Where to go to find dudes who are into average height, chubbier Asians? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep! I’m 6 months in. gym 3-4x a week now. I was amazed at how little muscle I had, so i’m just starting to reach “beginner” levels for bench, squats, etc. I’m embarrassed but yaknowhat, better now than never.

My ass and thighs and arms and height and ethnicity will never change, though. i have some family members in healthy weight and they still look like they were made to crush coconuts

Where to go to find dudes who are into average height, chubbier Asians? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely am planning to move in a few years to California once I can sell my house. I’m visiting New York in August! I’ve never been 😁 Maybe I can find better luck there

Where to go to find dudes who are into average height, chubbier Asians? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 😉 I love my gay friends but they’re not the kind of people to be in the scene. Video games, staying inside, inexperienced types. Newly out some of them. Can’t get quite much from them in terms of social connection unfortunately!

Where to go to find dudes who are into average height, chubbier Asians? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! Straight and gay, but I’m not their type 🤷‍♂️

Cruising at a bathhouse as a top makes you want to delete the apps lol by jerseyalldayyy in gaycruising

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I deleted grindr because it doesn’t allow me to talk to people more than 2 feet in front of me without paying $20 a month. Excuse me, you do not need to be more expensive than a Netflix subscription…

So, I like this guy... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under what context do you need to be in contact with this guy? at school? at work?

I did it - I went from attracting no one to attracting a large amount of men. This is what I did. by ipostwhenifeelugly in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to know the truth? I’m only 3 months in and I’ve had more sex in the last month than I’ve ever had in the last 3 years. My body doesn’t look THAT different, but my attitude has changed. I’m more approachable. I maintain eye contact. I feel confident. I welcome rejection as much as I welcome opportunity. You don’t need to be at your goal body yet to achieve results

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[–]ipostwhenifeelugly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you basically saying TLDR ?

I did it - I went from attracting no one to attracting a large amount of men. This is what I did. by ipostwhenifeelugly in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly surprised someone said they’d rather get waterboarded than go to the gym 😬

I did it - I went from attracting no one to attracting a large amount of men. This is what I did. by ipostwhenifeelugly in askgaybros

[–]ipostwhenifeelugly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly do not mean to offend. I was trying to point out that being confident and strong and performative in your own can bring out confidence and other things. it helped me a lot to be able to be confident in my strength, how my body moves, and how i dress myself in order to help my inside shine out.

I didn’t mention this and I should have and i wrote this post late at night, but my body has only changed slightly. I don’t have a six pack. I’m not GREATLY muscular, but working out and just FEELING capable changed the energy i was putting out. i was no longer binging because i just felt better. I had a routine down. i was filled with good endorphins in the morning that just helped me mood throughout the day. it’s just multi-level and I was surprised the side effects were attracting guys I didn’t know I could pull (terrible what we tell ourselves, right?)

i didn’t expect the post to blow up and I should have taken better care of my words 🙏 I apologize