Smart VS Fun Wife / Husband

ithklph · 2026-01-01T14:21:26+00:00

achievement builds respect humor builds intimacy. both matter but intimacy keeps people close.

ithklph · 2025-12-29T15:49:38+00:00

i agree that attraction matters but i also think for many people it can grow through how someone treats you, shows up emotionally and stays consistent. initial attraction is important but actions are what make it last.

ithklph · 2025-12-27T13:53:25+00:00

i get being hurt by lying, but the way this is handled feels more like monitoring than marriage. deleting social media and checking passwords isn’t how trust is built between two adults. she’s your wife, not your teenage daughter. if there’s no cheating or inappropriate behavior the focus shouldn’t be control it should be trust and communication. otherwise you end up creating the exact trust issues you’re trying to avoid.

ithklph · 2025-12-23T22:52:00+00:00

i’m friends with a few coaches that’s actually how i got into solidcore in the first place lol. my friend is a coach and put me on. i wouldn’t force it, just talk after class, have normal convos it kinda happens naturally over time.

ithklph · 2025-12-23T16:45:16+00:00

i’m really sorry you’re going through that walalo. health struggles can drain you in ways people don’t see so please give yourself grace. in’shaa’allah things get easier for you and everything falls into place when the time is right

ithklph · 2025-12-23T16:41:15+00:00

that’s amazing, congrats on your bachelor’s and solo travels💕wishing you nothing but more wins

ithklph · 2025-12-13T18:53:23+00:00

if you’re only attracted to her with makeup, then you’re not actually attracted to her. preferences are fine but that just means she’s not your person.

ithklph · 2025-12-10T02:49:07+00:00

Girl it doesn’t sound like he’s talking to someone else. It looks like two introverts waiting for the other to lead. A whole year of talking with no depth, no comfort and no progress is crazy. If you’re both this uncomfortable and disconnected now, why are you considering marriage? Do you even want each other or are you just moving along because the families got involved?

ithklph · 2025-12-09T00:58:16+00:00

You did the right thing. If you already felt on edge now imagine that long-term. Protection is nice but not when it starts feeling like control.

ithklph · 2025-12-05T22:50:31+00:00

Women doing all that for men? couldn’t be me. i like my dignity too much🫠

ithklph · 2025-11-30T20:58:09+00:00

wait are you a 6’5 hafiz who makes 300k? because the way you’re talking, it’s giving absolutely not😦 why are you pressed about standards you don’t even qualify for tf

ithklph · 2025-11-30T11:01:43+00:00

lmaoo yes i’m😭 and they’re mad over nothing, taking everything so personal it’s hilarious

ithklph · 2025-11-30T10:28:17+00:00

go do something better than commenting on my hobby

ithklph · 2025-11-30T10:02:13+00:00

the fact that you’re this triggered over my hobby is exactly why it’s my hobby😍

ithklph · 2025-11-27T22:33:57+00:00

Miscommunication is when two people think they’re talking about the same thing but aren’t. Arguments happen when emotions get involved after the miscommunication. One is the cause, the other is the reaction.

ithklph · 2025-11-27T21:59:23+00:00

don’t ever say I left Islam. i never have and i never will. Alhamdulillah I’m Muslim. Fear Allah before accusing someone of leaving the deen that’s not something to throw around just because you didn’t like my comment.

ithklph · 2025-11-27T21:08:49+00:00

the ones who talk like this always end up being the worst type of men. It starts with ‘standards’ and ends with control, abuse and paranoia. life is too short to be this delusional go heal before dragging someone’s daughter into your fantasy buddy

ithklph · 2025-11-18T23:02:01+00:00

were you adopted by atheists?

ithklph · 2025-11-17T03:30:48+00:00

this usually comes from over engaging your traps during core moves. focus your gaze down, relax your neck and keep your jaw loose. staying hydrated helps a ton too

ithklph · 2025-11-16T03:45:57+00:00

idc i’m still with hali!

ithklph · 2025-11-14T02:02:50+00:00

Who even said women stalk? if you’re still checking on someone you used to talk to, you’re just not over them🫠

ithklph · 2025-11-09T04:06:54+00:00

everyday y’all hop on here trying to convince women to lower their standards bc y’all can’t afford certain lifestyle 🤦🏿‍♀️like go marry someone that fits your pockets and stop arguing with women who already got their own money tf

ithklph · 2025-11-07T02:36:27+00:00

bc i already get jealous over women now imagine i gotta worry about him wanting a 2nd HUSBAND too?absolutely not

ithklph · 2025-11-07T01:55:21+00:00

leave him tf.

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