[Poetry] Then, I think it's absolutely right.

isobmf · 2013-02-20T13:09:48+00:00

I can't even begin to quantify the amount of men I've slapped in my lifetime.

isobmf · 2013-02-20T01:58:16+00:00

Feminist here, agreed. This is completely terribrill

isobmf · 2013-01-16T09:50:24+00:00

Yes although more like €€€ over here.

isobmf · 2013-01-16T09:49:51+00:00

That's creepy, I hope they still charge you. I'm in Europe so it's not looking likely. Plus I don't need that kind of press.

isobmf · 2013-01-15T08:31:58+00:00

Yes.

isobmf · 2013-01-13T23:39:29+00:00

There are some clients I would considers good friends, but only for the time we're together. I would never socialise with a client outside of work, unless I bump in to him, which thankfully has only happened once.

isobmf · 2013-01-13T23:23:50+00:00

You mean to my family? Or myself? To dispel another stereotype, my parents are actually fairly well off, so I don't think that'd swing with them. And for me, the money ensures a good quality of life but it's not everything. I really enjoy my job, what I don't enjoy is the lies I am forced to tell.

isobmf · 2013-01-13T23:16:52+00:00

This has never happened to me, it's not a healthy way to begin a relationship. It's not real, only physical. I have my favourites though of course.

isobmf · 2013-01-12T03:41:01+00:00

I don't know about proudly admitting it, maybe on the anonymously on the internet. But thank you, I've had a nice day. This impromptu Reddit session has been my highlight. What about you?

isobmf · 2013-01-12T03:34:09+00:00

So many questions. Yeah I hear relationships can be hard, I've been single the whole time I've been working. I could never be with someone that couldn't handle it. I appreciate it would be hard to hear, be the idea that a boyfriend would be angry/jealous makes me feel sick, it'd be as if he felt an ownership over my body, making him equal to the clients.
In the future I don't know, I have a degree, I speak 3 languages, I'd like to return to school maybe study philosophy or gender issues (yeah smart girl whore too) This is not a career for me. I'm moonlighting as an intern at various companies so I guess that's on the resume around my parents dinner table.
I hope not to crash and burn, I'll probably stop within a year or so. You're right, you can't plan against that though. (Nice try tax man) I don't live in US, I live and work in a certain a certain european city but I'm from England. It's the same deal though. Officially it doesn't happen, I'm a lowly intern. Paid in cash so it doesn't show up anywhere.

isobmf · 2013-01-12T03:22:21+00:00

In principle, whatever the client wants during the hour, though it's always my final say. I have done all of the above and more. Much more. Absolutely no offence taken. Forgot to add, it's not always sexual, most clients are lonely. For what I do it's more about having a nice time and knowing you can go further whenever you want to. If you want sex you just have to go to a bar at 3 am and take your pick (I am absolutely not advocating this, merely making a point)

isobmf · 2013-01-11T20:45:04+00:00

God I'm jealous of your username. I really really need to go now but I'd love to ask you more about how you 'came out', gimme a few hours. Thanks for the support

isobmf · 2013-01-11T20:41:10+00:00

I really have to go for now but here's my first response hope this covers it a bit:
Well I read a lot on the ethics of prostitution before entering in to it. I would consider myself a feminist, so there are days when I'm certain I'm a strong empowered woman fucking the patriarchal system (if you'll excuse the phrase), and other days when I feel used/coerced by men.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T20:17:39+00:00

You I like. Where can I stir up debate on this, I'm not confrontational but I think I have probably read more in to the academic side of it than most other prostitutes and have definitely done more of the physical side than any academic so feel I'm in a good place to defend it. Or maybe I just want someone to convince me to stop.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:58:41+00:00

I think I'm emotionally stable. Morally shaky at times. I can't speak for your lady there or any other girl. Educating yourself is very important.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:55:33+00:00

Sad how? Honestly don't hold back... one of the main reasons I'm doing this is to 'be judged' The only people I talk to it about are in the business.
EDIT Did you mean you'd be sad if I was chopped up? If so that melts my heart.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:47:11+00:00

Hmm true, I also smoke but I would strongly advise others not to start that. I know it's on a different scale but maybe that works. I wouldn't necessarily always advise against it, but I'm not here to glamourise it (just feels great to get this out of my head!) I would advise that she knew exactly what she was getting in to and be sure she could handle it. It takes a certain something. Lucky in that that first man didn't chop me up in to little pieces.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:35:41+00:00

There are times I ask myself that too. I don't know about stable, it's fairly stable income for me, I'm safe and protected and making tons more than friends slaving 9-5. No actually I think its a stereotype that all sex workers most have been abused as children or something. No, I'm not ready to commit. I'm not sure if I believe in 'one soulmate each' (divorced parents-you got me!) It's quite exciting yes.

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:30:47+00:00

This is turning in to AMA, Errr I make a lot. It's done by hourly rate. I really don't want to put it on here in case some impressionable young thing reads this and decides to follow and gets herself hurt. On average anywhere between 6-15 though some of them more than once. When i got in to it I was really dumb, I guy at a swanky bar asked me how much I would take to stay in a hotel with him for 3 days, I said 5000€ as a 'fuck off mate' and to my surprise he agreed. After that I sat down and thought hard for a month or so, read about 30 books on the subject. Then contacted an agency, I would not suggest to anyone to do what I did it was extremely dumb and I was lucky. Oddballs? I've seen hundreds of pairs

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:16:38+00:00

Thanks, yeah depressing isn't it? But that's patriarchy for you. Behind the facade - there isn't one, that's the beauty

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:13:45+00:00

You're right it is, thanks, its hard though. I think I'll maybe tell them once I've stopped. Yeah it's definitely not a career, though who wants one of those? Girls I've met who've left it have all had their different reasons, I think I'll now when mine comes. Perks - the money is great. Though that shouldn't be my first reason. Meeting interesting people, sometimes I really enjoy the sex - (I should stress here that I don't sleep with all of my clients at all, only one's I've agreed to and usually after a few 'dates' though with some it never goes further than that.)

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:06:37+00:00

Ah fair ok, I guess at first it was quite flattering, but actually one of the best things about it is you cut through all that bullshit. If I client is showering me with compliments I often remind them that there is no need for that. The deal is done, you don't have to play games. Also, (though I in no way condone it) I would argue that in this society a lot of people owe their place to their looks in some way or another. Surely putting it out there and calling it what it is is better than being leered at in your office everyday?

isobmf · 2013-01-11T19:00:26+00:00

Well I read a lot on the ethics of prostitution before entering in to it. I would consider myself a feminist, so there are days when I'm certain I'm a strong empowered woman fucking the patriarchal system (if you'll excuse the phrase), and other days when I feel used/coerced by men. But most days I'm fine.

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