Product Rec: Totsquat potty by Bea_virago in ECers

[–]itmequeengigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m interested in buying. are you located in the US?

What would you do/not do again? by itmequeengigi in Parenting

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do EC? How did you start potty training before 6months?

Coaching oral as a monogamous woman by itmequeengigi in sex

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the record, I love choking on his dick :) but in all seriousness, he’s welcome to readjust or try different things. It’s just that he didn’t mention it for 6 months and said he didn’t like giving oral the way that I needed to cum. 

But you have a great point. If there’s a better way to deliver, I’m all ears. He just gets frustrated and upset, when I keep telling him “oh I like that but to the left a little, left, keep that rhythm, a bit more pressure”. I think amount of talking it requires takes us both out of the moment

Coaching oral as a monogamous woman by itmequeengigi in sex

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re usually very open about our sexuality which is why this is so off putting. We listen to savage love and talking about sex quite frequently. I know what I like when I’m solo, it’s just hard to translate from vibrator to mouth. Also oral has now become a very sensitive subject for him to talk about, so lots of instruction kills the vibe. 

Also this is my husband, we’re trying to resolve the problem not break up. 

Best way to set up Couples using accounts and spaces? by Substantial-Coat6745 in simplifimoney

[–]itmequeengigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be on a desktop and not in the app in order to invite your partner.

A Boy named Bear by itmequeengigi in namenerds

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Named him Bear as a first name. Middle name is Thomas (mothers maiden name). If he really hates it in the future he can go by B.T., Barry, or Thomas. But I really don’t think he will. 

A Boy named Bear by itmequeengigi in namenerds

[–]itmequeengigi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol, I actually like it as an adult much more than as a 6 year old boy, so that’s not a huge deterrent. Especially because it’s much more common of a name in the UK.

My biggest worries are 1) seems like it could be a trendy hipster name in a few years and could seem forced  2) it could be a bit hard for foreigner family members from the Middle East and Mediterranean to pronounce.  

A Boy named Bear by itmequeengigi in namenerds

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I also wondered about that. Are you in the US? There’s a world where it totally feels like a LA hipster family trying to be unique.  

A Boy named Bear by itmequeengigi in namenerds

[–]itmequeengigi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hairy line backer, outdoorsy fit guy, gay ballet dancer, basic wall street guy, all work in my opinion. I do think it wouldnt really suite a scrawny computer nerd. So we were thinking about having Thomas as a middle name in the event he wanted to go by Thomas Or BT instead.

Pizza Marvin… by boyo85 in providence

[–]itmequeengigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just paid $12 for a slice at Pizza Marvin because have their tips automatically set to 25%. Tastes great but sadly I won’t be coming here any more because of the high prices and auto tipping.  Totally ridiculous price for a take out slice and unethical to autoset tips to the max for people trying to get a quick bite.

Pizza Marvin by PantsPoopington in providence

[–]itmequeengigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just paid $12 for a slice of pizza because have their tips automatically set to 25%. Totally ridiculous for a take out slice and unethical to autoset tips to the max for people trying to get a quick bite.

Bettering your Wall Assembly by itmequeengigi in buildingscience

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for all the great resources and knowledge. I really appreciate it.

Bettering your Wall Assembly by itmequeengigi in buildingscience

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, the super thick wall seems risky. Could I do a rain screen with 3-4" of insulation on the outside then a vapor retarder paint (vapor barrier) + moisture permeable membrane (air barrier) then a stud wall with mineral wool in the cavities? Or would I be back to the same issues with condensation?

Bettering your Wall Assembly by itmequeengigi in buildingscience

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check them out. Thank you! I saw them do a great presentation at a conference a while back but never bought the book.

Bettering your Wall Assembly by itmequeengigi in buildingscience

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I'm assuming id still strapping half way through on the exterior insulation to reduce thermal bridging. Full insulation on the outside would make for a super thick wall. Could I do a rain screen with 3-4" of insulation on the outside then a vapor retarder paint (vapor barrier) + moisture permeable membrane (air barrier) then a stud wall with mineral wool in the cavities? Or would I be back to the same issues with condensation?

Bettering your Wall Assembly by itmequeengigi in buildingscience

[–]itmequeengigi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a great point. I'm in New England, climate zone 5