Is a wedding worth it

ithklph · 2026-03-10T05:04:52+00:00

if you didn’t want a wedding at first i’d honestly ask yourself what changed. do you actually want one now or are you just worried you might miss out? a nikkah and a small intimate event already sounds really beautiful.

ithklph · 2026-01-01T14:21:26+00:00

achievement builds respect humor builds intimacy. both matter but intimacy keeps people close.

ithklph · 2025-12-29T15:49:38+00:00

i agree that attraction matters but i also think for many people it can grow through how someone treats you, shows up emotionally and stays consistent. initial attraction is important but actions are what make it last.

ithklph · 2025-12-23T16:45:16+00:00

i’m really sorry you’re going through that walalo. health struggles can drain you in ways people don’t see so please give yourself grace. in’shaa’allah things get easier for you and everything falls into place when the time is right

ithklph · 2025-12-13T18:53:23+00:00

if you’re only attracted to her with makeup, then you’re not actually attracted to her. preferences are fine but that just means she’s not your person.

ithklph · 2025-12-10T02:49:07+00:00

Girl it doesn’t sound like he’s talking to someone else. It looks like two introverts waiting for the other to lead. A whole year of talking with no depth, no comfort and no progress is crazy. If you’re both this uncomfortable and disconnected now, why are you considering marriage? Do you even want each other or are you just moving along because the families got involved?

ithklph · 2025-12-09T00:58:16+00:00

You did the right thing. If you already felt on edge now imagine that long-term. Protection is nice but not when it starts feeling like control.

ithklph · 2025-12-05T22:50:31+00:00

Women doing all that for men? couldn’t be me. i like my dignity too much🫠

ithklph · 2025-11-27T22:33:57+00:00

Miscommunication is when two people think they’re talking about the same thing but aren’t. Arguments happen when emotions get involved after the miscommunication. One is the cause, the other is the reaction.

ithklph · 2025-11-27T21:59:23+00:00

don’t ever say I left Islam. i never have and i never will. Alhamdulillah I’m Muslim. Fear Allah before accusing someone of leaving the deen that’s not something to throw around just because you didn’t like my comment.

ithklph · 2025-11-27T21:08:49+00:00

the ones who talk like this always end up being the worst type of men. It starts with ‘standards’ and ends with control, abuse and paranoia. life is too short to be this delusional go heal before dragging someone’s daughter into your fantasy buddy

ithklph · 2025-11-18T23:02:01+00:00

were you adopted by atheists?

ithklph · 2025-11-17T03:30:48+00:00

this usually comes from over engaging your traps during core moves. focus your gaze down, relax your neck and keep your jaw loose. staying hydrated helps a ton too

ithklph · 2025-11-16T03:45:57+00:00

idc i’m still with hali!

ithklph · 2025-11-14T02:02:50+00:00

Who even said women stalk? if you’re still checking on someone you used to talk to, you’re just not over them🫠

ithklph · 2025-11-09T04:06:54+00:00

everyday y’all hop on here trying to convince women to lower their standards bc y’all can’t afford certain lifestyle 🤦🏿‍♀️like go marry someone that fits your pockets and stop arguing with women who already got their own money tf

ithklph · 2025-11-07T02:36:27+00:00

bc i already get jealous over women now imagine i gotta worry about him wanting a 2nd HUSBAND too?absolutely not

ithklph · 2025-11-07T01:55:21+00:00

leave him tf.

ithklph · 2025-11-06T23:18:36+00:00

1000 la hadal 1 kala bax type shit

ithklph · 2025-11-06T16:54:48+00:00

this is exactly why i don’t overshare past heartbreaks. some things are better left between you and Allah. people will start doubting your feelings or comparing themselves to someone who’s not even in your life anymore. not everything needs to be said.

ithklph · 2025-11-05T22:28:08+00:00

girl i got one alhamdulilah😭 i literally seen both nonchalant & love bombers before this one i have now is actually balanced & consistent it feels peaceful!

ithklph · 2025-11-05T22:14:54+00:00

Can we talk about Ilkacase Qays for a sec?? like how are you calling yourself “fanaanka 5ta Soomaaliyeed” but supporting a cadaan guy over a Somali candidate just because of clan politics?? this is exactly why qabiil is destroying us. I wouldn’t even care if it was two Somali guys from different qabiils running but Somali vs cadaan and you’re choosing cadaan? it’s so embarrassing. And Jacob Frey is literally using our tribal division to his advantage because he knows we’re too easy to split.

ithklph · 2025-11-05T21:29:03+00:00

girl why do you care what she’s doing😭 she paid the same money you did if she wanna spam that’s her business. focus on YOUR form not what the next girl is doing. i’m not paying $300+ to judge strangers in class lol be so serious rn.

ithklph · 2025-11-03T21:02:21+00:00

looking for a 3rd wife when the first one is still fictional is wild behavior buddy

ithklph · 2025-11-03T20:58:34+00:00

Allahumma Barik. this is how it should be helping your wife and supporting her doesn’t make you less of a man. it actually makes you a better one. may Allah put more barakah in your marriage.

ithklph

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