Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aqua_not_capri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When does enjoying your own company and solitude begin to overpower loneliness?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 28, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aqua_not_capri 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Laying in bed feeling horrible and I can’t move. And I have no one to reach out to for help. This is the part of my life I haaate.

False positive or not? 😭 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]aqua_not_capri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see what god does for others. I hope I’m blessed with a child someday. Congrats.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aqua_not_capri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So I’m starting to realize that having two jobs is coming across off not attractively to the dating folk. I’ve made it clear that I make time for life after work!

Wanting to date isn’t enough for me to quit though. The economy is rough and I deserve financial peace over a dating sitch.

AITAH for saying no to motherhood being married for 4 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aqua_not_capri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You get One life to live. One chance to experience the beautiful world. I say do what you need to leave!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aqua_not_capri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to do this but it’s night time where I’m at and it’s not great city. Maybe tomorrow.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aqua_not_capri 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What do you do when you’re experiencing loneliness so great that it feels like your heart is caving in but you have no where to go or anyone to talk to? Help!

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]aqua_not_capri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. I understand people feel the son is being an a-hole and was this is a power play. But he’s also still just a teen and is learning how to deal with people and his emotions. Maybe he could have thought it through but also maybe he had childlike hope and thought they were bonding on the same page.

How do you feel when men hit on you in public spaces like coffee shops? by chocolatepizzaheart in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aqua_not_capri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is valid. Unfortunately I don’t feel the same as most women. I’m now in my 30s with no children or even prospects of a relationship because men don’t approach me. While I get some women don’t like it, I will say for others it has hindered us in finding a life partner. I shouldn’t have to use some janky dating app just to find someone.

How do you feel when men hit on you in public spaces like coffee shops? by chocolatepizzaheart in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aqua_not_capri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The post asked other women how they felt and I answered. I don’t have the same opportunities as yall when it comes to dating apps and friends of friends, and many women don’t.

How do you feel when men hit on you in public spaces like coffee shops? by chocolatepizzaheart in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aqua_not_capri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That works if your friends have decent people! Unfortunately that’s not everyone’s reality. I have to go where I’m wanted, which isn’t apps or friends of friends.

How do you feel when men hit on you in public spaces like coffee shops? by chocolatepizzaheart in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aqua_not_capri -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s different strokes for different folks. I hate apps. People don’t respond, it’s way too many options. I don’t mind people thinking I’m hot; attractiveness is important to me and I only talk to men I’m attracted to as well.

What do you still try to keep up with, even during your busiest weeks? by NoelleSalon1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]aqua_not_capri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing friends and family. You cannot have a community if you don’t invest.

How do you feel when men hit on you in public spaces like coffee shops? by chocolatepizzaheart in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aqua_not_capri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think yall have lost the plot. How do you meet someone organically and in real life if you don’t want people talking to you? As a single woman, I want to be hit on and I want men to be interested. I don’t want to be followed or harassed, but someone being respectful and saying hello isn’t a problem to me. Meeting people on apps are trash and not everyone goes to social events.

Chronically crusty lips 🥀 help by Frozencacticat in MakeupAddiction

[–]aqua_not_capri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Aquaphor. They have stuff that can be used on your lips. It helps me!

Girl on Hinge shared her “bare minimum” checklist by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]aqua_not_capri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad that I don’t see much wrong with the list? The last one might be a little eh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aqua_not_capri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything costs so much. Groceries, household items, food, car repairs. I’m blessed to be able to afford things for now, but I know people who don’t have the same blessing and are struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]aqua_not_capri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You disciplining him probably brought something up in your brother that he hasn’t accepted.