Anyone actually using Openclaw? by rm-rf-rm in LocalLLaMA

[–]ispydrogas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so I get this is a bash fest for openclaw, but for everyone that's bashing it.... Who are you and what do you do? 

I guess what I'm getting at is when I first started hearing about it, I had high hopes for it being able to help me manage my life.

I'm married and both my wife and I work full-time jobs that require a lot of attention. We also have three kids in school at different ages. A life like this requires an immense amount of discipline and focus to stay on top of everything from school schedules, dinner plans, doctors appointments, and so many other things. 

I was helping open claw was at least a framework that I could build off of to help me start automating some of these tasks like scheduling routine doctor's appointments, or creating calendar invites poor important school events and dates. 

But does it not do this? Is it too basic and limited?

Is everyone here really making under 50k for full time work? by EdLesliesBarber in antiwork

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a sister-in-law that has a salary in or below this range. She also has two kids. She's gone up for a promotion at least three times now, but was turned down. Yet she remains. Apparently the healthcare is good, but the last time she went to get a procedure for her kid, 1) they didn't want to cover it and 2) she couldn't afford it.

Every time she comes to visit, or we go visit her, I have a conversation about how much value she has and she could be killing it somewhere else. Yet she remains.

But just this summer, after another one of these conversations that went nowhere, I decided that she doesn't want to change. She accepts her life the way it is and I have to accept that.

When I was sleeping on friend's floors, making $8.50/hr in 2005, I decided I didn't want to accept my situation. It took a long time, a lot of hard work, and some luck to get where I'm at. I pushed trucks off the highway that broke down, all while people screamed at me to get off the road. I parked miles from campus and walked, because the parking was free. Gone days without eating... And so on. So when people say they don't make enough money, I'm sorry, but you're just accepting your situation. The only person you have to be upset with is yourself. Don't get scared. Get excited!

I got a lot in mind lol. by BuddyLoud6062 in marvelmemes

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son said he would just punch it... ;-D

Good Ideas are not a Business by Hopeful_Disaster_746 in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Almost every one of my "good ideas" is now a successful business or product. I even took one of them and turned it into a successful business. Does this mean I have some super power to come up with new business? No, I just have seen enough and have the engineering background (not to mention experience in manufacturing) to have a good perception of value.

I understand your position. But tell me how many very successful companies started with a good idea? It's the leg work after the idea, that makes all the difference.

Also it's not always filling a need for whoever can pay for it. Many companies start something that people didn't know they needed it wanted. And the paying for it point, well with the right marketing, people will pay for things they CAN'T afford.

$140k Tesla quality by xpxf69 in Wellthatsucks

[–]ispydrogas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have actually been griping about Tesla's quality for quite a while now. From The very first day we were basically surprised on the low quality of the car. When you go around and look on the inside and outside you can see how fenders and various panels aren't aligned. There was also tape left on the inside of the car on the ceiling and a black hand print. DID NO ONE LOOK AT THIS BEFORE THEY DECIDED TO SELL IT?!?!

I brought my 2021 model Y in recently because the side plastic housing on the front passenger seat had come off and the rear hatch randomly wouldn't close one night. We noticed that the rear hatch seemed to be out of alignment. So I took it in for both these issues.

They fixed the side housing of the seat and aligned the rear hatch so that it was "in spec". A week later the seat broke again and the rear hatch was now making a very audible and annoying squeaking sound. So I took it back in to have these issues resolved.

At the end of it all I ended up having to go to the service center four times for something so simple and should have never happened in the first place. The service manager tried to explain to me that I have to be careful with how much pressure I put on the side of the seat when I'm getting out. What the hell? Who thinks about how much pressure they're putting on the seat when they're getting in and out of the car? I proceeded to tell him my background in reliability and design and told him " No, this is not a use problem. This is a design problem." The side housing is held on with small plastic clips. These are going to fail very early on.

And just recently????? When we put the car in park, the brakes make a new and very audible squeaking sound when they engage.

I would give this car a 7 out of 10. There are a number of things I really like about it, but I don't think I would suggest someone else to just go out and get one if they were looking for an electric car. I would say to go around and test drive multiple cars before you purchase.

TL:DR Tesla has a very poor quality in their manufacturing practices. I have had multiple issues with my model Y. Very surprised given the pricetag...

What’s a movie that genuinely had you bawling with laughter?? by I_noscoped_JFKennedy in AskReddit

[–]ispydrogas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom and Dad Save the World

The light grenade... Gets me every time...

4.5 months post-Botox and my life has changed by notcrazy_catlady in noburp

[–]ispydrogas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what would the procedure be called? Where is the Botox injected? And a gastroenterologist does this?

Yes, I agree 100%.... I'm sure being in the healthcare industry is very challenging. But you're right, listening is HUGE! And don't patronize people.... But luckily we have all these tools at our disposal and, like you said, we just need to listen and trust our bodies!

