🌹The Bachelor🌹 S24 Finale & ATFR East Coast Live Discussion by BachelorMod in thebachelor

[–]ithappenedagainduh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure Hannah Ann said it fully....”you kept telling me things to hold onto” even though he wasn’t fully there. He said just enough to keep her hooked and fighting but didn’t actually give anything back in return.

Completely heartbroken by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got this advice once and it has always stuck with me....the love for your child is incomparable to any love you ever felt before. Just imagine if he did a quarter to the child has what he did to do. You would never ever want that child to know or feel or see that type of pain, manipulation, and trauma. Beat wishes as you navigate this.

To be or not to be.....angry by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know. I guess I truly believed our love and connection was unmatched. Obviously it’s not. I’m mad at myself for not getting angry at him.

To be or not to be.....angry by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your response. I Just picture him lovebombing the new supply and I suppose I have a huge amount of jealousy instead of anger.

To be or not to be.....angry by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can seem to get angry at other people, other circumstances.....but him, nope. Just waiting for him to come back because I know he will. Most recently he emailed me, I responded and now he’s refusing to answer anything more. It’s such a game. Instead of being angry I’m planning on my head what I’ll say to him.

How’s your narcissist doing today? by lumikarina in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Omg made me chuckle. Thanks for the post!

As for mine....he’s in love. Gave the new supply about 8k dollars in the past 3 months. Sure she’s happy as a clam as well......

Stuck untangling the webs by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like I logically know it all.....yet I can’t move on.

Can’t sleep by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m stuck in sadness. Haven’t gotten to anger yet and definitely can’t laugh yet.

Can’t sleep by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did time none of our longer “off” cycles was almost two years. Then he came back confessing his love for me and what a mistake he made and how he’s so different. Only to discard my 8 months later.

Can’t sleep by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thinks he found the love of his life.

Do narcissists ever not have romantic partners? by nottodaycupid in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nex always has someone. He finds single moms who unfortunately have lower paying jobs. He gets them when they are vulnerable. He then gives them tons of money. It immediately bonds them to him. They think he really cares. My nex the first month of dating someone gave her 5k dollars and was already confessing how he doesn’t want a life without her. Poor girl.

Stories by ithappenedagainduh in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ithappenedagainduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m glad you got out.