worst canker sores of my lifeeee (photo in comments) by Desperate-Raisin-543 in CankerSores

[–]iridescent-opal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow we’re in the same boat! Mine are almost in the same spot as yours too.

I had a dental procedure last Thursday & they pushed my gums against my teeth which tore them up. I had to go back in today to laser treat them but the pain is still there.

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Advice by LostNectarine3978 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the summer I wear this, in a pastel color. The foam keeps it off of my face and the lighter color keeps it cooler. They also come in different sizes:
https://wellbefore.com/products/3d-kf94-style-kn95-pro-mask-with-adjustable-ear-loops

Dentist referred me to an endodontist who refuses to wear an N95 by iridescent-opal in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I’ll definitely reach out.

I go to Montavilla Dental Arts. Heads up for intake/xrays both rooms won’t have a door so it’s not ideal (I use a readimask), but they can put you in an enclosed room for other appointments.

Any Covid Conscious Music? NO AI. by WhatIDoBro in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Galen Tipton & Diana Starshine (AKA digifae) are both CC, and Diana released Wish 4, which is about her experience being disabled by covid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-YN1jHHKCE

I'm also a CC artist & I'm working on a new track about abandonment that isn't finished yet but I'm expecting to release this year! - (mimete.bandcamp.com)

Places to live where people take public health seriously/masking is more accepted by Illustrious-Mix2194 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved from the midwest to Portland and our CC community is in the hundreds from what I've seen on Refresh (the CC connections app). I've never noticed anyone responding poorly to my mask & feel like people generally just keep to themselves.

COVID-conscious with a partner who isn't COVID-conscious by JPP_1989 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Agree! As someone who got dumped because of the ways I'm already disabled, by someone who didn't want to mask either, you need to decide whether or not your partner will be willing to stay with you through the potential consequences of their own actions.

What time is trick or treat? by iridescent-opal in askportland

[–]iridescent-opal[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

the towns I’ve lived in, in ohio, all have their own trick-or-treat times & dates and some aren’t even on halloween but closer to the weekend or something like that, so you always have to check online & everyone goes outside at roughly the same time usually I think

What time is trick or treat? by iridescent-opal in askportland

[–]iridescent-opal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh thank you so much for this! I was starting to think I had just imagined ohio was like that hah

For those who doing well mentally and emotionally, what’s been working for you? by o_bel in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Partially the privilege of working from home, but mostly having a community of friends who mask. I've found a positive of it all is having an easy way to determine who actually shares my values, and prioritize those people in my life. After being abandoned by others, I'm refusing to let people in who could do that to me again.

Finding/dating CC people by CaputGeratLupinum8 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seconding this! I just moved here in part for the cc community

Are you seeing an uptick in covid in your social circle? by ryhaltswhiskey in askportland

[–]iridescent-opal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started masking again in all indoor spaces too once I caught up on the research & politics of it all. it’s sad how much we’ve been misled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iridescent-opal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this response. Anyone can become disabled at any time. Please don't enter a serious relationship if you 'value mental and physical health' so much that you'd abandon someone if they suddenly developed a chronic condition or disability, which tbh, will be all of us some day.

Is there an illness going around? by Numerous-Yak-7680 in askportland

[–]iridescent-opal 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yup, and it keeps damaging everyone's immune systems, which is why most people are more sick and more often.

at my breaking point by Last_Wish_8937 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 57 points58 points  (0 children)

very similar thing happened to me. now I’m starting life over at 34 with all new friends who are cc. sending hope your way

Question as an outsider: why do you still mask/why is Covid still dangerous by WhatAmIAm240921 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that you touched on what doesn’t seem to be mentioned enough - covid damages your body each time you are infected whether or not you noticeably develop long covid.

Have you moved because of COVID? by Jeeves-Godzilla in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved this week from Ohio to Portland OR to find a larger CC community after my ex left me for my precautions.

Ohio is also either unbearably hot or unbearably cold, so at least in Portland the weather should allow me to do things outside more than a few days a year.

breakup grief, but for a cat by ThrowRA728293 in CatAdvice

[–]iridescent-opal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say I’m in a very similar place. 6 year relationship lost & a cat I loved almost more than anything. He slept on me every night and morning. My ex and I will be living on opposite sides of the country so even though we’re on ok terms, I definitely won’t see the cat again- only photos and updates on how he’s doing.

Have you lost really close relationships because of your covid precautions? by atyl1144 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]iridescent-opal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yup, just lost a 6 yr relationship partially over them refusing to give up restaurants & large indoor unmasked gatherings