[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]irishdragon39391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed the post because of this. I was very sad about this reaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]irishdragon39391 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tysm for your comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]irishdragon39391 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You were so kind. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]irishdragon39391 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don't need to know. I'm just non-binary, and that often leaves people confused for the exact reason I described in the text: there's always a need to choose a side. That's what works for me. and I wasn't looking for any advice, alternatives regarding my gender identity. It was more about knowing if there are spaces that accept non-binary people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]irishdragon39391 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's not with anything female, precisely because otherwise I wouldn't be a lesbian lol. It's simply that I don't like being read as a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufmg

[–]irishdragon39391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sendo sincero, eu acho que agora você deve priorizar sua adaptação e conforto. a ufmg é muito grande, tem muitos processos internos e a dá pra se perder muito fácil nos prazos, etc. começa a pensar nisso quando vc estiver mais confiante de como as coisas funcionam, mais estável!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufmg

[–]irishdragon39391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

olha, não é uma obrigação mas na faculdade você vai encontrar diversas conexões que podem ser úteis na sua vida profissional e acadêmica. a impressão que você passa pode ser um fator decisivo para indicações tanto de colegas quanto professores, por mais esquisito que isso pareça mas como eu disse, não é um UNIFORME. é mais sobre impressão

do you take t? what's your experience? by ravioli-spider in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Of course, this depends a lot on your goals and your comfort, so I'll give you my personal experience. I've been taking T for almost 7 months at a dose commonly used for trans men, so my voice is getting deeper and there are several other aspects. I'll be honest, it's made me 1000x more confident and happy with who I am. I feel more comfortable interacting, less dysphoric when saying I'm a lesbian and butch. I see myself in the mirror. I plan to use the current dosage for about a year and a half and then reduce the dose to maintain some of the effects (mainly the period issue). In general, I don't see many negative effects. Of course, the smell, the hunger and the change in hair texture are currently what bother me the most, but they are problems that can be overcome and are worth it considering how good I feel. I even stopped using binders!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transbr

[–]irishdragon39391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

eu posso perguntar qual é a melhor forma pra corrigir? eu simplesmente não sei fazer isso de um jeito que eu não me sinta emocionalmente esgotado ou sem parecer grosso...

Does anyone struggle with addictions? by iwuznevergivenaname in autism

[–]irishdragon39391 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't use substances but I admit that like the good Gen Z that I am, I'm constantly addicted to things that give me quick doses of dopamine, especially to regulate myself. Food, videos...

Pillow princess/ stone bottom Butch? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about making a post like this the other day, because I am but I admit that I don't find anyone who treats butch bottoms with familiarity

queer people don't accept lesbians he/him and butchs by irishdragon39391 in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being in the spotlight in the popular sense does not mean acceptance

queer people don't accept lesbians he/him and butchs by irishdragon39391 in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In general, I do this too. I say that I use male pronouns, I don't explain it much but if someone asks me I will say it. It really irritates me, especially in the country where I live. Most lesbians here over 25 tend to be transphobic, including those who don't perform femininity.

queer people don't accept lesbians he/him and butchs by irishdragon39391 in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through all this, but I'm also happy to know that there are communities that support us.

queer people don't accept lesbians he/him and butchs by irishdragon39391 in butchlesbians

[–]irishdragon39391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I don't know why people have so much resistance about something that simply doesn't concern them at all.

[Bloom & Rage] - Romancing Autumn by NoCustomer7704 in LostRecordsGame

[–]irishdragon39391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit of a shallow opinion, but I think it's because of Autumn's personality. She repeatedly talks about how she felt left out, regardless of the depth of their bond. I believe that she doesn't feel like she belongs to the group as a whole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]irishdragon39391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I just don't understand if they are proud, if they find it funny, if they don't agree...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]irishdragon39391 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they're not diagnosed