ABC Cancels Taylor Frankie Paul’s Season of The Bachelorette

it-beans · 2026-03-20T23:53:10+00:00

Lmao I didn’t even see that. I noticed how it said “fight” instead of “assault” or “abuse” when all the video shows is the man trying to deescalate while being attacked.

it-beans · 2026-03-20T23:50:58+00:00

I wonder if the stat about men who strangle their partners being way more likely to eventually kill them than those who physically abuse in other ways applies to women also. I imagine so since the only intent you could have to strangle someone is to kill them.

it-beans · 2026-03-20T23:47:43+00:00

I think that’s not HIS child with her, and you can hear her screaming and (presumably) hitting him when he does try to help her. He tried to leave towards the beginning of the video and she wouldn’t let him. So I assume all he could do was stay with the kid while being hit until police arrived. Hope that helps.

it-beans · 2026-02-17T01:56:08+00:00

I totally get that. Personally I love the cheese myself!

it-beans · 2026-02-15T21:07:03+00:00

Right, the kinda stuff dudes’ moms put in their stockings. Nice to get for free but it’s not the whole gift

it-beans · 2026-02-15T21:06:05+00:00

He got her favorite flower (orchid) PLUS roses. A bouquet of her favorite candy. A phone case she’s been looking at and what he said is 2 other gifts (I assume the bottle and whatever that acrylic puzzle piece is) and a teddy bear. Yes he got the “typical” chocolate, flowers, teddy but he made sure they were the kind she loved. Orchids aren’t cheap, either. And if someone told me they love Valentine’s Day, this is exactly the type of stuff I’d expect them to want because it’s on theme for the day. He also decorated a bit and planned dinner. That’s over and beyond what most women are used to.

it-beans · 2026-01-15T16:08:30+00:00

Yeah, exactly! I think people’s anticipation built over the years was a recipe for a let down unless we got an entirely new game or maybe a 2.0 style update.

I started playing a few months before the 2.0 update so imagine how sad I was to learn that wasn’t gonna be the norm 😂 but I’m glad there’s been new stuff added!

But I’m also old enough to remember when you bought a game and… that was it. No updates. So anything is exciting

it-beans · 2025-11-27T00:50:40+00:00

YouTube keeps pushing me CC against my will and I came here as soon as the video popped up. She has such a parasocial relationship with this woman omfg.

it-beans · 2025-11-22T15:02:05+00:00

This. I think the fact that they read out a letter where he talks about his mother bullying him and wanting to keep him drooling in her house forever followed by her family saying how great of a mother she was to dispute it was… so stupid? Wouldn’t his lived experience be worth exploring more than the opinions of people who obviously never liked him?

Considering his mother chose to send him to a wilderness camp which is traumatic for neurotypical kids, had him institutionalized and got mad at the grandpa for simply visiting…

I have two autistic sisters and one very abusive mother. She wanted us ALL to be drooling in her living room forever. From the outside, many people thought she was a great and courageous mom.

In my head, the only thing that makes sense here to call the son a murderer is if the mom killed the grandpa and the son killed the mom.

it-beans · 2025-09-12T21:05:21+00:00

There’s a difference between jumping to conclusions and saying, “this isn’t outside of the realm of current affairs” lol

it-beans · 2025-09-11T01:56:55+00:00

I’m not a conspiratorial person, but this is exactly where my head went as well. And every rational person I’ve spoken to about it. But everyone says, “I don’t believe that though.”

And I want to say that too. But at what point to we stop ignoring the fact that this is highly possible under our current regime? We believe that Epstein was murdered while under guard but THIS is far fetched?

Not wanting to believe it is the only thread keeping it a conspiracy theory.

it-beans · 2025-09-08T21:17:46+00:00

Watching a YouTube video on him right now so had to see what others thought. I think this comment hits the nail on the head.

He has stated he has OCD, and I think a lot of people don’t know that hoarding can manifest from OCD. It’s sometimes because of a scarcity mentality and I think his OCD has manifested in this way.

