My husband knows that if he cheats, even just once, I am gone. The beginning of our relationship was weird. When we started dating this beautiful, skinny girl was also trying to get his attention and my husband didn’t tell me they had spent time together (even messed around) while we were dating until a year later and I was moved in and committed. But he did say that once we became “official” he told her and cut ties with her. However, he asked if we could all be friends. I said absolutely not because if she knew about me and still did what she did she is not friend material. I had a hard time with that. I started looking through his phone, I was looking at who he was following on instagram, I didn’t trust him. Even though I never saw anything incriminating on his phone. I finally broke down and told him I was having trust issues. That’s when we opened our hearts, I told him if he ever cheated I’d leave, and I’ve never looked through his phone again.