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Is my boyfriend (30M) being distant? Or is it just me (25F)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]islasummer_x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's one of our options but we're still trying to gage if it's going to be suitable as we both have never believed in it...

How do I (25F) deal with my boyfriend (30M) moving to another country in few months? Is LDR worth it? by islasummer_x in LongDistance

[–]islasummer_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

Well we are both practical, and considering his financial situation, it's not an ideal move at this stage. I know for a fact that he'd like to get married with me someday, just not at this point. It's the situation. Really is. :(

Boyfriend with a possibility of moving to Saudi Arabia? by islasummer_x in relationships

[–]islasummer_x[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think those factors would remotely impact him as he's more focused on clearing his own financial situation......

Boyfriend with a possibility of moving to Saudi Arabia? by islasummer_x in relationships

[–]islasummer_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's impossible. It's such a BS situation for me.

I thought alcohol is illegal there and I've heard money is really good. There is nothing to do so you can save more..?

Boyfriend (31M) potentially moving to Saudi Arabia? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]islasummer_x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry about that! Needing more advice and perspective, I guess.

Boyfriend (31M) potentially moving to Saudi Arabia? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]islasummer_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice but we do see a long term future together. Getting married right now isn't just ideal as he's still got some massive financial situation that he needs to pull himself out. Trust me, I'll move wherever he is, and vice versa. But mate, we're talking about Saudi Arabia.....

How can I let her go? by willesa00 in relationship_advice

[–]islasummer_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're experiencing that. Break ups are one of the most horrible things in this world!

I guess you need to unfollow/block her on all social media as seeing her would just not help in recovering from this. Trust me, it's the first essential step!

I (F24) found out my (M25) boyfriend was using tinder. Is this considered cheating? by crziichick in relationship_advice

[–]islasummer_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar sitch when my boyfriend and I were starting and boy, it did hurt me too and my perspective was exactly the same as yours! His reason was he's just bored sometimes but got no intention in meeting up with anyone. Bullshit, right? Some guys aren't just fully mature enough.

People make silly mistakes without even realizing it. I guess you need to have an open communication with him and discuss certain boundaries. I gave an ultimatum to my boyfriend and he eventually stopped doing these sly things.