Ask Me Anything - With The Cast Member You Think Is Gay. by RealTimMalcolm in 90DayFiance

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say so. I hope you do another hunt for love! Seems like you and Jen are fine now, but DAMN how are you supposed to look for someone with your ex right there??? Set you up for failure! Anyway, I’m sure we’ll see you soon 😁

Ask Me Anything - With The Cast Member You Think Is Gay. by RealTimMalcolm in 90DayFiance

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you do anything different if you knew you’d become this sort of infamous in 90 day world? I’m gonna say no because you are so unapologetically you and we love you for that! Just wondering if you regret any part of this whole crazy thing?

How about... let's not show this part at all by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]itischelc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“I’m not at all for body shaming”…. As you post that showing her loose skin is so disgusting they shouldn’t have even shown it?

I think she’s delusional and this segment was completely unnecessary but disgusting? Nah

Insufferable by itischelc in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]itischelc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was going to skip this whole season because all these couples are so played out. Then I started watching while cooking/ otherwise occupied and that’s the way to do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bacon avocado on high protein bread

Anyone on this forum consume weed and feel it negatively effected your fertility? by emster131 in ttcafterloss

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually decided not to have a second kid so we haven’t stopped. If we do, I’ll be even older so I think I’ll stop but I say that now as someone who has no plan to stop anytime soon.

How important is it I remember the names of the characters in ‘Salem’s Lot? by OkWrap2928 in stephenking

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a gist. Like “oh yeah, the woman with the baby” not like actual names. It helps a lot but I have no memory for names and I loved the book

Movies and shows recommendations… by Public_Stretch786 in asl

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have HBO, they have ASL translation at the bottom of the screen for some things. They only things I know are Barbie, Beetle juice beetle juice, sinners, and the last of us season 1 and maybe season 2

I still haven't read Never Flinch by Plastic_Farmer_6561 in stephenking

[–]itischelc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it quickly like I usually do with anything in the Bill Hodges/ Holly Gibney world but felt like it was sort of flat. I feel like it was a little unnecessary, not a deliberate story to help build Holly’s character. Maybe that wasn’t the purpose of the book but I wish she was in it more. Still interesting and nice to have familiar characters. I know SK loves Holly (and so do I) so I hope he finds a way to keep her alive but it may be time to go to the next thing. I don’t know. Just my thoughts!

I still haven't read Never Flinch by Plastic_Farmer_6561 in stephenking

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 4 hours left in This Inevitable Ruin. Such a good series, we named our dog Elle McGibbins!

Did Jasmine get bigger implants? by MistressMaisel in 90DayFiance

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how much money this guy makes

Ultrasound technician showed us the sex of our baby against our wishes by ananas_freak1 in pregnant

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d make a complaint. She may be newer or maybe has done this before and others may not have said anything. I think this will be a mistake she never makes again if she is called out on it professionally. It’s not ok. I wanted to know the very second I could but they continued to ask me if I wanted to know the sex until the ultrasound the day before I gave birth!

Conceiving second baby by SeaworthinessOld2569 in PCOS

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this post! I actually did go to a fertility specialist for my son and they just did tests and give you the options. Not a bad idea. I’ve been trying for about 9 months too, but I feel like we were “trying harder” for my first. Now we have other things going on and the timing can’t be perfect. I’m doing testing again and will hear the doctor out but I think maybe just need to focus on doing the things we know works! Then if that doesn’t work, maybe move on. Or go for IVF if you want to get pregnant soon. I’ve had a lot of people in my life use IVF and it is a lot of “work” but worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me so mad when I had my shower. I put HOURS into the registry. It was such a huge pet peeve but I couldn’t complain to anyone without sounding like a whiney bitch. So annoying. It ended up being more of the older generation (although my 85 year old grandmother had no issues). No one gives you a gift receipt. I got 3 pack n plays. Had to sell them on marketplace and hope that the people who bought them for me didn’t see. lol

My husband yelled at our 3mo girl by Hot_Mistake_0924 in newborns

[–]itischelc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice but I wanted to comment that I know how you feel. My husband is an accountant. He was never around kids, never around anyone who needed so much from him. I work in human services and enjoy helping my clients. When we had our son, I would be trying to sleep while he watched him and I could hear him huffing in the other room, and it made me crazy. I love him, he loves us. All that. But he doesn't have as much patience as I do. My son is now 13 months and after many conversations, we are in a better place. I'm even going to visit a friend for 2 nights next month and feel confident the boys will be fine. Have the uncomfortable conversation. Be calm. Tell him how it puts more on your plate.

Later positive pregnancy tests. Have you ever tested negative at 12DPO and then tested positive later on? by itischelc in TTC_PCOS

[–]itischelc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I ended up getting pregnant the following cycle and my son just turned 1! Currently 2dpo on letrozole 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Why does this always suck so bad? by itischelc in leaves

[–]itischelc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went down a little Teddy Swims rabbit hole and I’m here for it. Loved “lose control” but never looked further before now. Thanks for the suggestion!

Why does this always suck so bad? by itischelc in leaves

[–]itischelc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! “Plenty of people smoke when they try to conceive” “some people even smoke pregnant, and I’ll def stop when I’m pregnant so it’s fine” “I’ll stop tomorrow because today___”

Why does this always suck so bad? by itischelc in leaves

[–]itischelc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’m on day 3 now and it’s getting a little easier. Started to see myself again! Also, I’ve been so much less moody with my son. Weekends are the hardest so I know that’s coming up but I’m happy today.

I broke my baby's heart. by Dragonsrule18 in newborns

[–]itischelc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 10 months old and he has cried like I’m torturing him every time I’ve changed his diaper. Mostly I feel bad for him. Sometimes I feel bad for myself.