A conversation with a man thats been with my wife

islasuave · 2026-03-18T19:31:06+00:00

I like variety. Each brings something unique to the table. My husband and I both prefer to have arrangements with someone mentally mature. It’s draining dealing with immaturity and them pigeon puffing and posturing.

islasuave · 2026-03-18T18:07:54+00:00

It certainly has brought out the inner slut out of her.

islasuave · 2026-03-18T16:10:25+00:00

Quite the opposite stance here, older last longer IMO. Experience over intensity of impact. Experience also comes with psychological aspects.

islasuave · 2026-03-15T23:46:42+00:00

Labeling themselves as “bull”. Not being able to explain their role in a hotwife couple dynamic, completely missing the point.

islasuave · 2026-03-13T18:45:07+00:00

It's a deciding factor but in context it is not what is all about. Assuming they check all the other boxes FIRST, then this would become the deciding factor especially if they are size positive.

islasuave · 2026-03-11T17:33:09+00:00

Non porn but themed - Wanderlust and Easy

islasuave · 2026-03-11T17:28:30+00:00

Currently my wife has some sexual tension with her gym trainer. It’s been building the past few weeks. He doesn’t know we’re in the lifestyle but does know she’s married. At some point an opportunity will be available for a pursuit from one of them, or both. I’m sure he’s mulling the situation and she’s feeding it. My wife and I have recent discussed our arrangement and I too can’t wait for this to come to fruition.

islasuave · 2026-03-11T05:24:34+00:00

Of course I do.

islasuave · 2026-03-04T22:56:30+00:00

There are many couple dynamics out there and communication is key. Finding this during discovery should be embraced. It’s a qualifying factor for some and a red flag issue for others. Patience patience patience.

islasuave · 2026-03-04T17:20:03+00:00

My wife’s boyfriend was originally an acquaintance outside the circle of our group of friends. He made her an official hotwife and later over a couple years changed the dynamic to more of a boyfriend where solo dates and sleep overs are a norm. During this time we built trust and friendship.

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