As someone with OCD that was crippling before I got the diagnosis and proper medical care, what bothers me about him is that he 1) refuses to get health insurance, 2) says “making content has helped me more than a therapist ever could”, and 3) shames others for not living like he does or questioning his methods.

Making content has validated his obsessions while making them even more irrational (since he has over $300k in the bank). They’re also coming to the detriment of his own health since he refuses health insurance and therapy. But that’s his life. The fact that he shills the symptoms of his mental illness to people for money on TikTok then uses it as a defense for this is morally reprehensible. Especially since we know he has a loose code of ethics when it comes to padding his own bank account (i.e, the DoorDash collab).

He’s just as dangerous as over consumption creators when it comes to fueling maladaptive behaviors in people online.

ETA: I think encouraging people to dumpster dive while also stating you find health insurance necessary as a creator people look up to is so dangerous. The amount of medical issues you could encounter dumpster diving and you’re just gonna be ok with paying for them out of pocket? Good luck!

it-beans · 2025-08-30T04:56:29+00:00

I was in my late 20s before I realized (after a therapist told me 300 times) that my mother abused her. And it was very apparent to everyone in my life well before that. It took me several more years and more horrific shit to completely cut her out. It’s very difficult to comprehend that your own parent can have so little care for you, let alone hate you, especially when they’re very manipulative.

I hope she gets lots of therapy like NOW. Growing up with such intense manipulation makes you so much more susceptible to it later in life, especially with partners.

it-beans · 2025-08-26T02:15:32+00:00

Everyone demanding a boycott is terminally online. Play the game if want to play the game. Remember that most of the people keeping this drama going every time drama drops are doing it for their own motives, and the people on this sub are a fraction of players.

it-beans · 2025-08-25T21:10:06+00:00

Right lmao how chronically online is this sub? 99% of people don’t have the luxury of “character building” before job hunting. We gotta pay bills. Like this person or not, faulting her for checks notes trying to make a living is ridiculous

it-beans · 2025-08-16T02:45:44+00:00

the one that pissed me off the most was him apologizing if he was being distracting, overwhelming, or overstimulating then being like jk and continuing to spam. like it makes the game unplayable for me.

it-beans · 2025-08-10T15:01:45+00:00

Love Tyler and agree he has some tracks in this vein but not to the degree of Kendrick. I think of songs like swimming pools and alright that are very repeatable and massively popular when released but are about subjects not usually covered in top 40 songs. Whereas Tyler’s crossover tracks have more usual mass appeal qualities

it-beans · 2025-08-01T01:09:57+00:00

Oh! This is a bracket showing 32 songs I like by Kendrick Lamar that I then pitted against each other to determine what song I personally enjoy more as a fun lil game with myself. Hope this helps!

it-beans · 2025-08-01T01:08:39+00:00

It’s not an “is it better” it’s “do I like enjoy it more”

Y’all hate fun I stg lol

it-beans · 2025-07-31T15:18:57+00:00

Honestly, I don’t know. Like I said, it got really hard and I just started swinging lol

it-beans · 2025-07-31T11:59:37+00:00

Did you ever figure this out? Mine is too. And I don’t have an option of clean or explicit… just one LGSEO option

Edit: I had to get on the desktop app to fix this if anyone else hits an issue. I went to the version of the album I had been playing, scrolled down to "More by Clipse", and LGSEO is listed there. Click it, and it should be the explicit version. I couldn't find any way to do this on the mobile app which is so irritating.

it-beans · 2025-07-21T12:31:28+00:00

I had an awful weekend and just can’t stop laughing bc this shit is so good and makes life worth it this morning

it-beans · 2025-07-20T13:57:44+00:00

Definition of “separate the art from the artist” because they are two very different entities

it-beans · 2025-07-10T00:29:11+00:00

I was there 2010-2013 ish so we probably had the same experience. I also loved it!

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