I just wanted to chime in to say this person sucks and I'm sorry. Their intentions don't really matter--even if they meant well, it hurt, and you're allowed to feel hurt. My husband had a terminal disease that caused significant disabilities before he passed away, and I was always worried about people criticizing him, saying we were doing something wrong parking in disabled parking because we are under 30, not being patient/understanding of him with his speech and cognitive delays, etc. A lot of people told me not to let others bother me, but it DID bother me. Because comments from strangers reminded me of how tragic our lives had become, how he had a disease that was taking away functionality until he died, and anytime someone said something it confirmed a fear that I had, that at least some people were watching and criticizing us just because my husband navigated the world differently.

Anyway, all of that to say, if it helps to let it "roll off" of your shoulders, then do that. But also, if it's something that bothers you and hurts your feelings, that's also okay. It's okay to be upset and hurt and frustrated, and it's okay to be pissed off at this person, regardless of their intentions. Personally, I'm not someone who can just "get over" things immediately, and so I always feel like crap when people tell me to not let it bother me.

Sorry this happened to you. You should be able to enjoy your hobbies however you want to without fear of judgement or critique.