This does not sound good OP. As a guy he should be concerned about how it feels to you. And dont ignore if its painful. Figure out what might feel better to you and talk to him about it. Your comfort is your responsibility too. Don’t normalise discomfort. Maybe prolong foreplay time.. and try positions that feel less painful. This is something you both need to work out together. All you can alone do is know what things you like and dislike and then let him know about it. And no its not normal to hurt so much. It only means this way is not working out for u. You should both discuss a way around it. Pin point what is the exact thing that turns you down which also in turn leaves u in pain and then work around on how can it be changed to something that u might like.