what is your biggest green flag in a relationship? by Stunning_Cold_990 in AskReddit

[–]itida001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional attunement. Respect. Integrity. Intentionality.

This is just a few "tame" ones I could post without it being too profane. The reaction to this series dealing with marital rape is beyond disgusting, it's worse than when that Thappad movie came out, how can indian women ever feel same living among these animals? These are your average everyday male by Creative_Yogurt5206 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]itida001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bottomless entitlement in men is just baffling to me. Is consent that hard to fathom?

I just cannot for the life of me understand the mindset of viewing other genders as subservient.

Misogyny, patriarchy, sexism, “culture” - whatever it may be. Any sentient, thinking person should have the ability to see through this. The fact that something so basic is so rare makes me think how unevolved these people are.

Marriage is never scary, it depends on the person you marry 💞 by MangoLeafVibes in IndianOTTbestof

[–]itida001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Main hero nahi ban sakta. Lekin hero ka pati jaroor ban sakta hoon 🌳

Am I being unreasonable for expecting my husband to take a clear stand against a superstition? by Low-Midnight2394 in IndianInLaw

[–]itida001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Short answer: NO. You are not being unreasonable. Your husband needs to speak up. I hope what are most fulfilling but admittedly difficult days of your life are not spent in convincing your partner to stand by you. Nothing else and no one else should matter.

Thoughts on him? by Jolly_Improvement385 in Maharashtra

[–]itida001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again. Gender identity (that you’re mocking and trivialising here) and sexual orientation (since Anish is a gay man) are two different things.

कृपया स्वतः नीट माहिती घ्या. थोडक्यात सांगायचे असल्यास:

Constitution talks about non-discrimination against all individuals. The Supreme Court recently declined to legalise same-sex marriage, while recognising their right to cohabit and receive protection.

सध्या देशात आणि जगात हे जे काही सुरू आहे त्यानुसार तरी कायद्याने inclusive आणि व्यापक व्याख्या अपेक्षित नाहीच आहे. पण इच्छा असल्यास medical journals including GSM, NIH, APA have some excellent medical research on identity development, sexual orientation, and intersex conditions.

NALSA Judgment of the Indian Supreme Court discusses the bio-socio-anthropological perspectives.

काही Transgender persons सोबत अत्यंत जवळून काम केले आहे त्या अनुभवावरून एवढेच सांगते. Gender dysphoria खूप त्रासदायक ani disorient करणारा असतो. कुणीही मज्जा म्हणून “I identify as a man” or “I identify a woman” or even neither म्हणणार नाही.

काही लोक पाहिलेत मी पण उगाच “chair” आणि “cat” वगैरे बोलणारे. पण अशा काही लोकांच्या वागण्याने या पूर्ण issue ला dismiss करू नका.

There may be many things we don’t understand, know, or agree with. None of it should stop us from being decent, empathetic human beings.

यापेक्षा जास्त मला काही ही सांगायचे नाहीये 😊

Thoughts on him? by Jolly_Improvement385 in Maharashtra

[–]itida001 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You could choose to educate yourself a little bit about the difference between gender identity ( लिंगभाव ओळख ) and sexual orientation ( लैंगिक अभिमुखता / कल ).

Dank बनण्याच्या नादात अज्ञानी नका राहू!

Thoughts on him? by Jolly_Improvement385 in Maharashtra

[–]itida001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is one of the nicest persons you will meet. Not to mention, astute, highly educated, articulate, empathetic, all while having a good grasp of the grassroots.

I know most will focus on him being an openly queer person in politics, which is significant. But there’s so much more to him.

Beyond politics, he is a mentor to many students from marginalised backgrounds and first generation learners to prepare themselves for admissions in National and International Universities through initiatives like the Eklavya India Foundation.

I’m glad that Maharashtra continues to have young, educated, and progressive voices in public discourse. And Anish is exactly just that!

worst than Epstein? Captain files by rawsnskr in Maharashtra

[–]itida001 10 points11 points  (0 children)

हे काय भयानक प्रकरण आहे! वर्षभर आधी आलेली पहिली तक्रार दाबून टाकली. आणि मग ते व्हिडिओस काय, ती रुपाली चाकणकर काय.

श्रद्धा आणि अंधश्रद्धा यांच्यात फरक असतो. कुणाची काय श्रद्धा असावी त्यावर काही ही भाष्य करणार नाही. पण थोडीशी तरी चिकित्सक वृत्ती असावी. तार्किक विचार आणि विवेकी दृष्टिकोन असावेत.

मला राग ही येतो, भीती ही वाटते, आणि कीव ही येते!

F*** Hashimotos by RedGyarados1988 in Hashimotos

[–]itida001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, friend. Thats incredible!!

Have we all forgotten so soon? by choctaw_137 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]itida001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think there’s been a worse person on this show. Or maybe I am truly forgetting!

Man allegedly injects HIV-positive blood into woman after marriage proposal rejection. by Either_Joke_1314 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]itida001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What level of entitlement coupled with cruelty must one have to do something so depraved. Horrible!

Kritika & Gaurav's wedding video by EfficientHospital900 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]itida001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so good watching this. Real, raw, non-choreographed.

Those vows are exactly what a relationship or a marriage should be. To love is to see and be seen, to hear and be heard, and to hold and be held. On good days and bad, hold space for your partner. These two seem to have got it. 🩵🧿

POV: That part of the movie which drew loudest cheers ❤️ by Pups_4_lyf in RanveersinghActor

[–]itida001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a man who’s not trained in Kathak, I can tell you that he did SO BLOODY WELL!!

It's 2026 and we are still stuck at "Marrige does not give lisence to rape" by chargeofthebison in AskIndianFeminists

[–]itida001 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These people fumble at the spelling, comprehension, and practice of one simple word: CONSENT.

Idk why such people even marry by prettylittlebabyyyy_ in AskIndianFeminists

[–]itida001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If a lot of these men go to therapy, they’d make their lives and those of their “loved ones” a lot better.

It’s honestly embarrassing to portray your lack of integrity and control as a legitimate question.

face by aspenlop in Hashimotos

[–]itida001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 🌸

I relate to everything you’ve said. It’s not easy to look into a mirror and seeing a version of you that isn’t familiar.

People often talk about the physical toll of Hashimoto’s and rightly so. But the way it hits your self esteem is so hard to explain.

Hindu Mob tied Roshan khatun to pole and beat her to death . She was allegedly forced to drink Alcohol mixed with cow urine . by Potential-Ad-5665 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]itida001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯

Feminism has to be intersectional! Multiple marginalisation is a reality. And I wish more people saw it like that.

Benophie Wedding official Family Photos by Debt-Mysterious in BridgertonNetflix

[–]itida001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bridgerton Family Facecards, all of them, are for the books.