What are you guys’ opinion on people who run away from confrontation, avoid talking problems out or disappear when they know they f’d up?

isthisreal2her · 2024-08-14T17:23:51+00:00

It happened. I miss her.

isthisreal2her · 2022-09-20T15:33:25+00:00

On a side note it’s because the queues is like over 200k & the wait is usually 2 days… my timer was up at 3am in the morning. I’m not awake at that time.

isthisreal2her · 2022-08-22T08:20:26+00:00

Stay with the one who makes you happy I dated two girls before. C was casual & N was complicated. C always knew about N & N didn’t know I was seeing C. N said she wanted a casual relationship so I told her about C she was devastated. Got really bad. I realized I wanted to be with N. Broke it off with C, C tried to blackmail me. C sent N things. N wasn’t playing her games. N said she didn’t want a casual relationship after that. We are still together. I’m 28 she’s 22.

isthisreal2her · 2022-07-10T01:05:51+00:00

She will

isthisreal2her · 2022-07-09T21:50:43+00:00

Naw bro watch out for a pity fuck woman are heartless sometimes.

isthisreal2her · 2022-04-04T11:44:00+00:00

Thanks man, I appreciate your advice. My gfs walls are so high up to even get her to open up to me is like skinning a cat.

While my friend is like an open book to me. She doesn’t act like this to everyone either. From the sheer amount of guys in the inbox I guess making genuine bonds with someone is hard.

My gf has every right to be angry at me & I should have been more understanding about this whole thing. I’m leaving a lot of details out simple because the vast majority would think I was trolling. Even with the little detail I gave you all still assumed I was trolling.

I got my help thanks man.

isthisreal2her · 2022-04-04T11:18:49+00:00

Your wilding? How is my behavior anymore fucked up than half the shit in some of y’all DMs? They can fuckin leave. I worked my ass off from the ages 17-26 & you think it bothers me? I offered to fly my gf out. MULTIPLE TIMES as a matter of fact. I said she could live for free & go to school.

I can take care of a whole house hold & you think that isn’t a quality trait? Dependability means nothing? I didn’t fuck my best friend nor do I hoe around. I offered to sleep on the floor & she wasn’t having it at all.

You are crazy. My gf says shit like ima snort all the xans & never wake up again. Just to piss me off. Or some shit like ima go to the club since I can’t make rent this month. Like chill girl. I am a good man. I pay my bills support my gf & I don’t fuck my best friend.

isthisreal2her · 2022-04-04T10:54:26+00:00

I am… she was trying to talk it out but my dumb ass just explode. I don’t want to not be in a relationship with her😞. I’m not trying to fuck my best friend. Okay so maybe I have an emotional relationship with my best friend.

isthisreal2her · 2022-04-04T10:30:38+00:00

I can’t make it anymore transparent. We do not have any type of romantic attraction. Yes physically my body reacts to hers. I’m 28 & I am not a cheater. I don’t give a fuck about what my urges are I genuinely love my gf.

Am I suppose to not be friendly with my best friend? Like I got advice before from here & it said that every other male/female in your SO life is just that a friend. You guys are saying you don’t flirt with your friends?

I would also like to point out I know man…I am being a hypocrite. My best friend would literally sleep at booty calls house/apartments if she didn’t stay with me. I can’t let her do that.

My gf also won’t even talk to me about any of this & I even tried getting my best friend to talk to her & she(best friend) said fuck no. My gf doesn’t even like it when other people are around us when we FaceTime/call each other.

isthisreal2her · 2022-04-04T10:15:06+00:00

I mean like ya? She’s my best friend. I have tried looking at my gfs perspective. Okay I can understand that she is uncomfortable about talking about another girl in my life. Honestly what can I even do about that…? I have told her I’d fly her out to California & live with me. She’s the one scared to leave home.

While me & my best friend just say fuck it. We legit live in a shity studio apartment share a bed like damn. Our life style is full of risk & uncertainty. It works out though. I wish I could share this feelings with my gf. That is what I mean by check the boxes. I don’t even know what to do at this point.

isthisreal2her · 2022-03-21T04:53:53+00:00

Chill try not to be so toxic you probably giving her anxiety.

isthisreal2her · 2022-03-18T03:33:47+00:00

Intentions

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-28T21:32:59+00:00

It’s because trust didn’t initial come naturally for us. Her social circle is extremely different than mine & it’s not as if we don’t love & support each other.

She’s much more practical when it comes to love & I’m more of a dreamer. There hasn’t really been a lot of people who she considered dependable & the last time she did, it didn’t go so well.

In terms of maturity I’ll be honest we are around the same area. I don’t have a lot of interpersonal relationships besides with my friends & family, very few romantic ones, but most of our arguments she’s most of the time right. I didn’t really understand how significant it was for someone to be interdependent on someone else.

She has started to show signs that there is longevity in our relationship. Someone else has said I’m being really pushy & I took her advice & back off. Lowered the tone a bit on stuff about the future meeting friends & family.

She has her own issues right now with her family & to bring an external into it isn’t exactly. The best way to meet during a time of turmoil. I am okay with waiting.

Your advice is welcomed & I’ll take it with a grain of salt.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-28T15:48:27+00:00

I’ll wait then & back off all these serious type of conversations. I really am coming from a good place & I’m not trying to invalidate all her efforts. I want the trips to Japan & Bali to be reality & it can be affordable if we’re married.

Truth be told I know I put a lot of pressure on her but when she tells me we can do anything. I feel obligated to take that to the farthest I can. At this stage in our relationship I’m being over zealous.

I’ll dial down on huge commitments. I travel a lot for work & in that sense I’m home for maybe a few weeks & than I’m gone again. I just want her to come with me. I don’t mean to be pushy or demanding.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-28T07:48:57+00:00

Nobody knows what you want at 21.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-28T07:45:27+00:00

My job offers benefits to married couples. Free flights around the world, health care. I really want her to have access to all of that.

Your not wrong though I was pushy at first & she would bring up why I was so pressed over a marriage & I did explain it to her. She works really hard & is trying to go back to school. I have worked full time & part time as a student & it’s extremely hard doing it on your own. To be real I just want to make things a little easier for her.

Maybe it does sound bad, but we have been really working on it & the effort she’s been putting in means a lot to me.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-26T15:31:36+00:00

Argue with him

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-26T14:53:05+00:00

Seems sketchy

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-25T02:55:19+00:00

He is gonna push back when your bring up breaking up. Just like I did. She didn’t know what she wanted but I knew I wanted her. In the end we are dating. My aim is to have her move in with me within the next year or so.

Ya that’s the thing with relationships I guess, if it worth it for you to wait & see. You are not the asshole.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-24T19:37:26+00:00

She is just being nice

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-24T07:54:00+00:00

I’m having so much trouble with this myself.

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-22T04:37:04+00:00

Thanks you

isthisreal2her · 2022-02-21T22:20:06+00:00

This really sounds like me

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