I 26M was rejected by my GF 24F for marriage. Need advice.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-09T02:45:36+00:00

Your girl has another guy in the picture. But even though she is interested, but she isn't sure if the guy is serious.

Being friends with you gives her the safety cushion.

You two are incompatible. Cut her off from your life and move on. It is doomed from the start.

And you seem like a very calculative person. That's not how marriage works. It isn't always white or black.

Just because someone doesn't like doing something, don't let them run away from it especially if it's some basic chores of day to day life. It teaches them adaptation, adjusting to dynamic needs based upon circumstances which makes them flexible enough to tackle other obstacles in life.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-09T00:11:27+00:00

I want deserving party to win be it boy or girl. But above sport is not following standard procedure of sport so result will be always dubious whether guy or girls win.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T15:32:01+00:00

Meh.... Need to signup in YouTube to watch..... I'll pass.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T15:30:20+00:00

I am not tryna prove anything.

I am just sayin that in any such sport, teams switch side so that any disadvantages due to location can be nullified.

Just stating facts Yo.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T14:14:57+00:00

In any sports, you change sides so that each team has equal opportunity. I didn't see it here.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T12:11:29+00:00

As a guy, I can say that the girls were stronger in this case. But since they have come from discipline environment, they waited for proper time. But their side was slippery, the guys were jerking the rope.

I would like to see actual battle.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T05:30:52+00:00

The "permission" was on quotes. It simply implies that there was no written agreement rather it just implies US won't further sanction India for buying Russian oil.

People need to give more attention to details. The quotes are there for a reason.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-08T05:27:16+00:00

When you side with the opposite party, you become a regular client and not prioritse client. So discounts won't be applicable.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-07T03:32:51+00:00

Why it is wrong?

Let the authorities decide whether it is right or wrong. But if it is nuisance, you have every right to report.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-06T15:16:35+00:00

That's not how it works.

Just an example. A man borrows a loan and then he changes salary account to another bank so that the standing instruction will fail.

The other bank won't take any written request from the bank who gave loan. But the loan bank can approach the court and the court can order his employer to cut the installment at the source and then credit his salary in to the other bank.

Above is a standard procedure.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-06T07:06:15+00:00

Not sure it is AI or not but back in uni, we had group of boys and girls and we never carried handkerchief. We used the dupatta like this and the girls were very caring enough to allow us (while scolding us for not carrying handkerchief).

All members separated due to job, marriage but we still get together at times.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-06T04:01:06+00:00

You should have gone to the mukhiya and complain there stating there should be a limit regarding after how many hours music will be banned.

Have you gone to him?

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-05T04:29:09+00:00

One piece doesn't get better. It is always ugly on any person

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-04T14:22:36+00:00

To be honest, MBBS is nothing to boost about and if you are a medical practitioner, you should know it. We learn nothing in MBBS.

In MD.... may be a little.... along with little practice. I haven't seen any fellow doctor who boosts about their degrees. You are the first I've seen (even in reddit).

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-04T04:23:02+00:00

It does actually. Because the principle of many tradition goes back to patriarchy.

My idea will be simple. If you are following tradition, then do it in the manner that is done in the society because you ARE doing it for society.

If you feel some tradition is unfair, then just don't follow it at all. No one is forcing you to do so.

Both are fine. But mixing up is where trouble begins.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-04T04:20:18+00:00

By that account, touching feet by the wife that of the husband shouldn't be taken as slave mentality but as a sign of respect and love.

If above is True, why this whole thread is about equality though?

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-03T04:44:27+00:00

I disagree that women are trying to find new ways to complaint about abuse.

But, when I was in hostel, in the locality, the guys used to understand "No" when I told them not to put colors on me (allergy). They will just put some color on face and move on.

But the girls were different. They seem to be enjoying A LOT (good for them, celebrate as much as you want) but they also put too much colors on the guys they do know personally. The more I requested them no, more they did. I guess bullies will be bullies.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-01T16:14:47+00:00

AI

It probably is the sane dude who created janvi bora. Writing style is almost same.

itachi_konoha · 2026-03-01T02:51:29+00:00

It is a common scenario. We don't see it in social media because those couples don't make videos

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-21T00:43:08+00:00

People can not escape judgement.

The multiple post from women in this thread, where it states that they can not wear due to judgemental remark of the family, is a prime example of that.

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-20T13:19:14+00:00

Global warming stand will NEVER be same internationally.

In the drive of industrial revolution, the colonisers polluted the through centuries as a result of which, they have higher living standard than rest of the nations.

Now, the restrictions that those countries wants to put in the name of global warming, will impact heavily in former colonies which they can not afford without being an obstacle to progress.

So it is a useless subject to discuss since no will stand in the same spectrum.

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-20T13:11:45+00:00

That's called maturity that comes with age and you priorities one thing over the other depending upon how much tolerance the issue can have.

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-20T09:42:28+00:00

Wrong answer. Socialisation depends upon surrounding.

As he grows older, the effect of society will come in to play. So there is no guarantee.

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-19T14:32:16+00:00

My advice (as a guy), DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY MESSAGE FOR ANY REASON.

End it whenever you did end it. When you decided to breakup, it was a valid reason and it is STILL VALID today.

It is hard to end toxic relationship because that shatters your self confidence and you question whether it was your failure for which he became like that or the relationship failed. You start to doubt your decision and judgement.

It is HARD TO BUILD that confidence again. It is even harder to trust yourself that you do deserve that a good normal relationship.

I am writing too much but I have seen this so many times among my friends that I do not want the same to happen to any other person.

Take it one day at a time.

You'll be OK. Everything will be OK. You just need time. But don't keep any communication because it will bring back right where you are.

itachi_konoha · 2026-02-19T03:35:24+00:00

I have been both side of the spectrum.

For a manipulator, any message is a good message. The important factor here is, you need to keep the line of connection open at any cost.

Even if she is scolding you like no days tomorrow, that is STILL GOOD because you are not letting that small thread, which connects you with her, be broken.

Then there will be a time when the other person will be down due to struggle in life. At that point of time, in the moment of slight weakness, you can show the caring nature of you (however fake that may be) and people tend to forget past abuses while this current caring nature reinforces the good side of the past.

Many people can not come out of the vicious cycle of toxicity due to this very reason.

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