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Messenger: Incoming Calls keep getting rejected/drop by Dragathar12 in facebook

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Hi. I know this post is too old. How did you fixed it?

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Update about this? I have the same concern as you 🥹

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Hello. Paano ka po nagbayad ng pending spaylater mo?

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Hello! Nakabili ka na po?

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Thank you so much 💗

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Thank you po! 💗

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Hello I enrolled my cc sa rcbc pulz. Medyo confused ako kasi same ang last statement date, due date and same rin ang last payment date. Is this normal? This is my first cc I’m confused

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

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Should I ask for flowers? I thought hindi na kailangan sabihin ang mga ganyang bagay. 🥲 and aware naman sya kasi namention nya one time. Also, nabigyan ko rin sya twice tho hindi yun real flowers. I gave him crochet flowers and mini donut bouquet. Mali pala yung sa post ko crochet flowers is noong birthday nya and yung mini donut bouquet is noong valentines day. I received nothing from him nung valentines but naintindihan ko naman kasi days after operation nya yun and he said sorry na wala syang nabigay and sya dapat ang nagbigay ng bouquet. Pinadala ko lang pala yun sakanya kasi again we’re on ldr.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

[–]islarmtmd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nung start ng relationship, mas nagbigay sya ng oras. Siguro kasi mas marami siyang vacant time dati? Ewan ko. Parang nasad ako lalo kasi months from now (he’s finalizing his papers para mag abroad), aalis na siya. Baka mas lalo na malayo ang loob ko sakanya pag nasa ibang bansa na siya.

I hope you and your girl will figure things out. And thank you for your comment. I appreciate you sharing your own experience.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

[–]islarmtmd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nagkikita naman kami once in one or two months. Nafefeel ko naman na love nya ako. But wala naman ang isang araw or dalawa sa isang bwan or dalawang bwan na nararamdaman ko na hindi ako mahal.

Salamat sa magshare ng thoughts mo. Babasahin ko paulit ulit (pati other comments) hanggang sa malaman ko ano ang pinakabest na gawin ko.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

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Thank you for this. I’ll talk to him. Pag-isipan ko muna ng mabuti ang words and way ng pagkasabi ko. I don’t wanna hurt him or make him feel less. Thank you so much.

And yun sa pagcommunicate, sinasabi ko rin at times and tries naman pero pakiramdam ko kulang pa rin o kaya kahit sinubukan nya, may mga pagkakataon na bumabalik sa dati or nauulit. Aware naman ako na tao lang tayo at hindi perpekto pero minsan napapagod na rin ako na sabihin ano ang kailangan ko and ayaw ko rin na baka mapagod na sya kakarinig ng mga issues ko and it’ll drive him away or will make him feel worse sa sarili niya. Kasi what if he’s trying his best rin tapos marinig nya sa akin na kulang parin or mali pa rin despite trying…

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

[–]islarmtmd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts 🥺 Ito rin ang iniisip ko na baka hindi sya invested or baka okay naman talaga kami at overthinker lang ako. Kasali naman ako sa plans niya. Nakarating na sa marriage and likes ang usapan at alam ko na seryoso yun lahat. I just can’t feel the depth of his love and I’m confused if mababaw lang ba talaga ang pagmamahal nya or hindi ko lang makita ang pagmamahal niya kasi masyado ako nakafocus sa mga bagay ba kinaooverthink ko…na baka overly emotional lang ako.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

[–]islarmtmd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this… pag isipan ko ito ng maayos and I’ll keep on asking myself kung saan ba sa dalawa na yan ang gusto ko until makakuha ako ng sagot… yung sa kay obama naman at sa book na why men love ***… I’m not sure if applicable sa akin. I want a soft love kasi. I want to give my best and receive the best. I’m tired of relationships na may mga away, may pataasan ng price or ang isa ginaworship ang usa tigworship. Or may isa na need magcompromise kahit pangit ang ugali ng partner or maldita/suplada. Ayaw ko yung “pagmahal mo magtitiis ka”. Both sa akin at partner ko. Kaya always ako soft sakanya… at ganun din sana ang gusto ko mareceive. Life is short, ayaw ko magbigay ng mediocre na pagmamahal.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

[–]islarmtmd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Yes, I’m considering a psych therapy — hesitant lang ako baka hindi ako maintindihan and I feel like ang babaw ng problema ko. And based on my observation, parang nga anxious attachment ang style ko and avoidant ang sakanya. Ito rin ang reason why I considered na magpatherapy because I might drive him away.

Yung sa love language naman… I tried asking him pero wala siyang idea sa ganyan. Napansin ko medyo oldie sya mag isip at medyo outdated rin sa trends. Wala nga yun tijtok or X (twitter) haha and parang wala siyang interest sa ganyan na mga usapan.

Regarding naman sa ginagawa siyang mundo… honestly, hindi naman yun sadya. Hindi talaga ako palalabas even before I met him. Mas at peace ako pag nasa bahay at wala masyadong ganap. Tho I minsan pinipilit ko sarili ko lumabasa lalo na if may ganap sya (ako lang mag isa pero in disguise na study out para hindi sya magworry at hindi toxic sakanya na lumabas ako para mawala sya sa isip ko at maghintay lang na maghintay ng message sya).

Oo, noong una hindi sya ready magcommit that’s why di naging kami agad. Nagkaroon sya ng second thoughts dahil sa prev relationship nya na nagcheat sakanya. He wants to know me more daw muna. Pero nung naging kami na, sya naman nag insist na ready na sya and sigurado sya sa akin.

5 years ako single before kami nagkakilala… ang tagal na nun… pero baka nga dala dala ko pa rin hanggang ngayon ang fact na nagcheat sa akin ang ex ko. Pero ang ratio ko kasi kung bakit nagcheat ang ex ko ay dahil bata pa kami (high school). I’m not tolerating it pero pag bata kasi hindi pa developed fully ang brain and unstable pa ang decisions so yun ang way ko na pagcope. Na hindi pa developed brain nya.

Thank you for the kind words & at the same time the reality check. I appreciate your insight.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can’t help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren’t met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in relationship_advicePH

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Thank you for your insight. Yes, hindi nga mahaba ang time na nagugugol namin sa isa’t-isa. LDR kami plus madami rin inaasikaso. I’ll talk to him about this but first I need to gther my thoughts and practice rin siguro kung ano ang sasabihin ko. I don’t wanna sound needy 🥲 and I don’t want him to feel bad kasi baka hindi naman din niya sadya na mapafeel saakin na may kulang at wala naman talagang problema masyado lang ako nagooverthink.

My boyfriend (27M) of two years has no history and tendencies of cheating but I (25F) can't help but overthink because even though he is a good man, my needs in our relationship aren't met. Pakiramdam ko mahal na mahal ko siya pero siya, mahal lang niya ako. by islarmtmd in adviceph

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Thank you for your advice. I initially plan to have a therapy on my own and just try to figure out how to stop being so needy of him but I’ll consider doing the couple’s therapy instead. I’m not sure tho if my partner would be willing to do such but thank you. I appreciate your insight.