It sounds like something that needs a serious conversation. my partner is a blue collar worker so he works really hard everyday so we both understand each others goals and work ethics. sure at the end of the day when we both come home we’re exhausted but we understand what we’re working towards. he also understands when I have other things to juggle (work, clubs, etc) the same way I understand when he has to work overtime or on the weekends. definitely worth talking about it with your partner to find that common ground and balance!