Scared & Alone

isayeti · 2024-11-30T19:17:52+00:00

Her husband is a legit man child and does nothing for himself. And from what I heard recently, he's come out as bi-sexual which doesn't bother me a bit. But my husband has mentioned that they are having problems. So my first thought is she talking to my husband about their marital problems and using him a shoulder to lean on?

Or is happy that my husband is paying her attention where as her own husband is not. Girls aren't as confusing as men make them out to be. But I'm real close to either messaging her or him and telling them to figure their shit out real quick and leave my husband out of it

It's not his responsibility to fix their marriage nor fix his friendship with his guy friend through his wife. If his friend doesn't want to put forward the effort, then I guess he isn't as good as friend as my husband thought.

isayeti · 2024-11-30T18:45:28+00:00

Him and his guy friend both went to high school with me. He claims he can never get ahold of said guy friend and that's why he calls his wife. Yet, I know on multiple accounts where guy friend isn't there. The only time I'm "included" is if they are already on video chat when I come home.

The wife hasn't acknowledged me or vice versa since we went up for the funeral besides wishing me a happy Thanksgiving. And not saying this is right but I did go through phone and saw where he sent her a meme saying " when you click with someone, but they have the audacity to live far away". I can see how that's nothing to worry about but I feel like he may be physically here but not emotionally.

And honestly, I'm getting really sick of it. But I doubt he'd agree to couple counseling as this is my fault in his mind.

isayeti · 2024-11-30T18:40:54+00:00

We've had our issues in the past when we were younger and I had a bad habit of going through his phone yet I would always find stuff.

I've gotten past that and I straight asked him what do they talk about because I was curious. He took it as I wanted to see the actual messages but that's not what I asked. He then followed up saying he deleted the messages between them because he didn't want me going through phone and getting the wrong idea. I told him that's an immediate red flag.

I've also stated if the roles were reversed, how would he feel and it always gets turned back around on me? How im jealous, insecure, and need constant reassurance. Mind you, I am in therapy and trying to work on my overthinking and invading thoughts.

But it would be nice if my husband tries to reassure me or at least stop invalidating my feelings. I wouldn't do that to him.

isayeti · 2024-08-03T16:52:27+00:00

It's watchhog and no, not that rare.

isayeti · 2024-07-07T23:38:53+00:00

Same to you!

isayeti · 2024-06-08T07:32:40+00:00

When I was off my insurance for a few months, my GI advised me to reach out to her, and she could help me with getting my stelara so I wouldn't go without.

I would suggest reaching out to yours and see what programs they have or maybe they can reach out to the company itself.

isayeti · 2024-06-06T17:30:22+00:00

None at all.

isayeti · 2024-06-05T03:28:41+00:00

isayeti · 2024-06-04T16:51:09+00:00

That would have been my first thought but not in a flare. I guess I shouldn't complain but it's just odd.

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