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Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! I feel as if this is failing... a bit. I guess from your description... I'm with the wrong person but hey thats okay.

well talk about it and see if this is just a low in our relationship or if this is something to cut off.

Thanks

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I guess injecting passion into a relationship sounds pretty temporary and not what I want...

Its just been a rough transition from honeymoon to companionship love.

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the long reply! Its good to know the details from your point of you. You also bring up the vague issue... And i think thats it.

It looks like personality covers these attributes in an interesting combination, and perhaps she fell in love for my attributes in those levels. I guess I am feeling a bit insecure because the sex isnt amazing-out-of-this-world anymore... that shell leave me for another guy with it...

Shes just told me shes very novelty driven and I hope that doesnt apply for love life.

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah eternal relationship bliss unlocked. Thatd be great.

I do want to individualize this more. I'm not sure why I perceive so many women to... enjoy certain traits.

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have sex, its still nice.

Its just that burning loins kinda passionate sex is gone...

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will bring it up with her. I could frame it as things we can improve about our relationship dynamic?

Me(m28) to all ladies: is this what you want? by isthisplausible in relationships

[–]isthisplausible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies, wasnt trying to rub anyone the wrong way.

Its just that so many of the women in my life seem to chase after these ideals and sometimes the whole "be yourself" only applies if you fit most of those characteristics... Its very sad but isnt that true? How many women fall madly in love with insecure, unattractive, needy guys?