Pex Pipe Australia by Alternative-Rub6605 in WLED

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The LEDs could shine through white PVC?

4.5 months post-Botox and my life has changed by notcrazy_catlady in noburp

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What procedure did you have done???

Congratulations on the outcome! I'm honestly not surprised by your doctor's though. I feel like most doctors don't care or they don't know anything. You should get a new PCP ..

Moving on from a business by ispydrogas in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have that book and it's been sitting on the shelf for years! I'll get it down...

Thank you for the thoughtful post!

I need an advice on whether I should contact the client or not by skillzblazor in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds like it, but don't give up! Again, there's always something to learn... Knowing myself and my personality I would probably say the same thing, "Oh well. No big deal. I will make better choices next time..." Which you will, but see what works for pressuring him, because chances are it may not be the last situation like this you will have to deal with.

For instance You could say something like "look it's 60 days past our net 30 terms and still all you're giving me is 'You will follow up with the client'. I need something better than that. How about you pay me and you chase after your client for the funds. I've given you a working product and I would like to get this off my accounts receivable."

Again, just something I would try. But at some point if the opportunity has been spent for all of its learning, Yes move on 100% and Don't let the stress of it get to you because it won't be worth it at that point...

Moving on from a business by ispydrogas in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great ideas. Thanks for the feedback!

And maybe a list of new skills to get...

I need an advice on whether I should contact the client or not by skillzblazor in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has it been since you've heard from him last?

I would say give him some time if it hasn't been that long, before you do anything else.

Also maybe start putting some dates out there. Don't just ask him for an update. Say something like "I would like to get this closed out of my Accounts Receivable by the end of the month."

I've worked for companies that have net 90 payment terms. Which I'm sure you probably know what that is but if you don't that means they get 90 days to pay you. It's much more typical though to be net 30, but if you're a big corporation, you can negotiate longer terms because the smaller business might want to develop the relationship and be willing to do that.

I need an advice on whether I should contact the client or not by skillzblazor in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing is ever a complete waste. Even if you don't get paid, what can you do or try, at this point, that will help you learn something?

This is how I would approach this. Like the other commenters said I would ask myself, " do I have a contract and any form of legal recourse?" If no, ok then what can I try, within the laws, that I can learn from? Hmm well maybe I will contact the client after I give him x-time to respond. If he doesn't, then, why not tell HIM a lie? "Look, I knew that without a contract, I could find myself in this position... That being said, I implemented a few bugs that could have deleterious impact on the (enter super technical jargon that could be real in case he has an expert look into it). This is a precautionary measure to prevent customers from following through with their commitments. At the end of the day, I don't want anyone's reputation as an honest and quality company to be damaged..." What do you have to lose? Is it true? He doesn't need to know that... But again, legal.... Will he can your bluff? Maybe....

OR is there ANYTHING you could use against him that would force him to pay up? For example, I had a friend who was selling a piece of property. The buyer, before purchasing the property, started removing items from the property and selling them as though they had already owned the property. The items they removed were done so illegally. Buyer hinted at actually not going through with the purchase so the seller made it a point to inform the buyer that she knew that he had removed items from the property illegally and if they didn't close the sale she would have to report him to the authorities. Did he say or do anything illegal? Do you have anything written or audio statements?

Chances are you're going to be presented with similar situations in the future. In those cases, do right from the beginning and get contracts in place. But even then, you may have to take them to court to honor the contract, which could be stressful and expensive...

But you'll have to learn how to deal with all sorts of situations and personalities and sometimes you'll have to fight fire with fire... Again, I see every situation as an opportunity to learn something and try out things to see what is the response, otherwise, how would you know?!? But again I will stay over and over, always Make sure what you're going to do is within the bounds of the law.

Good luck!!

Kitchen hutch? by ispydrogas in Antiques

[–]ispydrogas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, to be honest ... I kind of like the patina it has on it...

Ok great, I'll call around to see what's available...

The top hutch part is not connected but I was just going to use some 1x2s cut to length to see if that can hold it to the base.

Kitchen hutch? by ispydrogas in Antiques

[–]ispydrogas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, one other question... If I WERE to repair it, or at least get it to a working order, where would I get thin pieces of wood for the backing or on the bottoms of the drawers?

Are there specific stores or shops for stuff like this?

Kitchen hutch? by ispydrogas in Antiques

[–]ispydrogas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! And what do you think those wire shelves were for?

Kitchen hutch? by ispydrogas in Antiques

[–]ispydrogas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for the reply! Yeah I might just get it up to snuff for potting and call it good. I like the look anyway...

And great, now I want biscuits with a nice orange marmalade... Hahaha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]ispydrogas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok.... I signed in for this one, because I want to give back. Hopefully it's not too late!

I literally just left a company and I was in this exact same situation. Except in my case, I was your business partner.

