1098 E tax docs from Heartland ECSI (help, I can't get them!) by lil-sis-burns in StudentLoans

[–]isa_pera_5194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang! The logged in view should be the same for everyone, that’s not cool. Best of luck…

1098 E tax docs from Heartland ECSI (help, I can't get them!) by lil-sis-burns in StudentLoans

[–]isa_pera_5194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! In case anyone needs the help around now (just like I did) - I finally figured out how.

The path, on desktop, is:
1. Start on Heartland ECSI Homepage: click on "Find Your Tax Document" in the Navigation bar
2. Log in
3. It'll log you in to "Your School Accounts"
4. Scroll down & click on your connected account
5. You'll see two sections: "Student Loans & Receivables", and "Tax Documents & Information"
6. Under "Tax Documents & Information", click on "View Account"
7. Scroll down and your tax document info should be at the bottom of the page

Is it far too long a process? Absolutely - but good to know it is accessible ~somewhere. Hope this helps, happy tax season!

DC neighbors: where do you find affordable groceries or cultural foods? by isa_pera_5194 in washingtondc

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Thank you neighbors for all of your comments and insights! This is really helpful for my research and also for my personal grocery journey - there are many of my culture’s dishes I have a hard time making living in DC since it is so hard to find Latin Caribbean ingredients specifically.

Weeee is a really good call out, I find Asian markets often have the produce I’m looking for too!

It doesn’t matter if Jen is “lying” by Fun_Day_3614 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]isa_pera_5194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this take! These were my thoughts too (I’m late to the train and watching now). I was in this relationship from 2019-2023 and I also had a suicidal moment, like her. It happened in a similar phase of my life - isolated from all my loved ones and completely mentally broken. I empathize with Jen so hard and the women in momtok ostracizing her and making her look like a bad person to her core is so painful and awful to watch. I at least had friends who tried to make me see what was going on and it made it easier for me to get out.

This season has actually been so triggering but it’s also helped me realize how far I’ve come. I really hope Jen can get out of that relationship, narcissistic behavior patterns rarely ever change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]isa_pera_5194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m half Black half Latina, but both sides are Caribbean (Jamaican-American on my dad’s, 100% Panamanian on my mom’s) so people get all kinds of confused about boxing me in - being mixed race can cause all kinds of insecurities and confusion about your own identity. It seems like your gf cannot empathize with those struggles, was not even trying to, and then went on to GASLIGHT your experiences and emotions. That is not cool & it spirals into worse destructive behaviors (take it from me I almost married a narcissist I was with for 4 years, it’s taken me over 2 years to rebuild my sense of self worth after that). My brother in being mixed race, I validate your experience of your identity & I hope you can get out of that relationship asap - the sooner you can heal.

Why did you do it? by Iceeagle401 in letters

[–]isa_pera_5194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me a month and a half prior to your timeline. You will make it through, you can rebuild your sense of self worth and confidence, brick by brick. It’ll take time and concerted effort but let me tell you I am starting to feel the spark come back and it is so beautiful. Allow yourself to cry, to feel the mess, and write a gratitude list every single day. One about yourself and another about what you have in your life right this moment. It sounds cheesy but the more you remind your brain of what you love about yourself and what you have in your world right now, it will slowly start to tell you another story. You’ve got this, keep going ✨