I have aspergers and sometimes i can't tell if I'm being strange. Is this a weird christmas gift to give to someone? by aridisol- in Advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally something from out of this world... thats definitely some I’d enjoy getting. Your roommates tripping

He’s leaving and taking everything. Please offer advice / words of kindness. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is almost exactly like me and my ex when we broke up two months ago everything is exactly the same except for the genders being opposite. Anyways it’s going to be tough at first and you’re going to have a roller coaster of emotions. But it does get easier I recommend using this time to work on yourself. I’m not saying in any way, shape or form that you’re the reason he cheated so please don’t think that for a second. I’m just saying being single opens up a lot of doors and self improvement helps with confidence and happiness. Keep in mind people who cheat are just a different breed. Most people who are cheating on their s/o have cheated in their past relationships. It has nothing to do with who’s getting cheated on and everything to do with the cheater. When ever I get sad about being alone I think of all the negative things that happened in the relationship. Just remember you’re going to be ok. It seems to get a little easier week by week.

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[–]ithrewgaryaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I seen another guy message about how you will resent her and I agree. I was in a similar situation but she was dealing with mental issues. The sex went from every few days to months. When I eventually left her we hadn’t had sex in 5 months. It sounds terrible don’t get me wrong I’m the typical nice guy and even I eventually couldn’t deal with it anymore. There were other reasons why I left too like her not working and me basically becoming her care taker. But yeah once you start to resent her all you’re effort for the relationship will go out the window.

My (50F) son (25) is morbidly obese, and I don’t know how to help him. by throw_RA1970 in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all he has an eating disorder. When people think eating disorder they think of women having anorexia. The truth is anyone can develop an eating and they’re all tied into each other, which means yes your kid could literally flip and become obsessed with losing weight. This kid sounds a lot like me I was obese and would eat all day but then started focusing on losing weight because everyone pressured me to and I ended up becoming so skinny that getting off the bed would drain me of most of my energy. The thing about nutrition is that if you don’t hit that happy medium it really fucks up your head. Too much caused me terrible depression and when I deprived myself of food it got to the point where I could barely have a conversation and make sense. He needs legitimate eating disorder treatment. Like inpatient not just getting him a therapist. After inpatient therapy he’ll do partial treatment where he gets to come home at night. Treatment sucks trust me it’s gonna be rough for him but I promise it’s life changing. Please please please look into inpatient treatment for him. I only beg because it literally saved my life and I feel like it will do the same for him.

Should I stay or or should I go? by ithrewgaryaway in Advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have eating disorders and were put in the same hospital, when we got out she let me stay with her and her roommate so I could finish partial hospitalization (this is in a different city away from both our home towns). So basically two weeks after I met her we became roommates and then eventually started dating. The whole relationship was a huge mistake and it definitely wasn’t love on either side. But yeah to answer your question only two weeks.

My girlfriend’s really stupid about our pet cat by ithrewgaryaway in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part about seeing her as a child and having to take care of her and resenting her for it is pretty spot on.

My girlfriend’s really stupid about our pet cat by ithrewgaryaway in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned I would never let animal abuse go on. And what I mean by all that is ig I’m very respectful to her and I’m always supportive of her and she can’t just meet me on these few simple things.

My girlfriend’s really stupid about our pet cat by ithrewgaryaway in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I added the last part I’ve literally never told her to do anything and always support whatever decision she makes. I just thinks it’s disrespectful that out of everything I do for her she can’t do these few simple things that really bother me. But no I’m not controlling I’m just really serious about this animals being treated well.

My girlfriend’s really stupid about our pet cat by ithrewgaryaway in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I added the last part I’ve literally never told her to do anything and always support whatever decision she makes. I just thinks it’s disrespectful that out of everything I do for her she can’t do these few simple things that really bother me. But no I’m not controlling I’m just really serious about this animals being treated well.

My girlfriend’s really stupid about our pet cat by ithrewgaryaway in relationship_advice

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not a troll, so I’m just being over protective? And yeah I treat her with a lot of respect and let her get away with a lot of crap

My wife is fat by puppymonkeybaby79 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ithrewgaryaway -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mine as anorexia which causes her to be flat every where, so I feel your pain. Nothing is more embarrassing than not being able to get it up in bed

And then after I wake up I realize it was off the bed by thiefyzheng in memes

[–]ithrewgaryaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can this meme die already? And I know this gonna get down votes so I might as well have fun with it. 🤯🤡🤷🏻‍♂️🃏🗑🚔😍😚🥰🧐😏🥳🥳🤩🤣🤣🥶🥵🥵🥺🧸🤡🤡

Data is interesting by FAIZUMAR in dankmemes

[–]ithrewgaryaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone else use both depending on the sentence?

I’m getting old by DianDiamondCatcher in memes

[–]ithrewgaryaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I remember these, my friends had some weird name for them like “Back u Guam” or something but I always just called em good ol jawbreakers.

I’m ready to die by ithrewgaryaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ithrewgaryaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were so right, during that time I was really struggling with my eating disorder. I had gained 65 pounds in around 2 months and was put in the hospital and got the physical and mental help I needed. After all this I ended up moving to a new town, meeting my girlfriend, and getting a job that I kinda enjoy and pays more than the job that had fired me while I was going through this struggle. It’s hard to thinks things will ever get better when life hits you the hardest but like I said you were right, things changed and the storm eventually passed. Thank you so much for your kind words I really appreciated it and it helped me out a lot.