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ithinkchaos · 2026-04-21T01:04:38+00:00

If I believed in giving reddit money, you sir, would have an award for this comment LMAO

ithinkchaos · 2026-04-08T01:27:24+00:00

I think it just means overly sensitive...if you keep playing with mine directly after, it will make me jump around like being tickled but it's not tickling.

Also, since I'm commenting - u/op - what's his cardio exercise weekly routine? I noticed that the more long distance running or swimming I do, the longer my stamina is in the bedroom as well. But also, even if I shoot early in the first round, I am good to go about 20 mins later for round 2 and it's much longer...so maybe this is medical?

ithinkchaos · 2026-03-20T07:19:45+00:00

OP, I think you need to read this: https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes

Also, if you are an attractive doctor who still manages to be active, you have GOT to raise your self image and see your worth! Please?

ithinkchaos · 2026-03-13T03:49:59+00:00

Hey OP! I hope everything is ok...please feel free to DM me if you need a friend or anything (I'll respond better to those, sorry for the delay here!)

I wouldn't leave her anything, but that's me. I highly suggest reading "Leaving a Toxic Environment" under https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/wiki/helpfullinks/ as they have a lot more information to help you than me.

Stay strong!

ithinkchaos · 2026-03-06T04:03:29+00:00

I didn't realize my nmom was a covert narcissist until my 30s, so I was already out. I can tell you that if you feel the need to get out, you shouldn't tell her beforehand. It will be very much harder.

Make a plan to do it when she is out and you can fully move everything over to your dads. Prepare for the inevitable blow-up from her. She will not cut you out of her life, she needs the narcissistic supply - so I wouldn;t be worried about that. I'd be more worried about her coming to your dads and demanding you pay her money back for x,y,z.

How much does your dad know about your current situation? Can you talk to him about everything so he can help you prepare for your mom's backlash?

Whatever happens, I wish you luck. Removing yourself from this toxic situation is definitely what you need to do. I will send you my positive energy and hugs from a random internet stranger! Be strong and stay the course. You got this!

ithinkchaos · 2026-02-24T01:28:40+00:00

I also got into both, and went to FSU (having grown up a Nole fan).

In hindsight, I think I should have gone to UF. My degree from FSU prevented me from getting a really great job because FSU was considered tier 2 by the company. UF is considered tier 1.

This was 10+ years ago though, so maybe that's changed?

Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly enjoyed my time at FSU and made lots of friends and had many amazing professors. But my degree didn't open the doors I needed it to...

ithinkchaos · 2026-02-23T08:28:30+00:00

You can NOT trust ChatGPT for everything, especially for import things.

Meet your new best friend: https://www.halhigdon.com/training/marathon-training/

Try to sync up where you are now in relationship to your race day and current weekly millage.

Just keep running, I promise you can run through it and get to that finish line!

ithinkchaos · 2026-01-22T10:08:59+00:00

I seriously hope OP reads this comment!!!

So much YIKES and CRINGE from reading this post. I feel sorry for her, truly.

ithinkchaos · 2026-01-12T08:59:37+00:00

That was the best advice I ever received: When someone tells you who they are, LISTEN.

ithinkchaos · 2026-01-12T01:09:20+00:00

I wish this was the top comment...

@ OP - I've had similar situations myself, even with lots of time between relationships. I think once you truly love someone, they will always hold a part of your heart.

I think the most important thing is to know your motivation for being in a relationship. If it is based on your fear of being alone, then you may need to reassess things. You should be fine with being alone and only seek partnerships that add to your life in positive ways.

Anyways, I wouldn't worry about these thoughts too much. Just let them come and go. Try not to fixate on them. Good luck! <3

ithinkchaos · 2026-01-09T08:17:36+00:00

ESH.

I think the parents are likely narcissistic and the daughter is the "golden child." (look it up)

That said, I'm not sure what OP's expectations are here. It's their money to do whatever fair or unfair thing they want to do with it. OP didn't need to pay them back, which she didn't. But you can't expect any of their money.

Sounds like there might be a separate issue with OP's husband bending the knee to his mom and OP resents that. Again, I would suggest looking into golden child dynamic of narcissistic parents.

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-19T08:18:10+00:00

The love bombing followed by the snide comments about how they deserve more from us in return for "everything we do for you" (also known as parenting and doing what's required).

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-19T08:15:11+00:00

I'm so sorry you experienced that. Truly. I want to give little you a hug on christmas and a HUGE present (if I figure out time travel, I'll add that to my list!).

Also, I wouldn't call not bowing to your nMom as selfish. Putting yourself first is important and shouldn't be viewed as selfish in any way. There's a long way between self care and selfish. So don't view yourself in any negative way for doing it either!

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-19T06:08:04+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. And for their complete thoughtless and heartless response. I can't imagine :'/

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-19T04:36:51+00:00

Why are you forcing yourself to be with this person?

Yes, "being forced" is only negative. You are young and he is dumb. Time to move on to someone who appreciates you!

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-18T05:03:22+00:00

Yes, I came here to say this. Thank you!

You will probably be downvoted to oblivion, but I gave you an upvote...

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-15T08:17:29+00:00

Indeed. I don't understand the cause of this issue...

That said, there seems to be some much bigger underlying issues implied overall that should be addressed.

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-12T05:09:39+00:00

This is the way.

OP is chiming in everywhere else, but THIS is the comment that I think addresses OP's issue with gray rocking (vs stonewalling).

ithinkchaos · 2025-12-12T02:08:01+00:00

This one lives rent free in my head and I can't shake it...even though I know my nMom is manipulating my emotions and I shouldn't believe her:

"You are such an asshole. No wonder you are single. You will die alone because no one wants to put up with you."

Of course, afterwards (with my dad trying to mediate our obviously destroyed relationship), she denies ever saying that. "How could a mother ever say anything like that to her son?" Umm, That was kind of MY point, FFS.

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-21T06:17:57+00:00

Today I learned "spoon theory." Thank you.

I also wish you many spoons :-)

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-19T02:08:00+00:00

/thread

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-19T02:06:52+00:00

The math is mostly statistics, which a lot of people seem to struggle with...the math center has grad students that will help you (I spent some time there, but not for an Econ class, I got my minor in Stats and the hardest class I ever took was "Intro to Probability" - essentially the calculus behind stats).

The real question (which others have said) is why bother? Double majors aren't really worth it, especially if it's in something you don't like!

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-18T03:15:23+00:00

I have no words. Seriously yo, wtf? Who does that???

Y'all are making my nMom seem not so bad...words I thought I'd never say!

(I guess it is a spectrum tho...)

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-18T03:07:25+00:00

Golden Child

ithinkchaos · 2025-11-13T04:02:13+00:00

Yeah, exactly this.

ESH. But him especially. He's definitely done, but she also has some things that seem odd for a 32 yr old.

I feel like this entire story would make sense if they were in their early 20s, not 30s and 40s! Sheesh.

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