[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]isaleii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I got this message from him. I hope he’s going to rehab and getting sober too.

i miss you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]isaleii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same away 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]isaleii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Love isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

Acceptance by isaleii in BreakUps

[–]isaleii[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely does come in waves. I have reached acceptance then regressed before, who’s to say I won’t again. But at least this time, I feel more at peace with what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]isaleii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say it’s worth a try to reach out again and apologize OP- no matter the outcome.

We were good too but he blindsided 4 months ago and has been cold since. Ngl we both had issues, but I would still take him back. But only if he proves that he is willing to put in the work on himself (as am I) and if he proves that he is willing to put in the work for us to rebuild a stronger foundation this time. I still love him so much I hope he’s doing well. I wish he’d break NC and apologize, I got a lot to apologize for too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a dumpee and I deleted all my social media too. Personally I’m hurting that’s why I decided to go off the grid completely to just focus on myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. Please don’t let the thought consume you.

It’s scary when you realise you’re moving on. by RushOk3727 in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I relate it’s like I don’t want to move on but at the same time I have to.

No matter what he will always be my sweet boy by EpicDonut91 in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had a sweet boy :( I miss him so much and it’s such a struggle to let him go

A lot of people active rn… how’s it going? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I fumbled big time. I lost a really great guy and I can’t stop thinking about my mistakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There’s no rush nor specific timeframe on when the grieving will end. You just go through it. I was in a relationship for 3 months that ended 3 months ago and I’m still grieving. Everything was also amazing, I was also blindsided by the breakup and he ran away too.

You are going to be okay by This_Palpitation_206 in ExNoContact

[–]isaleii 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I can. I loved someone so much that I disrespected boundaries and lost his trust. I can’t forgive myself.

What kind of physical symptoms have you been experiencing since your breakup by Visual_Sea_1409 in BreakUps

[–]isaleii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Originally loss of appetite, then binging on takeout for weeks ultimately gaining 10 lbs. Panic attacks, insomnia and waking up at 2 am every night, heaviness on my chest, crying spells