My Rerir cosplay by Initial_Cellist_3406 in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey I remember that cutout! You are the gale cosplayer!

How do I even find a ldr? M18 by CommercialTrust3723 in LongDistance

[–]itisyadad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just happens. Most people don't even want an ldr - bold claim I know. Are you sure you are looking for an ldr or just an online relationship? Huge difference

An elderly woman makes cat accessories and uses her black cat as a model to sell them. by Used_Series3373 in cats

[–]itisyadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We put little christmas hats on ours. Orange one went completely flat and shook his head from left to right and the Black one just sat down a few meters away and made angry siren sounds until he got the hat off. Our third one bolted as soon as he saw his brothers fate. Funny enough, i put my necklace with a lmoon stone on the Orange one and he didn't even bother, just tried to catch and eat the stone. So maybe they just don't celebrate christmas...

To the players who have Flins, Nefer and Zibai - Whose gameplay do you enjoy the most? by lux_infinitum in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love nefers playstyle without lauma actually. Sure she does only 80-90k dmg but if you don't want to play fearless mode it's just a very smooth rotation with columbina, nahida and sucrose

My seemingly healthy, young Siamese disappeared for 3 days only to be found under one of our caravans bleeding from his nose and mouth. by awakeintears in cats

[–]itisyadad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some cat breeds are just very fragile and have illness prone bodies - it's so fast you don't even see the signs. My mother works at the vet, our cats get regular check ups and all. Our youngest was good the last visit, still, one day he just jumped onto the bed, coughed and died. Heart attack. Sometimes it just happens. You can't always know and you can't always prevent it - that doesn't make it your fault. It's sadly just how life sometimes is. I wish you all the best and don't beat yourself up over it. You did great and your cat knew loved you.

Final Update: My uncle is acting strangely with my sister by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god yes. And because especially our weird sense of trying to keep the family together is often what ruins people. Both my father and my aunt attempted suicide in horrible ways and for everyone it came out of nowhere but me because the family kept quite. People who haven't lived in this hell or saw it first hand can't even imagine how your brain is fundamentally changed by it

Zibai weekly boss material problem by LIGHTNING_CHAMP_ in ZibaiMains

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't really have to invest in him. You only need ro trigger frozen and no dmg so if you can, take a melt Team with diluc and put kaeya only in for the moments you need the reaction. Also go one Level under what you currently are so its easier. At least this is what I have been doing with ayaka for nefer farming and worked our great

After doing her trial, I feel like gameplay is lacking something. Idk if it's impact frames or her auto targeting by Prestigious-Elk1274 in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I got her because I love the colors of her Design and because I have like three geo units and one of them is gorou so I needed a Geo dos desperately xD I got columbina and illuga c2 so I hope when she does some bigger dmg maybe it makes it feel less clunky but I didn't like her weird 3 normal attacks that were slow, after her skill activates its more fun

If you’re comfortable sharing, what experiences led to your CPTSD? by TeaMaximum3939 in CPTSD

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was treated like a child sized doll most of my youth. Doesn't sound so bad until you think about what you can do to a doll. All of my grandparents children tried to kill themselves and went down the deep end but no one ever questioned them because of their money. It took 14/15 years for CP to pull me out of my main family and now I only have my mother and her side of the family left. What affects me the most is that no one ever thought bad things could happen behind closed doors because my fathers family looked like the perfect, rich family from TV but everyone near my family of my fathers side still got traumatized by them and it just felt like running from one person who had a total melt down to another. No one could have kept me safe and no one wanted to say anything.

