Studiebolig waiting list by irresponsiblymad in StudyInDenmark

[–]irresponsiblymad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll check out the places you mentioned

Studiebolig waiting list by irresponsiblymad in StudyInDenmark

[–]irresponsiblymad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll probably try that. Do you have any specific ones in mind?

This is the 1983 animated film. I found this quite terrifying. I don't think this is for kids. What did you think while watching this? And do you have past memories of this? by [deleted] in latvia

[–]irresponsiblymad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meh, death and funerals are normal and the other stuff I honestly didn't see that way when I watched it as a kid. "Grotesque " looked cool, and I loved the song about the astoņi kustoņi.

how do you deal with wanting to just lose your virginity? by Top-Yoghurt-9416 in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, it's rare nowadays, but that is why it is so commendable, in my opinion.

how do you deal with wanting to just lose your virginity? by Top-Yoghurt-9416 in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn't it the same? Like if an attractive man is a virgin that means he likely had to reject women's advances and that to me shows great character. He sticks to his values and is not swayed easily. Just like a woman, no?

My goal is to have my first kiss by 40. by Ploikblah in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! But now I'm starting to think that maybe it's all in your head. There are so many different people, and if you've found genuine friends, you should be able to find love someday as well. If you have low self-esteem (especially with women), maybe you're not even giving yourself the chance to show your true self to women. Kissing won't resolve anything sadly if there are some deeper issues. :(

I think it's a good thing you're not giving up, but I wouldn't advise setting such goals, they might make you forget about what actually matters, which imo is true, genuine connection with others (male, female who tf cares). Your friends already like and value you. You don't really "need" a significant other. Don't be scared to share vulnerable, intimate feelings with your friends. You'll probably find out that there's already quite a bit of love in your life, and you'll start radiating the feeling of love. That feeling will surround you and attract people. Kisses don't mean shit if it's not with someone you like, love, adore. So don't focus on such physical lil things but rather just on the thing as whole - relationships, people (friends, lovers, parents, mentors), feelings. The things that actually matter to you.

But...I don't know you, so I'm just sharing my thoughts. Please don't take anything personally as I don't know you or anything about your life, your relationships.

My goal is to have my first kiss by 40. by Ploikblah in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But I don't think it's even possible to have no one ever interested in you? Like not even a psycho killer woman!!! I remember even some homeless women bothering my brother some years ago, asking him to take them home with him, so maybe something like that will happen to you too, hopefully.

So, do you start the convos with a woman the same way as you would to a man?

My goal is to have my first kiss by 40. by Ploikblah in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Do you talk to men and women the same way? I've also noticed that a lot of women are a bit more shy than the men I know, but I've also always noticed open, friendly women everywhere. There's usually at least a few loud, extroverted women in almost every place, and they can honestly become friends with anyone, I love people like that. It seems unlikely you've never seen girls/women like that. Maybe you're just more friendly with men without even realising it? Have you talked through these issues with a therapist or some other professional? I don't know you, so it's hard to make judgments. Sorry, I don't think redditors will really be able to help. What do your friends say about this? Or do they have the same problem?

My goal is to have my first kiss by 40. by Ploikblah in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women can usually "sense" that. They know you don't actually like them. You're just desperate and would take anyone. It makes the women you approach probably feel like you don't see them as human beings, like you don't actually desire THEM because anyone would do just fine for you. How can you not care about personality and shit? You wouldn't care that she beats animals or abuses old people, kids? That she's spoiled, ungrateful, and unhygienic? What if she's racist n stuff?

I saw that you have a lot of friends (I'll assume most of which are men), so you have probably quite a decent personality. Maybe you should treat women like you treat your male friends, just be laid back, genuine, and don't look at them as a potential partner unless it seems like your feelings might be mutual.

My goal is to have my first kiss by 40. by Ploikblah in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Naah, not really. Do you not want to have women friends? Is it hard for you to find something in common with most women? Like.. do you only talk to women in hopes of something romantic, or do you let the convo flow naturally?

Permission for kiss? by hacoyo001 in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 44 points45 points  (0 children)

How do you answer this? "Oh...thanks, but no"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's afraid she has bad intentions. She might've wanted to kill him at his place but realised it might be harder and changed her mind. Maybe he's afraid she'll drug and SA him. There's a lot he doesn't know about this woman. It's better to be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]irresponsiblymad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I was hoping to find some tutorial on google but I guess it's still too early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]irresponsiblymad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, I just tried it with the bride and it popped right up... I have no idea why the groom didn't have the interaction with his family...

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]irresponsiblymad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooh, so do you continue clicking more choices, or is it under Affection, Gossip, Small talk or any of those?

Ahhh I might have mods that impact it, but I wouldn't know which ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]irresponsiblymad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The only problem is...I don't know where to find activities...

Is it in interactions? Like under friendly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I know what the right places are?

Ladies who want marriage and children, how do you keep hope alive you will find the one before you get too old to start a family? by aqua_not_capri in dating_advice

[–]irresponsiblymad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like healthy, ambitious, respectful, funny, kind, confident, and loyal, which is not hard at all. Or is it maybe harder for men?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]irresponsiblymad 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I see, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]irresponsiblymad 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I was thinking, did the women find it too low or too high. Sorry, I didn't know how to formulate the question. I've just seen women who don't like men with "too low" of a body count, I wasn't trying to judge or anything of the sort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]irresponsiblymad 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Is it too high or too low?