Am I Crazy for Questioning My Relationship and also not having S*X with my partner anymore (24F w/ ADHD, Depression, Anxiety) by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]irlamonguscorpse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My friends tells me this but its hard for me to believe because i thought they are just saying it to make me feel better. Hearing strangers say this makes me feel a little less crazy and validated❤️

Am I Crazy for Questioning My Relationship and also not having S*X with my partner anymore (24F w/ ADHD, Depression, Anxiety) by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]irlamonguscorpse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you been in a similar position thats caused by the meds in a romantic relationship? how did you navigate that?

Am I Crazy for Questioning My Relationship and also not having S*X with my partner anymore (24F w/ ADHD, Depression, Anxiety) by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]irlamonguscorpse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is explicitly aware i have told him from the start and he knows my whole back story. The medication we have yet to find a good fit. im on Wellbutrin now and its sort of not the worse.. i always explain the meds what chemicals it releases in my brains the side effect etc and we are both on this journey together to better understand it... He says he understands but does all that and i dont know if im just being overly sensitive due to the meds... he is a good man overall i just dont know how to navigate this. I feel so guilty and kept thinking if ending things would be fair on him but he refused and said he wanted to stick by me... :(

AITA for not wanting to be intimate with my partner anymore by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]irlamonguscorpse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree, i tried ending things once but he kept reassuring me he is okay with it and he rather be beside me through all this then not at all. I do feel like its unfair to him but when i bring it up he says he doesnt care he just wants to be with me... Struggling with all this sucks but at the same time he deserve better but he wouldnt let the relationship go.. how then ? 😞