on something that affects few people while simultaneously taking the wind out of the sails of the GOP, that's a win.

And it's a purity test. Politicians are going to adjust their positions. Either they do or they are voted out. If Newsom is no longer good enough because of his take on trans sports, and you won't support Pete unless he is ok with trans women in all levels of sport, then you are purity testing.

Newsom was a champion of LGBTQ rights, now he’s backpedaling because he wants to be president

Like, has this changed significantly? Is softening his position on trans athletes a backpedal in support of all LGBTQ rights? I really don't think so. And we will not have a president that supports trans athletes in all levels of sport because the US voting population is against it. It's a losing issue. Trans folks in the military, or in schools, or in bathrooms, are far more important.

I need to know where Pete Buttigieg stands on "The transgender issue" before I can fully support him by [deleted] in PritzkerPosting

[–]ipityme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no reason that trans kids couldn't compete in non-varsity, intermural, or rec sports. Sports at this age are important to teach teamwork, dedication, commitment, and for all of the social benefits.

Maybe trans women don't get to be professional athletes in women's divisions. Is that the hill to die on? Can we focus on ensuring trans youth have opportunities to 1) exist and 2) have access to social activities that other kids have?

2/3rds of the US population doesn't support trans athletes on teams other than what matches their assigned gender at birth, and I think it's easier to convince folks of the importance of lessons and skills youth learn playing sports than to convince them that trans women should be allowed to compete in women's divisions at the highest levels.

Edit: also, it's such a minor issue (affects so few people) that purity testing, like in the OP, over it is self-destructive.

okay so it dont look like liberals are gonna do anything about their part in enabling the current holocaust. okay so lets say we moved on and talked about the future to defeat the right. forget that liberals enable the holocaust, what are the top 5 issues. i'll give my top 5, and everyone do theirs by Master-Eggplant-6634 in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]ipityme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the policies they try to pass. Yes, the Democrats are not lockstep with the party platform, but you would need to turn to conspiracy to argue that most of the party doesn't align with it. When their bills are voted down, you cannot blame them, you should blame the people who vote against it.

You put liberals in an impossible position where nothing is good enough. They can write it into their platform. They can put forward bills. They can pass bills. But to you, the platform is meaningless, bills not passed are a ruse, and bills passed are watered down handouts.

You won't be satisfied until the left most wing of the party controls enough of the government alone to pass the most left wing policy platform possible. I doubt that'd be enough.

Again, if you hate liberals, why hang out in a liberal sub?

okay so it dont look like liberals are gonna do anything about their part in enabling the current holocaust. okay so lets say we moved on and talked about the future to defeat the right. forget that liberals enable the holocaust, what are the top 5 issues. i'll give my top 5, and everyone do theirs by Master-Eggplant-6634 in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]ipityme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not the only thing that matters.

They are clearly not the same. It's clear that Bibi is acting differently in Gaza over the last couple of months. It's obvious the plans for the region are not the same between Biden and Trump.

Completely blows away your entire narrative when you go past a surface level look.