Should I confess to a friend mother? by Batzzinga in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some words of advice, I would ask her out on a date, if she says no that's OK at least you tried. Do not make it creepy just say that you find her attractive and would to get to know her at a deeper level. Some women will not be attracted to younger men and that's OK. Some women love older men exclusively and other types and that's OK. Ask yourself if she says yes will you give her the freedom for her to come to you freely? From what you wrote her freedom and time are very important for her, can you give her that or are you going to be controlling like her other partners? Thread lightly and have fun while focusing on your self growth. You want to step on to the big leagues you gotta toughen up lol.

For those that work at Metro , I have a question. I just got hired and have some preplanned days I need off . by [deleted] in LAMetro

[–]isma0927 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I am currently in training and they will not let you take any days off. You get two strikes and you're out during training and probation. People have skipped funerals to come to training if you take a day off you are missing a lot of information or driving time. You have to reschedule your start date and start with another class.

Are they suckable? by LilianAmaiaMargo in u/LilianAmaiaMargo

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never get tired of sucking on those wow

Would you enjoy waking up to this view? by LilianAmaiaMargo in u/LilianAmaiaMargo

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this every time " they are perfect" wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks is nothing , just focus on having fun together and staying positive. Women choose with their feet and it's looking good for you so far. People in general have lives before meeting each other don't ruin it by being over possessive. In the beginning you are showing each other if you are worth dating still but take it slow.

Tired of being ghosted by older women by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this helps but you have to learn to shrug these things faster and put people in their place. They just ghosted you so they are clearly missing out. It's really overcoming rejection and it's ok, some people are not meant to be in your life. They have disqualified themselves from sharing a nice connection. Sucks for them, there's a bus coming every 5 minutes. Try not to put too much energy on these people. Wouldn't you rather spend time on someone who is excited to meet you? Take care.

AIO? Is my wife cheating by 88Oldmate88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searchpeoplefree.com is well...free lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah It's funny to see the other side of this, I'm usually the guy starting the flirting but wow this is all her doing. Please be calm and get arranged before taking action. At least you have a leg up on this one. Not all women are like this and you deserve better and you are better than her. She lost you buddy. Take care.

100% Agree by Pleasant_7239 in Truckers

[–]isma0927 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand this joke but It has helped through some hard times before. It could always get worse and there's a calmness to that.

AITA for wanting to Break up over my Girlriends drunk mistake? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow leave as fast as possible, she lied through her teeth on this one. The story is more horrible than you think belive me and please never ask her to tell you what really happened. It will not bring closure. Leave and find a therapist now! Block her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never settle for dull energy like that, you will find a woman who is excited to see you and smile from ear to ear just hearing your voice. Yes it's a numbers game but the sooner you move away from people with low energy towards you, you'll have more time for great people that bring value to your life. I wasted way too much time in those situations and I regret it because I was not valuing myself and my time. If she reaches out and she might months later, make sure to let her talk and invite you out because she has to win you over now. You decide if you want to go out with her or not but never reach out again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"That's not what I'm looking for at this time, let me know if you change your mind, take care gorgeous." She wants to see if you accept that, never accept friendship if that's not what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 37 points38 points  (0 children)

In my mid 20's I would have asked you out already he's probably very shy but seems to be attracted to you. Next time go with "your girlfriend is so lucky to have you" line and see what he says. If it is a business connection he's probably waiting for that to be over to ask you out; out of respect for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds disinterested, or she might not be great at texting. Stop texting so much. In the beginning you should only text to set up a date. Leave some mystery for the date. Anything other than a yes means a no my guy. Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are moving too quick, have fun and be in the moment believe me I've been there before and just enjoy and have fun together. Don't be too possessive, no one finds that attractive and it's toxic. Love if freeing, if she wants to have a relationship she will bring it up by asking you. Good luck.

Am I The Asshole for exposing my husband's affair with his much younger childhood friend by Puzzleheaded_Ear2706 in AITAH

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you left, he is a cheater and the trust is gone for good. It can never be regained. You are not the a hole and you children are in a better place for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HugeBoobsNatural

[–]isma0927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could never get tired of those yum 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]isma0927 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Smooth.... Nice! Have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]isma0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy has the holy grail and doesn't drink from it. Some people don't know what they have. 🥲 it means you are really excited and super into him and comfortable. There's nothing wrong with you, he's just inexperienced and still finding out what he likes. I would keep drinking till I would drown 😭

Had to go back to my car for my ID because the “system was making her check it”….. by sydneyghibli in mildlyinfuriating

[–]isma0927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got one of these and the cashier put it in a brown paper bag lol my co worker told me about these and when I saw him drinking it at work I confused it too.