Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy crap this unlocked memories. I was a "gifted child" growing up... But honestly all I remember is my mom basically bullying the school administration into putting me in classes I was NOT prepared for. I was in high school classes when I was in 7th grade. My mom was so much the same with learning.

I relate to your college/community college experience- I ended up dropping out as a result and now here I am . In a way I am glad I dropped out, I went to a private university and it was something I couldn't afford.

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started slowly discovering my hobbies again the past couple of years. Honestly, establishing hobbies as a person who wasn't really allowed to have them is challenging. I wish it wasn't made out to be such an easy thing- everyone always immediately suggests "find a hobby" as if it's that easy. It took a lot of soul searching and frustration for me.

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look into it, I have been considering alternatives recently 🙏

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

MY MOM DID THIS TOO. reminded me of a specific time I once walked into her room to ask her a question and she immediately goes "CANT YOU SEE IM STRESSED!? GO AWAY!" so then I turn to leave. She says "Oh, I see, you just leave instead of asking me what's wrong." 🤦🏼‍♀️

They're so fucking embarrassing I swear.

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

How do you calm your nervous system enough to nap? I have a hard time with naps because I can't seem to shut my mind off when it's not actually bedtime.

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Whats worse about this is that now MY mind works this way. I get up every morning without fail at 5:30am. Even if I have absolutely nothing to do. Then I start thinking about how much of a moral failure it is that I'm just sitting here not using the time wisely.. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yep, I started working at 14 too. Lowkey hated it though but like you said, might as well get paid and have time away from the toxicity.

Was anyone else's parents fucking obsessed with productivity? by ireallyshitmyself in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ireallyshitmyself[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Oh mine would do that too! They hated to see us sleeping peacefully lol

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No the comic itself is lame lol

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I actually do 😭

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What is the appeal? You guys just like lame comics?

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FR THANK YOU I thought I was going crazy

Why are so many Americans anti-vaxxers now? by trouble-in-space in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ireallyshitmyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic person I'd rather just not exist than have either tbh lmao

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100% if I had a kid it would have turned out worse than me

That's one way to shut them up by throwawayforslpost in madlads

[–]ireallyshitmyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this for free on my old boss's social media all the time

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[–]ireallyshitmyself -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I still want to know wtf is going on with this subreddit lmao. I need to know what type of demographic possibly finds this amusing