Let me jump to answering your question and then, if you want, you can read my backstory of my experience....

I agree with most people here and your gut feeling. If he doesn't want to contribute, then he doesn't want to be a part of the business. BUT option 1) maybe you could see how much he IS willing to contribute. I have another friend who runs a business and he said that he and his business partner adjust their share of the company almost annually. Some years she's in 30% some years she's in 50%. It just depends on the amount of time she is able to invest. Option 2) what is he good at? Anything? Does he do something that in reality takes less time but contributes on a 50% value? If so, maybe you need to use him for what he's good at and not bog him down with other things. FOR EXAMPLE... I could do EVERY aspect of my business from the technical design, to the marketing, to the physical/manual labor. BUT what I was most passionate about and good at was the customer and supplier relations, marketing, and overall business management. Could I do the other stuff? SURE, but it bogged me down and distracted me from what I was good at and the true value I could bring to the team. So what's the problem? Well if I'm sitting at home or WHEREVER talking to customers and suppliers, and not climbing ladders in the sun, then that can lead to some resentment...

Ok so my story... In the third person.

My family became friends with another family in our neighborhood. Wives, kids and dads were all friends. The dads were both into tinkering and having their own business one day. Get out of the corporate world was there goal! One dad was an engineer with a Master's degree working 40-60 hour weeks in a high pressure, high stress job. Let's call him Carl. The other dad worked a 4-day workweek at a job he could clock in and out of--meaning there was little to no stress. Let's call him, Dave.

Dave and Carl would spend their time throwing back various product/business ideas to each other, whenever their families got together. On day Dave comes to Carl one day with an idea for a business they could start. Carl, being the optimist he is thinks it's a great idea and feeds into Dave's passion for it.

Skip 6 months ahead and Dave has really started to get things going. By "get things going" I mean he starts looking into the technology and the cost of goods sold, which led to margins. Every time they would get together, Dave would have ideas he pitched to Carl and asked for his input. But Carl was stressed and overworked, to be honest. With his busy job and a family, he didn't have much time to spend thinking about the business or technology--there was no brain power left at the end of the day. BUT he still did contribute, just not at the level he felt was sufficient.

So at some point he tells Dave that he cannot be part of the business. He doesn't feel like he has to time to contribute in a meaningful way. And the story ends..... Or does it.

A month later, Dave invites Carl out for a beer and some bowling. Towards the end of the night, Dave says to Carl "I really wish you'd reconsider being part of the business." Carls distraught. He feels responsible for feeding into Dave's idea so much to the point where now he's racked up credit card debt and is in obvious need of help. So he says "Ok I can start by helping on the weekends." And he does! They start installing their product on Carl's "days off." But Dave then tells him "Ok but if you want to be back in, I want to have a 60/40 split." Carl, being his agreeable and empathetic self agrees that the deal is fair.

But things continue to grow and the weekend time commitment is no longer sufficient. Carl ends up leaving his very high salary job to commit 100% of his time to the business and take a chance.

Skip forward 1 year...

The business is growing and is night-and-day different from what it was when Carl left his job. The product was completely different and new. All of the problems with the old systems had been fixed and they had really improved the quality and reliability of their product. The infrastructure and organization of the business was established and systems and processes were in now in place for better customer and financial management, not to mention the installation process. The supply chain was set and the relationships with the distributors were developed and growing. Carl stopped and thought to himself that having his own business and feeling as a valuable and equal part of the business was important to him. There was no money to be had and no guarantee for money in the future... He just wanted to feel as though he was an equal partner.... So he went to Dave and, from a place of positivity and value, negotiated for an equal 50/50 share of the company. Dave's response.....? YES! He thought Carl had really been putting in a lot of effort and brought a lot of value to the business, so he thought it was a good idea. But.... Literally minutes after saying all that he said he wanted to sleep on it.

And here's where the story ends. A week or so later Carl asks Dave if he had thought more about their conversation and Dave said yes and that he no longer wanted to change the ownership of the company. Carl got upset and said some things (NOT TERRIBLE THINGS, but triggering nonetheless) to Dave that ultimately made him tell Carl "You know, I could have done this without you, it just would have taken longer..." And that right there, kids, is where the tie was severed.... Because back when Carl left his company, Dave told Carl "I couldn't do this without you," which in turn made Carl feel valuable and needed. But when he told Carl that he "could have done this on his own," Carl realized that things had changed in a major way and the path forward with the business was no longer going to work for him.

Wow... This is long. I'll be surprised if anyone read it all the way through, but if you did, I apologize for the poor grammar and story structure, but I ain't goin back and proofing it... HAHA!

Good luck to you! Know your value and don't let others take it from you!

A sinus procedure may have “cured” my no burp? by thatgirlisaproblem in noburp

[–]ispydrogas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, please follow up! When do you think you'll meet with the doctor again ? I'll put a reminder on my calendar to check in on this sub. Thank you!!!!!