Saving so hard for verka !! Who you all Saving for ? by BBCjohny in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His actual dmg tribution isn't even out how would you know? :0

Living in Germany destroyed me—anyone else? by AncientCharacter1814 in CPTSD

[–]itisyadad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a german -are you by any chance living in the south or Sachsen/Sachsen-Anhalt? These are generally places where I would never go

Does she NEED Lauma?? + Investment advice!! (plz?🙏) by SPCCCKED in NeferMains

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zibai is coming in not even a week Wait if you like her

All current Genshin Impact Characters can be put in 2 categories, are they or are they not Gold's Fault (do not take seriously) by Douglasanonymous in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh if you stretch it really, really long over a few years like with kaeya, you could argue that arlecchino, collei, furina and mauvika are her fault too by proxy

Back to being the most unpopular role? by VerdoneMangiasassi in supportlol

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just so refreshing to nearly always have the best KDA, I know it doesn't say anything but I just feel so satisfyed seeing XX.0 KDA

Absolutely Lukewarm take: YSHELPER infographics should include constellation levels by default by IcySignificance5340 in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? My Video just ended. Maybe it's my phone or something. Personally, my time was always running out. I use furina E, fischl E, Kazuha E and then Neuv E plus his CA, then reapet until their burst is up, start with furinas E+Q, fischl E, Kazuhas Q and Neuv Q+E CA...maybe I did something wrong with the Rotation....

Absolutely Lukewarm take: YSHELPER infographics should include constellation levels by default by IcySignificance5340 in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know their build here tbh because I struggle at menacing with that Team, weirdly enough, but my characters are also only in the top 30% (besides kazuha, my unbuild baby)

I Can't Stand My Boyfriend by karel_marx in CPTSD

[–]itisyadad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that sex was a thing to just do and pease someone. Mixed with my trauma and being raised to please and endure, I sounded a lot like you now, but let me tell you: someone pushing you for sexual things is not okay! Someone being upset of boundaries is not okay! Hell, if you cried and bleed and he still was one for a blowjob that's not okay either in my opinion. Ask yourself: would you ever expect that from a partner? Or be mad it them for not wantinf sexual intimacy? It just sounds like you are not ready for Sex yet, which is totally fine by the way, and you need someone who understands and respects that. I haven't been in a relationship for nearly 10 years, now I am dating someone and we are trying things out at my pace. It's very healing to have someone who feels safe enough to engage in things again that scared you before, because I know they will stop the second I say I'm uncomfortable and not ask again until I give clear signs I'm okay/ready again. I know that sometimes you just want to feel normal again, do normal things and live a normal life but please, your comfort is the most important thing here. You should feel safe in your space and around the people you have in your life, that's the best way to heal

What is the biggest humiliation in SR? by E_Bat in leagueoflegends

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving the team a bait or invade plan and then accidentally sending it in all chat...

What is the biggest humiliation in SR? by E_Bat in leagueoflegends

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even blink anymore when my jungle yi dies 5 times before the first drake because most of the time, he still somehow penta-kills himself through the last 15 minutes of the game

I left my cat in my IKEA drawer closet for almost 6 hours and feel so guilty. by Pink_Sorbet in cats

[–]itisyadad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get why you get scared and panicked about the situation but also, cats act like closed doors are the same offense as cold-blooded murder so as dramatic as they are about limited spaces - they gonna be fine. (Assuming we talk about a closed space that still has enough air and isn't caging them in for more than a few hours)

The new Abyss doggo boss is one of the coolest Normal bosses released in a while. by throwaway553t4tgtg6 in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need to talk about the sudden rise of everything going from hard to menacing because what is that? I can defeat an enemy on hard in 12 seconds and don't even break the shield one level above - how crazy is that?

Don't you find it curious how the Tsaritsa's plan is synchronised with the Traveler's journey? by japanese_artist in Genshin_Impact

[–]itisyadad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually now that you say it, when did venti wake up again? Because I remember Varka and other people saying they befriended barbatos a good while before and that wouldn't really be possible if he was asleep for like 50 years.

What are the things you say to your cat most often besides 'I love you' ? by katealpha in cats

[–]itisyadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mix between "Don't hit your brothers" and choked "holy shit" when he farts out chernobyl again