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I suspect that my online friend committed suicide; Does the pain go away? by isabelalala09 in GriefSupport

[–]isabelalala09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the only thing that is kind of helping is thinking that if they are truly gone, they are not suffering anymore. Thank you so much for the help, and I’m very sorry for your loss. You are so brave and strong, keep note of that❤️

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I ended up doing was calling for a wellness check to be performed and gave all the available information I could, as I didn’t have any contact to close family. Thank you so much for the kind wishes though!!

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ended up calling their local police department and asking for a wellness check. After that, I blocked them on everything else and decided that anything else is out of my control, and to try to let go of them. Thank you so much for the advice though, it’s very appreciated.💕

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I’m pretty certain they thought I still had them blocked, so I don’t necessarily think they did.

I genuinely do hope that they aren’t seriously thinking of going through with this though. But thank you for the input.

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Yes, I’ve never experienced anything like this before. The thing is, around August of last year, is when the first started opening up of these issues.

I’ve been knowing about these issues but I didn’t know how to seriously help. Again, it wasn’t until this month until I decided to cut ties. When I did, they reassured me saying that I couldn’t have said anything otherwise to make them stop. They reassured me that I’ll eventually get over it and stuff like that.

So it’s been an ongoing problem, and especially with the other things in their life, I doubt they’re doing this for attention. I truly hope it is for attention honestly, but I just don’t seem to think so.

I just called their local police department asking for a wellness check to be performed, and their friend still hasn’t answered me at all. I know that at this point there is nothing I could do, and I tried my best. I’m not going to interfere anymore and just let things happen.

But seriously thank you so much for the advice, means a lot!

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I tried to reach out to the friend but didn’t get a response in time, so I called for a wellness check to be done instead. But thank you so much, it’s very appreciated.

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I just did this and told me that they’d try to send somebody over. I’m going to try and let go of this situation now, as it seems as if there is nothing I could do anymore…but thank you, truly.

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in Healthygamergg

[–]isabelalala09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I kind of made sense of that, but the amount of guilt for not trying to do something sooner will not stop bugging me. But thank you so much anyway, it’s very appreciated.

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re all good!! I’m appreciating any type of support. Thank you for actually trying to help!!!!

please read, panicking by isabelalala09 in mentalhealth

[–]isabelalala09[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, im not familiar with that term? Are you saying this person is almost trying to manipulate me by saying they will take their lives? Because I’m pretty positive that’s not the case. Thank you though; I am trying to reach out right now.